Hi Bernard

I am a female born in July 26, 1986 at 5:34pm at eastern time. Thanks

Hi litoxaznxg,

In the next five years your relationship luck will be strong. A word of cautious, your Influence Star is intermingling which could result you in being erratic in nature and indecisive. Luckily your Day Master is strong which will reduce the unfavorable effect. So when you are in courtship you need to be more decisive if not you may find your relationship slipping off.

Another thing is that your Output Star is missing. When an output element is missing you will exhibit an extremely bland personality. You may easily get bullied because you don’t push back when you are push around or get suckered easily. You may be knowledgeable but you just unable to put down your thoughts or express it. You lack creativity or exhibit a low level of creativity and are not proficient in thinking out of the box. You will have problem in term of your personality and communication skills.

For female with the absent of Output Star may face problem with their children. There could be a possibility of fertility problems or indicates poor affinity with children.

Hope this could help you to understand yourself better.

Bernard

Hi Bernard,
[For female with the absent of Output Star may face problem with their children. There could be a possibility of fertility problems or indicates poor affinity with children.]

If she sees her Output Star in the luck cycle like now,will it increase her chances of having children.I also don't have an Output Star,that's why I am asking.
Thanks

Har

Hi har,

Yes it will help but still need to look at the whole chart. The Output element that fly in must be free from encumbrance which mean no clashes or combination. Also the house feng shui must also be taken care of especially your House of conception sector.


Bernard

Hi Bernard,
Sorry I am not very good at fengshui.I thought house of conception is an extra pillar in addition to our Four Pillars (Bazi)

Thanks
Har

Hi har,

Yes you are not wrong but on the other hand`we can use this pillar to help the female to conceive. For example your House of Conception is in the Rat sector so what you can do is in the North2 sector of your house and bedroom remove all heavy storage or items if you have. Your chart may have some problem as your Output element Jia Wood will combine with your Ji Earth and Yi Wood will clash with your Ji Earth. You may need to use the feng shui to help you improve your chances.


Bernard

Hi Bernard,
Now I understand more.I was more concerned all this while about the clashes of my output stars with Geng and Xin that I didn't realised I have enemy in Ji and Wu Earth as well.
Do you want to try to analyse compatibity between my boyfriend and I?If yes, I'll start a new thread.Nobody has really given me a satisfactory answer(not on this forum) although many asked many questions...I am asking this favour as I think you are exceptionally good.Sorry if this is asking too much.
Har

Bernard154 wrote:

Thank you so much Bernard. I can't believe bazi can be so accurate. I always have trouble expressing my thoughts and feeling to my partner. I found myself quite a boring person also that have trouble communicate with others. I recently broke up with my partner that we been together for two years. It is because he said we have trouble communicating and understanding each other.

Bernard by lookin at my bazi is there anyway you can tells at what age I will finally settle down with someone ? I dated since I was 18 but none of them last more than three months except the most recent breakup that actually last for two years and nine months

Hi har,

Your words flattered me, I am still learning and there are a lot of experts here who are much better than me.

It is my pleasure to give you my view on the compatibility of you and your boyfriend and hope that my method of decoding will not disappoint you. Please start a new thread and provide the relevant information, I will try my best.


Bernard.

Hi litoxaznxg,

Indeed without Output you can become a world class boring person but not necessary. In Chinese Metaphysics we talk about the Cosmic of Trinity which comprise of Heaven – Destiny, Earth – Feng Shui and Man Luck – You the Driver. All have the same percentage and weighting.

Now you know your weakness you should exercise your Man Luck to improve on this aspect. Your present decade luck cycle together with these two years annual luck is in your Output element luck. You should take advantage of this and train yourself to be more innovative and expressive with your words. You are the driver of your own road path and nobody can help you but yourself.

Just like when you are in good wealth luck, money will not drop from the sky but if you put in your best effort in your career or business you will be able to see good wealth return. Likewise if your wealth luck is unfavorable to you then you should go on a low profile in your endeavors that are related to wealth. In this way your loss of wealth will be minimized.

Having said all the above, heaven is really good at making fun of us. Just as you are given the Output Star, your 7 Killings Star (represent your lover) is also being combine or taken off by the Output star. Sigh……This year you enter into a new decade luck cycle which see your lover star being combine off. This is the reason why your present boyfriend leaves you. Hopefully the next following 5 years which have strong Fire support will help to strengthen your lover star. Once your lover star is strong it can reject the Output Star from combination and transformation.

Year 2016 is a very strong marriage year for you. Hope that you could exercise your Man Luck to express yourself more with interesting subject and you might find a new boyfriend or may be surprise to see a reconciliation with your present boyfriend.


Bernard

Hi Bernard, Can u help me see mine too?
Right now i am so depress about my relationship. 9th April 1988. Need your noble advice here in relationship.

Please, thank you...

Hi cks999

You keep dialing 999 for help and I can sense your urgency. OK let me slowly explain to you for a better understand of what is installed in your chart.

Yi Wood………Jia Wood………...Bing Fire………....Wu Earth
Ox Earth………Horse Fire……...Dragon Earth….Dragon Earth.

You have 3 Earth storage pot in your Earthly branch, one is storing Metal and 2 are storing Water. Your storage pot is opened and Metal and Water is being released and since Metal produce Water your Earthly branch Water is very Strong. When Water is strong the Horse Fire will also die off. You have a Rob Wealth Star in your Heavenly stem but this Rob Wealth Star is under control by the released Metal element sitting right below. A Rob Wealth Star may rob your wealth and also your relationship star. But since it is now well controlled it will not post any threat.

