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The Guy In Your Life... 8 Ways to Know if He Will Be Good For You

1. Does he give you emotional support, give you strength?
2. Does he encourage you to be your own person?
3 Does he criticize you ever, finding fault about inconsequentials?
4. Does he care for you, love you, listen to you and hug you often?
5 Does he and you have good sex and feel good after?
6. Does he confide in you, trust you and value your opinions?
7 Does he communicate with you, open his heart to you?
8. Does he try to “improve” you?
9 Do you laugh at the same things?
10. Do you like the same kind of friends?

No matter what your answers are to these aspects of the intimate relationship you have with your boyfriend or fiancé, they are not very reliable indicators of how your future with him will actually turn out for you, for him and for both of you together… This is because the nature of relationships ebb and flow with the passage of time. People change. Feelings change, and our aspirations and expectations also change.

1. Take your year of birth.

2. Take the last two digits of your year of birth and add them until sum of the addition is a single digit.

3. If you are male, deduct 10. If you are calculating for a child born in or after the year 2000, deduct 9 instead if 10.

4. If you are female, add 5. If you are calculating for a child born in or after the year 2000, add 6 instead of 5.
Born in 1942 (Male)
4 + 2 = 6
10 - 6 = 4
Kua Number = 4
Born in 1942 (Female)
4 + 2 = 6
6 + 5 = 11
1 + 1 = 2
Kua Number = 2

We change. Love can grow… but love can also die.

Marriage has always been a gamble. These days however, the tolerance level within a marriage relationship is lower than ever and getting lower. Gender roles are becoming increasingly blurred. The power balance inside a marriage is also transforming, with women getting more career-oriented and enjoying greater financial independence.

The commitment factor is loosening. Divorce rates are rising.

It is impossible to know for sure how good anyone will be for you in the long term. A complexity of factors affect relationship outcomes, irrespective of the initial promise… but if you investigate the esoteric affinity between you and your potential partner, it might well give you a better basis to make a sounder judgement. Check your astrological compatibility against the answers to the above ten questions and then think through the whole picture of compatibility and you will have a better idea of how things will turn out for you in the future.

Here are 8 important astrological factors to check if your potential life partner is astrologically compatible with you…

1Check if you and your potential partner belong to the same KUA group. This means finding out if you are EAST or WEST group people. You do not need to belong to the same group to be compatible, but those who do belong to the same group will find it much easier to find a house that suits both equally well. If you belong to separate groups, then what is auspicious for one is not so lucky for the other. Good feng shui which helps in maintaining harmony within marriage relationships will then be harder to create.

You are East Group People if your Kua number is 1, 3, 4 or 9 and West Group People if Kua numbers is 2, 5, 6, 7 or 8.

2Check if he has the same KUA number as you, or is in an auspicious KUA number combination with you. For instance, if you have a sum-of-ten in your two KUA numbers, such as when one is KUA 8 and one is KUA 2, then the two of you represent a beautiful whole. You can rest assured that irrespective then of whether you are East or West group, yours is a union which will be auspicious for the both of you. Thus 8 and 2 belong to the West group; 1 and 9 belong to the East group and these two unions are auspicious and harmonious in their thinking. Those with combinations of 3 and 7; 4 and 6 are combinations of East and West group – you are a great support for each other. For sure, you can rely on one another in times of crisis as one will be strong for the other. The combination of similar numbers is not as auspicious as the sum-of-ten combination.

3Check if the two of you have KUA numbers that form one of the four lucky HO TU combinations of 1/6; 2/7; 3/8 and 4/9. When two people within a partnership or marriage have a Ho Tu relationship created by their Kua numbers, the outcome of a life together is very auspicious. Those with 1 and 6 Kua numbers tend to be very clever people who excel professionally in the arts and sciences. You can create a wonderful life together because you have intellectual compatibility. Those with a 2/7 Kua number combination will get rich together, as your life together will bring big money luck for the two of you. Those with a Ho Tu combo of 3 and 8 enjoy great social status and influence. You will have a great future as leaders or as style setters. For some, this can even spell a life of power and authority, once again a great combination. Finally, those whose Kua numbers of 4 and 9 will enjoy excellent business luck together. If the two of you get into a JV with one another, you will be sure to succeed and make good profits together.

