TOPIC: Dearest Saphora, Bernard asked me to look for u:P
Dearest Saphora, Bernard asked me to look for u:P
1 year, 7 months ago #14768
i read thru some of ur other posts and they are amazing. this is my bazi and i hope u can read it and advice me(esp on matter related to love). Thanks a lot in advance.
11th Jan 1968, 11.48AM
a little of my backgrd : female, separated from my husband for a few years, didn't file for divorce yet cos not sure shd i and when shd i, have 2 kids, will enter workforce middle of this year after completing a course.
Bernard immediately recognizes your sad Chart. You do need help; sometimes the best help is compassions.
Please do not hire an expensive FS Consultant to guide you, it cost you just more financial burden. Your Chart is more complex than it looks like, it involves 4 Generations. It is not just buy something “Online” and put it in the Marriage Corner and everything will be all right, it is not all right.
It is still a myth for me about your “Single Mom’s Chart”.
Most of the women in the Love-Forum are still in Love. When I see a “Single Mom’s Chart” I have to keep it silence. In my life I have seen lots a Single Moms, when it happened they usually live in a Single Mom’s House according to Feng Shui’s Chart. It is just a conformation about their Destiny.
There is no standard rule about this Chart; in your total chart it had revealed a weak Chart. In a particular Year a normal argument could lead to a disaster in a marriage.
I became more wisely (learning form Bernard), I used tell people about their Single Mom’s Chart in the hope it could save their marriage. After telling them, they couldn’t sleep for days.
In your circumstance tears had been cried, sorrows had been wiped off. It broke my heart to see a wonderful woman who had suffered so much in a marriage.
All I can do is share with you my compassions. There is more in your Chart; I see things (like many of us) that we don’t want to see that in any of Charts.
We can not predict when bad Luck was coming into your life, so you could prevent it. We can only tell in that year your internal Qi had been blocked. It means when the Qi had been blocked, lots of stress will occur.
For example in year 2006, we could say in that year your Qi had been blocked. Stress and arguments were easily developed. That year 2006 was very likely there were tensions in your marriage, a possible Separation. After your Separation you have to move out of the House, also likely in the same year.
I would like to skip those “Unpleasant Aspects of your 4 Pillars”, we go directly to your Feng Shui. If you know the basics of Bazi terms, than I could explain it later to you. All your life you carry the only burden in your life and that is your Date of Birth. Nobody has ever the courage to expect when they had seen a baby cries for the first breath of her life, so fragile and beautiful for the creation of life. Only that child will grow up and had to face all the nasty burden of life and she becomes you as a person.
We can see the sadness and sorrows in your eyes.
Bernard and I could increase your Marriage Luck with Feng Shui, your Luck will increase tremendously when you are living in a Detached House. External Feng Shui is stronger than Internal Feng Shui, in combination of those two, you will have more success.
You are not the only one who I have met in my real life; actually I had met many like your circumstances. Coincidence her marriage I couldn’t save and she had carried another burden in her life: her sick child.
If you have any question, I would like to answer them. Please do not worry; there is no time limit for you here in this room. So please feel free to ask anything you want.
Re: Dearest Saphora, Bernard asked me to look for u:P
1 year, 7 months ago #14788
Thanks Dearest Saphora
hmm, lets start with man luck? cos recently i have been going out with friends (girls who are divorced n ard my age) and they all have bf except me. its a torture, truly. to see them in the mood of love with someone they fancy makes me feel out of place.
As you now Feng Shui won't work overnight, maybe I should put a sign " Saphora's Love for Hire" and OMG it is free.
Lately I am lonely too, it is a torture, you know. I should give you my mobile number, FS purpose only.
Re: Dearest Saphora, Bernard asked me to look for u:P
1 year, 7 months ago #14820
btw my DOB is correct. can u share with me why u worry?
and the next question is: u can tell me what u saw in my bazi, is ok i can take it(braving up) and then yes i need fengshui and man luck and heaven luck enlightenment from u n Bernard becos i dont know much actually.
The best way to comfort you is to answer some questions:
You cannot dance like him, right?
You are not as rich as him, right?
You are not a pilot, right?
You are not as famous as him, right?
And surely you are not a movie Hollywood Star, right?
Than I could conclude that you don't have to worry anything.
Unfortunately you couldn't understand Bazi otherwise I could explain about the Qi-movements of his Son. It is a beautiful subject.
You seem to worry about your Son, please tell more about him, he is not Sick I hope? I didn't know you have a son either. In John's case, his Son had 'Autism".
He might a bit naughty, but it is normal.
This is the reason why you could ask Bernard to look at your Houseplan to confirm that there is not Sha Sector or External Sha Energy around your House. Feng Shui could improve your Husband Luck as well, but it needs time to be matured.
I understand it, in real life I am also with a friend of mine. He is doing the 8 Mansions Feng Shui part like Bernard and I am doing the Bazi part. Feng Shui and Heaven must be one.
Because you don't ask questions, I don't know where to start. In a Bazi Chart, lots of angle of interpretation possible. I can write a whole book about you, it doesn't fit in a thread like this.
This time I will start with my perspective, I try to make it short.
The priority of importancy:
- Children Luck and Inner Emotions
- Understand about your Yang Metal DM as a woman
- Expression in conflict with Husband Luck
- Foundations of life
- Currently 10 year Luck
- The Future related to Husband and Children