Your relationship star is represented by Wu Earth and well supported by the Bing Fire. The Bing Fire is important to keep the Earth strong which is also your lover star. Present decade luck of Wu Wu gives you a support in your relationship. But this year is Ren Chen and Ren Water will clash away the Bing Fire which is the supporter of the Wu Earth. Water is flooding your Heavenly Stem which kills the Fire and floated the Wood. Your Wu Earth is like a mountain rock and is flooded with strong Water which indicates that your relationship will be greatly affected and since your Day Master Wood is being floated you are like a zombie. Your mind cannot think and swaying to all direction just like a wood travelling and floating aimlessly. You don’t know what to do because your Wood needs Earth (lover) to hold.

My dear friend, I am afraid this is your destiny and you can only use your Man Luck to save yourselves. Next year is another Water year but the Water is not as strong as this year. So during these two years you may need to buck up and take it easy in term of your relationship. You are still so young take it as a lesson learned and you will turn to be a stronger person eventually. You have no choice but to wait for the storm to go off.

You should see a good relationship luck in year 2014 and only you can save yourself out of the water.


Bernard

Thank you Bernard...
Thats mean there is no use for me to activate my peach blossom star right now. I have a bad relationship this year where i just broke off with my ex. Sorry for my annoyment,
1)can you see how my future wife characteristic based on the bazi of mine?
2)When is the strong probably i will meet 'her' and get married with her?
3) is this girl 24 April 1988 at time 0930 is a good candidates? She is my ex which i have just broke off....
3)infact, i am desperately to root down all this year rather than alone.

Can reply me in email? I am now really need to dial "999" which links to u. T.T
CKS

Hi cks999,

I always mention that you need support from your bazi to see good result in the activation of Flower of Romance. If it is not well supported you will only get false alarm. Since your bazi is going against you I will suggest that you lie low for this present period. You can try it next year when the Water is not so strong.

The likely scenario of your wife character is that she is a talented, talkative and active with a full of actions. She loves to talk back on you but you love what she is.

Year 2019 is the strongest marriage year for you but it can happen before the say period. Actually I will like to cautious you that base on your Day Pillar you should have a loving relationship with your wife but unfortunately it was written in a book that your Day Pillar Jia Wu is one of the 4 out of 60 cycles that is prone to divorce because such person is usually too romantic and flirtatious which may result in some problems in their marriage life. You need to be mindful in this aspect. Btw I don't have any case studies to prove it and how true it is I really don't know. If you are really romantic and flirtatious then you need to be mindful about it.

Your compatibility with this girl is above average but whether she possesses the character of your spouse you should know best

You need to have patient when luck is not with you, how hard you try will not bear fruit. You can follow the trend but not against it. Relax and concentrate on other aspect of your life now


Bernard

Thank you Bernard for quick reply,

She is destiny to marry at the age of 26 or latest is 27. She will bear child at the age of 28 or 29 if not mistaken. Yes, she posses all the characteristic you mentioned but I do not know if she is the one i am looking for because based on this little information, i still cant confirm she is the real one. Perhaps she is just a "false alarm"? And still, she still cant forget her ex. I am not ready to forgo this relationship with her anytime because my heart is reluctant to do so. I have waited her for three years since we dating with each other last time and this time together back is second time but still break off. In her life, there are at least 4 person which she can chooses: older age 1, 2, 5 or 7. I am not even fall into these categories.

Why I am sure about this? Because she has consulted medium and told me this! T.T

Btw, her day element is always attracted to yang earth right? Because as far as i know, she still love her ex which born on 26th November 1985 with unknown hour....

Since I am not in the period for romance, its hardly for me to believe she is the ONE now. T.T

Btw, how many children will I have in the future? I mean roughly...

Sorry for being too annoying, all is because I am too desperate for settling down. and i can tell you that I am a boring guy and know very little of girl in numbers....

CKS

Hi cks999,

Good to hear that and you sound very much positive now. After all her heart is not with you so why forgo the whole forest because of one tree. There are many good candidates out there waiting for you and what you need is the right timing.

In regard to the children question, you need to have both couple chart and also the first child chart for better accuracy. But off hand in your chart you have a daughter which will have more affinity with you.


Bernard

Hi Bernard,

Thank you for relieving my worries. Although I love this 'tree' very much, I will still move on. Btw, you havent tell me how close is her to her ex? ^^

What is my wife element mostly will be? Is she very controlling? Hahaha. This sounds silly but at least this will determine what wife characteristic will I attracted to.

Hi cks,

Your ex and her boyfriend is having the same element Ji Earth. Both will have a lot of argument due to same opinion. Ok we stop here, don't talk bad of other people. This is just to smooth your throat only hor.

Only god can tell you what is your wife element and sorry I am not a god. Maybe my kung fu haven't reach the 9th level yet. hahaha

Bernard

oh....at least it smoothen my 'throat'. Haha....Ok, i feel bad and evil now. T.T

Seems my life is adjusted to be like this. Nvm, I will try to do my best. Man luck is still with me anyway. ^^

thanks Bernard...

CKS

Bernard

Last week you told me when to activate my peach blossom luck. Unfortunately my roommate clean my room and remove the glass of water. Can I just put the glass of water at the north direction? Or should I activate it again with another date? It have been removed two days and I didn't realize it