4Check if the two of you are astrological SECRET FRIENDS. This requires you to form one of the six combinations of Zodiac signs that make you automatic associates who will be loyal, helpful and supportive of one another. These attributes rise to the fore naturally for couples who are Rat and Ox, or Horse and Sheep. These two combinations are very close and any marriage involving these two pairs of Zodiac signs will always work, as you have a close and natural bond. Pairings of Dragon with Rooster, Snake with Monkey, Rabbit with Dog, and Tiger with Boar are also very exciting, as there is seamless love and support between you. Being one another’s secret friend also means it is harder for outside third parties to drive a wedge between the two of you. There is hence a higher probability of fidelity and faithfulness.


5Check if you and your potential partner are ALLIES. Being each other’s ally introduces the all-important attribute of loyalty and sensitivity. You are sure to like each other in addition to the loving each other, so there is wonderful potential happiness in store. There are four sets of allies, and when you get hitched with an ally, chances are you will have fewer disagreements, as you tend to be very similar in your outlook on life.

One ally grouping is the Snake, Rooster and Ox. These are the intellectuals of the Zodiac. When any two of you live together there, is a great meeting of minds and you are sure to be very happy indeed.

Another grouping comprises the Rat, Dragon and Monkey. You are the ambitious ones in the Zodiac. When any two of you marry, your aspirations and ambitions will be the bond that spurs you on. Building and creating something together will bring you very close.

A third grouping of allies is made up of the Rabbit, Sheep and Boar, and you are the diplomats of the Zodiac. You are sensitive to one another and also to others. This binds you seamlessly to each other, and a marriage between any two of you is certain to be harmonious and peaceful.

Finally, there is the grouping of the Tiger, Horse and Dog, who are the adventurous, the courageous and the rebels of the Zodiac. You have a free spirit inside you that strives to get out of you, and if two of you should decide to marry, you will share a love of adventure as well as an independence of spirit, which draws you closer as the years go by. The two of you can create a very fulfilling and meaningful life together.

6Check if the two of you can create a magical pairing that generates something special together. For instance, the Dragon and Snake create a House of Magic together – the coming together of these two signs is extremely auspicious indeed. The same thing can be said for the Rat and the Ox, who create the House of Industry together. The two of you can achieve anything with one another, thus forming the basis of a great life together. The HORSE and SHEEP are a wonderful pair who creates the House of Passion together. Wow, you sure are sexually compatible!

The Monkey and Rooster create the House of Commerce very successfully. The two of you will enjoy starting enterprises together and have a great time laughing all the way to the bank! The Boar and Dog create the House of Domesticity together, while the Tiger and Rabbit form an alliance borne of shared opinions and causes. These special astrological groupings are incredibly accurate and also very auspicious!

7Check if you have each other’s Chinese Zodiac signs in your Paht Chee. If your animal sign is present in your partner’s Paht Chee chart as the MONTH pillar, it means that your relationship is extremely auspicious, and you will hold the power in the relationship. If your animal sign is in his DAY pillar, you are evenly matched and neither will be dominant. If your sign is in his HOUR pillar however, it means you are compatible and happy to be the dominant one in the relationship.

8Finally, check if you in a naturally hostile situation with each other in terms of astrological non-compatibility. You should try not to hook up with your astrological foe, and this is the animal sign that is located directly opposite you in the astrological compass. The long-term outcome is not good, and chances of the two of you separating or even divorcing is high. The Dragon and Dog are foes; the Rooster and Rabbit are incompatible; the Horse and Rat simply cannot communicate; the Snake and Boar have different aspirations; the Ox and Sheep will always cheat on each other; and the Monkey and Tiger are enemies.

The following article is taken from the "Feng Shui World (April 2014)". To subscribe, please click here.