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Helping a woman who has absolutely no DO or 7K? 4 months ago #39379

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I know someone with a chart like this (26/3/1974). She has a partner of around 10 years with 2 kids. Don’t want to get married. She is against tradition and lives quite an unconventional lifestyle. She home schools her kids but I notice her son is unable to speak to any outsiders and looks very anxious when around other kids, except when he is with my son he is fine - they have been friends for a long time. Does having no DO or 7K mean that she don’t like marriage? What else does it mean? And can it impact on her parenting? I don’t know her hour of birth. She is very stubborn and I tried talking to her about her son’s problem and telling her to seek specialist treatment but she won’t listen and insists she is right to continue doing what she is doing. She spoils her kids and pays a lot of money for them to enjjoy life. Whatever they want to do, she lets them. So her son refuse to go out and mix with other kids and she let him. Her daughter also a bit spoilt and has a similar problem.

She insist her son is just normal and special and different from other kids. When I look at her son’s chart (30/9/08) it says he is a Gui You so he would be naturally quiet... I think. Also according to Joey Yap book, this boy has the Na Yin Death and Extinct in his chart, because he is born in Wu Zi year as a Gui You DM. Is that why he acts like this? I am just a bit concerned as I notice my son is her son’s only friend... I feel it is a bit of a burden for my son as when they are in a group of kids, my son will rather be nice to him and not play with the other kids even though he wants to... because his friend just refuse to interact with the other kids. But maybe I should just leave her be? She is a Bing Yin so she seems very capable and able to solve her kid’s problems right? Not sure what else I can do. She is generally a kind soul. I just keep thinking about her son as he is same age as my son and I can’t help but be concerned. What happens when he grows up and is still like this?

I looked at my son’s chart and my son is a Yi Wei. He is naturally very sociable so the 60 pillars reading seems true. I homeschool also but my son doesn’t have a problem with socialising and has lots of school and home school friends.
Any opinions expressed are just my own and I am an amateur and keen student, learning all the time...
Last Edit: 4 months ago by x78910.

Re: Helping a woman who has absolutely no DO or 7K? 4 months ago #39386

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do u mind to post her bazi map n yours so that we can compare what is the different?
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Re: Helping a woman who has absolutely no DO or 7K? 3 months, 4 weeks ago #39427

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Mine is Wu-Zi Xin-Si Gui-Hai Wu-Wu
Hers is (hour unknown) Bing-Yin Ding-Mao Jia-Yin

Anyway I had a chat with her again.. I am concerned for her son but she is very irritated at me for pointing it out and says she will leave her son alone and he don't need help. As a friend I say okay I respect your wishes and I will leave it alone. In my heart I feel sad that her son is never going to get better and she seems too proud to accept that maybe her approach is not good for him. She say her cousin was like that last time as a kid but is now a famous media person who is pretty and attractive and has lots of friends.. but you know I don't think her son will have a chance of becoming that way. His speech has a problem (can't pronounce things correctly) and weight problem and very very reclusive and refuse to be with most other kids or spend time with them. When he is with other kids, he is so nervous he cannot even look at them in the eye, speak or smile. He won't dare to attend any lessons or clubs or activities unless my son also goes. Really don't know what is wrong with the boy. Mother seems strong and confident but he didn't inherit any of it. And from all appearances, she seems loving and gives him everything he wants.
Any opinions expressed are just my own and I am an amateur and keen student, learning all the time...
Last Edit: 3 months, 4 weeks ago by x78910.
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