Hi Saphora,

I've read much about how much people have benefited from your advice.

Just wanted to have some advice from you about my love life.

I never had a relationship before, and I find it hard to find the right person
no matter how much effort I put into socializing. Otherwise, always having
financial problems gives me little confidence to date.

Thanks so much.

25 August 1980 12:16 noon

Dear Kacheek80,



Thanks for calling my name.


I am just an ordinary person, who do like reading charts and having a chat with people, just to have some fun in life. Life is already hard enough to make it worst.


Your chart is indeed very interesting, a double Shen (Monkey) and double Wu (Horse). You ask about Love and Money, such kind of question belongs to a male question.


What is your gender, before I am going to guess?





Saphora

Hi Saphora,

Yes, I am male.

Dear Kacheek80,




Sorry friend, I did answer your post last night, but somehow it didn't appear.


I will answer defenitely your post, it is a interesting case with a 5-6 hours from now.



Thank you for your patience.




Saphora

Dear Kacheek80,



First I must give you my respect. You are a Man of all Men. You should replace me here in this Forum.


What you did is right; you made the right step towards good news by just having a chat with me. You don’t need to show your muscle all the times. You did show the female side out of you and you should do this more often.


Why?


I see only Weapons in your chart; a Warrior is holding three Samurai Swords ready to attack. In Ancient Times you could be a General in the Army.

Your first impressions to your friends or woman are sometimes too cold and hard, it will lead to misunderstandings.
This is your weakness, because your cold Yang emotions dominate your chart.


The way that your Money is located is not a good spot. It is surrounded by exhausted elements. It means your Money is very unstable, it gives you the desire to return that money at fast as possible: more risk.
Other problems are that your money is not safe. When you have money, there is always something happening that you loose it the next day.

I don’t talk about your fast lifestyle. The most dangerous way to loose money is losing from the one you care, like your friends. You don’t have to safe their lives or to be a hero to come up for your friends.

There many possibilities about your money. For example your money is using by others, it could mean you do invest with your money and others use your money to begin a business.

Yang Metal likes to gamble or doing risk investment.


Love, Woman or Wealth are consider what a man will achieve in life.

Like I explained above, your Love is being watched by other men. They always try to get her if they see a chance. In the worst case you will attract to “Women of the night life” or she is already been married a couple of times. This could explain why you spend money to get Love or to buy Love.

One thing I am sure about it, she is not a Virgin anymore before she meets you.


For modern men like us, as long she gives you Love, who cares?


Your future is in Water-season, it promises a healthy wealthy future as long your Talent could transform into Wealth.





Saphora

Hey Saphora,

Interesting reading but I don't lead a "fast lifestyle". Not at all. I hardly go out at night and hardly drink. I don't gamble either...

Dear Kacheek,




Oops, I am totally wrong about you.


If you don't go out, don't drink or smoke and don't gamble.


Perfect!!

You are a Perfect man for every woman. Trust me, if these ladies see this gentle man, they all want you to be their Husband.




Now you have mentioned your weakest point, that I try to high light it.

You are cold as ice.


You are just a Perfectionist.


Everything must be perfect, you need to adjust this and be more flexible in a relationship, otherwise she will not stay long with you.





Saphora

Dear Kacheek80,



Besides the difficult relationship of the woman you love, it previous past was haunted you too.


There are lots of Sorrows and Anger emotions in you chart, it could relate to your Family. It had left you a cold feeling for about the external world.

This cold Sorrows and Anger are prominent in your deepest feeling, and it won't get out easily.


What I try to do is to get you out that Uncomfortable-Zone.




Saphora

How do you suggest I do that?

Dear Kacheek80,


As others could also see that the Wood-element, represent your Woman. It is trapped between cold Metal walls. It could hardly survive, because as you know Metal destroys Wood. It is all right, when a man controls a woman, but it is too much for her.

It means any woman you will meet in your life; she will feel some kind of pressure. It is like her marriage is killing her.
It is not your fault that she will feel that way. Please keep in mind to talk about how she feels and give her also more freedom. You do need to be more gentle and flexible and not to focus on little things and everything must to be perfect in your own way.


It is like: it is your way or it is no way.

A double Monkey pillar in your chart is already cold, and with Yang Metal as Day Master, it makes it colder.

Metal is translated into Emotions: Sadness and Sorrows.
Wood is translated into Emotions: Anger

When it comes into your Family Wealth, they are fighting each other. Your feelings towards your family are also sorrows and anger about the whole situations. It makes you as cold as ice; you don’t believe the goodness of life anymore.

You could try to get Warmth Energy to bring more joy and happiness into your life.




Saphora