Hi Saphora,

ok sorry i didnt know that.

here, my questions

1) for a 'single-mum' chart like mine, what is the best way to have a man that will belong to me and care for me? what if i do not mind not marrying him.

2) is there a possibility to have a man that i can grow old with?

3) if right now i have a need for a man's love, shd i look for one or do not look for one?

4) if i do look for a man, shd i look for one older or younger than my age? and how much different in the age gap?

5) what animal and western zodiac is most compatible with me in love relationship?

Saphora, these are questions for now related to my man luck later i will ask more if u have time and patient for me

one more question..

Saphora why my DOB worries u? what did u see?

Saphora?

i am online now..how long is coffee break?

Dear Eagle09,



I would like to answer about 6-8 picture and explanations for readers to know more about your chart and how I am thinking about it.


But first I will explain a standard Day Master Yang Metal:

Yang Metal DM is: Altruistic - Willful – Adventurous


You are a sharp, sturdy sword, or a hefty battle-axe. Others should watch out when you're ready you take aim! You are a certified, card-carrying member of the Justice League. There is no justice you not fight. You're always ready for battle, because you think life is a prize worth winning. While that's an admirable trait... for army generals, in regular life it would be great if you could tone it down a little and reveal your softer side.


Your softer side that wins over admirers, naturally! The moment you reveal the gentle bunny in you to others (and admit it, you have it), you'll find that others will relate to you better, and never leave your side. For you, it's why be second or third if you can be first? But you may tend to miss out on the fun, the joy, and the smaller pleasures of life in your pursuit of the best and the greatest.
You're a real trooper, and you soldier on through almost anything - stuff that would make lesser mortals cry! Occasionally, you need to feel proud of yourself. If you don't, who else will? You're all about all for one and one for all, and for that, your friends know that they can call on you for a good time, and to help them out of bad times.


At work, you are somewhat imposing and severe. Others may find it hard to approach you because you don't often present a warm and amiable façade. However, you tend to soften op once your colleagues get to know you better. While a sword or battle axe is not really know to bend over backwards in order to avoid slicing through something, in the business world, flexibility is key. The more inflexible you are, the more opportunities you will miss out on. As colleagues, others trust you to fight on their behalf if they've been given a raw deal. You don't tolerate office politics, especially if you see people trampling over others to get to the top.


While you can enter into a negotiation or meeting and strike down your corporate opponents with a few well-measured attempts, this kind of behaviour doesn't really bode well for social interaction with your team-mates or colleagues. Others can forget about hoping you'll show some emotion at the workplace. While others are laughing hysterically over a joke, you may not deign to even pull a muscle. This doesn't mean you don't FEEL anything - you're just not one to usually show it. A sword never cries tears of pain, after all. You tend to "Cut-Ties" with good friends once they've committed a serious betrayal to you. And most of the time, you adopt a "No-Redemption Policy" once the friendship is broken. This attitude needs to be changed. Always remember, in the business world, there are no permanent friends and no permanent enemies.

You are the Lone Ranger in most of the things you do, but when it comes to financial investments, you can't afford to be too secretive of elusive. In matters of finance, being on the pulse of current trends will benefit you tremendously. You're never one to give in to failure easily, and that's certainly admirable! But sometimes it pays to know when to pull out of a particularly problematic situation. Fighting the fight till the very end may not always be beneficial!


You can be overly generous to your friends, and you never keep count. While that makes you extremely likeable and selfless, you need to ensure that people don't take advantage of your finances. This is especially true where your friends are concerned, because you tend to close one eye to bad behaviour. Admitting you're wrong and starting over is really NOT your favourite thing to do. In the case of financial investments, however, pulling out of a sinking ship sooner rather than later is the SMART thing to do.


You are a "all for one, and one for all" type character. There ain't no mountain you wouldn't climb for a best buddy, and you're very much loved for that. But you tend to be a bit severe in your requirements for friendship. Sometimes, a lighter tough is needed or you just might push others way. Unlike your Yin Metal counterpart, Yin Metal, who can be just a tad...selfish, you're often altruistic. You don't whine and complain about having to make a few sacrifices for others people. Most people are surprised to come across your soft and sensitive side. It's like expecting to come face to face with a sharp sword...and meeting a gentle rabbit instead. However, this is not something you reveal to everyone - only to those nearest and dearest.


But bear in mind as well that you're not the only one who can make other people's lives miserable. You're not particularly vindictive or malicious - just occasionally fierce and competitive. The enemies you make, however, may have no codes of conduct or morals to adhere to. Therefore, tread carefully.


Other Heavenly Stars from the 10 Gods will influence this Day Master tremendously.




Saphora

Dear Eagle09,


Let’s me show readers about your chart, I do it in case later I would look back what I had written, it is also for my Bazi-archive.


See picture 1:

The first two Heavenly Stems are the Aspect which the world sees about you, or what you show the world about your personalities.

“Direct Officer Star” is one of the Good guys in Traditional Bazi texts. It is quite good in the first impression.

In the Hidden Stems of the Branch Wei-Goat and Wu-Horse there is Harmony and it is actually good news.

One of the auspicious characters of a Direct Officer Star is that people see you as honorable, righteous and polite person. People see you also independent, take-charge type, planners and naturally authoritative person.

Your Officer Star is “rooted” in the two branches, and it is moderate strong.


However there are many “exhausted” elements which make this “Direct Officer Star” unstable.


What are the “Exhausted Elements” which make your auspicious “Direct Officer Star” unstable see picture 2.




Saphora

Dear Readers,


What are the “Exhausted Elements” which make your auspicious “Direct Officer Star” unstable see picture 2.


As you could in Picture 2, the auspicious ‘Direct Officer Star” had been trapped between Water and Earth elements, and it had been exhausted.


The only support elements are Wealth and Direct Officer Stars.



This is half a part why her Husband Luck is Weak and Exhausted.


In Picture 3 we will look at her Foundations: her Earthly Branch.


The Foundations is very important, it will relate how stable those Heavenly Stars are. It is like pillars of her House, how strong are they and who are all involve.




Saphora

Thanks Saphora,

u do know i am beginning to respect u

i might become ur newest fan

and yup. i do slice up strangers the moment i see tricks up the sleeves but allow pple closer to me to leech on to me. thanks for showing me that abt myself. there is something irritating me n i hesitated to take action. after reading what u wrote i know what i ought to do now. i feel calmer once i have a decision on this matter.

and career. yup. i must remember i am not always right n that i am a woman so be gentle-er and bend it like beckham.

as for bunny. i try not to show it. i dont want pple to think too much of that. i was told by guys that i am all business talk and serious but after a few glasses i am... and then the next day i am back to all business talk

but Saphora.. that has become somewhat of a problem this yr. that is why i am online asking for help. and i dont want to speak to anyone irl abt it. recently there is this undying urge for a man. i was doing alright all the time, without a need for a man till now. and i am beginning to show sign of getting out of control. i dont want this to go on without me in control of the situation. i dont like to be out of control. i have been careful with what i wrote in my text but i will tell u what happened last week during one of my night outings with my friends. i always go out with girls n dance only with girls. but last week 3 other guys danced behind me(can u imagine how bitchy my dance was n the dress i wore), 1 came forward to dance with me and another guy cut thru my dance to make eye contact with me. when i got back to our table, another guy who opened 3 bottles of wine bought drinks n finger food for my table. Saphora, i was flirting. and not just with ONE guy. i was flirting with EVERY guy. but the moment i went to my table, i became unapproachable. i refused to make anymore eye contact n turned my face away when someone came up. i left them in confusion n then i wld walk away. actually i am confused as well. why did i flirt so much n then wont get to know any guy n the next day complain i have no man in my life.

Saphora.. have i got u banging ur head on the wall yet?

i dont understand why am i flirting so much lately. i want this to stop. and i think i have a need for a proper man in my life now.

Dear Eagle09,


When a woman in need, a woman does need Love, it is quite normal.
I will explain why your Internal emotions are unstable.



This is the reason why Bernard and I have to look closer at your 4 Pillars, see picture.
Your Foundation of Life is very unstable and exhausted. It means all your life you have to struggle to find Luck and Happiness.

The other secrets of Destiny are your Health. Destiny Pillars and elements go together with your Health and it doesn’t look good. Your Internal Qi-flow had been blocked; your Immune System is also very weak. Your Blood Pressure is also unstable, such kind of Chart often refer to a “Chronic Illness”. Your Earth-element are dominating and Earth-element is the one of the worst element for Bad Health.




All your Luck is very fragile, it needs just an External Bad Luck in a month or a year, it will trigger the others Sha Energies.



The worst position of your 10 Gods is the “Direct Officer Star”, your husband Luck.
This explain why you had so called “Single Mom’s Chart”, it is almost a fact.

All your Resource elements are hidden, but they are plenty. Unstable Resource could also mean your way of think, this time it refers to your Mentally State and it is not stable.


Your Children Pillar is Water of Fire Wu-Horse and it forms “Harm” with your month-pillar. It means your Children Luck is also not stable.


As you could see your Children need more care and attention from you.

You could increase the Children Palace Luck with the help of Feng Shui, you do need it.


This is just a rough Surface Scan of your life.


I will come back for your current 10 year Luck.



Saphora

ok Saphora thanks

and Saphora?

r u trying to tell me something abt my kids?

Dear Eagle09,



Life is like a weather forecast, sometimes it is cloudy and after the rain the sun will shine again.


Unfortunately your life contains more cloudy than sunshine, it will come a bit late in life.


Based on your Bazi, we can see just 33% of your Destiny, with the help of Feng Shui and Face-reading we can see if there is more concern about you and your children. I don't have enough information to give more usable comments to you.


Right now, I do have a feeling that you could improve your life with Feng Shui. Unfortunately Feng Shui is not my best subject. You could ask others to improve your Marriage Corner.


As we already know, your "Hurting Officer" will hindered your Husband Luck. To control that "Hurting Officer Star", my advice is to listen more and express your feelings less.

Sometimes our limit for bad men attitude is low, it is hard to listen to them, but that is the best way to improve your relationship.



Saphora

Saphora, actually unknowingly u have done a lot already thanks.

Dear Eagle09,




I have seen many bad houses, a house never lies. It is not easy to change Fate, your house needs to change too. When Luck is coming you will see it in your House or maybe changing house.

It is the reason why I recommend to look at your house first, your Future could only improve if your House improves too.


Good Luck with your House and finding new Love.




Saphora

hmm will bare that in mind

so.....i keep my feeling to myself?