Hi Saphora,

i read thru some of ur other posts and they are amazing. this is my bazi and i hope u can read it and advice me(esp on matter related to love). Thanks a lot in advance.

11th Jan 1968, 11.48AM

a little of my backgrd : female, separated from my husband for a few years, didn't file for divorce yet cos not sure shd i and when shd i, have 2 kids, will enter workforce middle of this year after completing a course.



and PS:Bernard recommended u to me

Dear Eagle09.



First I would like to thank Bernard, he knows if I am running out of Love I probably will be extincted, thanks for that Bernard.


My Yang Fire is lately a bit cloudy, he knows that.


I will come back for more, I do need to light my Fire.





Saphora

Thanks!

Dear Eagle09,


Bernard immediately recognizes your sad Chart. You do need help; sometimes the best help is compassions.


Please do not hire an expensive FS Consultant to guide you, it cost you just more financial burden. Your Chart is more complex than it looks like, it involves 4 Generations. It is not just buy something “Online” and put it in the Marriage Corner and everything will be all right, it is not all right.


It is still a myth for me about your “Single Mom’s Chart”.

Most of the women in the Love-Forum are still in Love. When I see a “Single Mom’s Chart” I have to keep it silence. In my life I have seen lots a Single Moms, when it happened they usually live in a Single Mom’s House according to Feng Shui’s Chart. It is just a conformation about their Destiny.

There is no standard rule about this Chart; in your total chart it had revealed a weak Chart. In a particular Year a normal argument could lead to a disaster in a marriage.

I became more wisely (learning form Bernard), I used tell people about their Single Mom’s Chart in the hope it could save their marriage. After telling them, they couldn’t sleep for days.

In your circumstance tears had been cried, sorrows had been wiped off. It broke my heart to see a wonderful woman who had suffered so much in a marriage.

All I can do is share with you my compassions. There is more in your Chart; I see things (like many of us) that we don’t want to see that in any of Charts.

We can not predict when bad Luck was coming into your life, so you could prevent it. We can only tell in that year your internal Qi had been blocked. It means when the Qi had been blocked, lots of stress will occur.

For example in year 2006, we could say in that year your Qi had been blocked. Stress and arguments were easily developed. That year 2006 was very likely there were tensions in your marriage, a possible Separation. After your Separation you have to move out of the House, also likely in the same year.


I would like to skip those “Unpleasant Aspects of your 4 Pillars”, we go directly to your Feng Shui. If you know the basics of Bazi terms, than I could explain it later to you. All your life you carry the only burden in your life and that is your Date of Birth. Nobody has ever the courage to expect when they had seen a baby cries for the first breath of her life, so fragile and beautiful for the creation of life. Only that child will grow up and had to face all the nasty burden of life and she becomes you as a person.

We can see the sadness and sorrows in your eyes.


Bernard and I could increase your Marriage Luck with Feng Shui, your Luck will increase tremendously when you are living in a Detached House. External Feng Shui is stronger than Internal Feng Shui, in combination of those two, you will have more success.


You are not the only one who I have met in my real life; actually I had met many like your circumstances. Coincidence her marriage I couldn’t save and she had carried another burden in her life: her sick child.


If you have any question, I would like to answer them. Please do not worry; there is no time limit for you here in this room. So please feel free to ask anything you want.





Saphora

OMG!

so what to do with a bazi like mine if i want to have a guy to care n love me?

Dear Eagle09,



Please do not worry, I just rewind the unpleasant past of yours. I try to let you know that all what happened in the past was not your fault: it is just we called it “real life”.


I do like your directness, a typical “Yang Metal DM”, courage and unbendable.

The coming 20 years there are just two years or two directions you could use it optimal.
Your Chart is more complicated than just using standard Feng Shui.

The two years are You (Rooster) and Shen (Monkey), or West and South West 3. Other combinations are possible, but the gap is very small. Use this information to increase your Feng Shui Luck.


The main problem is in the month-pillar located in Heavenly Stem as in the Earthly Branch: your “Hurting Officer Star”.

The problem of this Star is “locked” with all your Earthly Branches and almost impossible to relocate of distract it or even combine it.

To make long story short:

You will never lonely, you are still in Love-period. That’s wonderful news. You always be attracted to men in your life, unfortunately it won’t last long.

You could find a stable and a harmonic FS house; we could help you with it. We do it not for you, but also for your children. They do need more help than you.

The other good news in your chart is there is “Output”, or escape from problems. This is very important for a woman: finding way out of the crowds.


Please remind yourselves about your weakness: Hurting Officer. It is in conflict with your auspicious Husband Star: Direct Officer Star.

You may ask yourselves who hurts who? The answer is: Nobody.


It is your Internal Sub-consciousness; it contains so much unstable Energy, like Radioactive Energy. It will somehow absorb your entire husband good Luck and turn it into some kind of bad Energy.

It is very important to break that “Spell” of you is: Listening.


As Yang Metal DM it is not easy to do that by listening: your weakness.



To improve your Husband Luck, there is lots work to be done.


Where do want first to start, with Feng Shui Luck, Man Luck or Heavenly Luck?




Saphora

Thanks Dearest Saphora

hmm, lets start with man luck? cos recently i have been going out with friends (girls who are divorced n ard my age) and they all have bf except me. its a torture, truly. to see them in the mood of love with someone they fancy makes me feel out of place.

Dear Eagle09,




Hmm, yes, lets start with man luck!


As you now Feng Shui won't work overnight, maybe I should put a sign " Saphora's Love for Hire" and OMG it is free.
Lately I am lonely too, it is a torture, you know. I should give you my mobile number, FS purpose only.


Anything else or do you have something in mind?




Saphora

But Saphora....
r we in the same country..?

and u shdnt give me ur number...i doubt i can handle myself, meaning i might try to seduce u hah:P

so back to improving my man luck, is there any chance i can have a guy who will cherish me n makes me feel alright again soon? like say this yr perhaps? cos i doubt i can stand it any longer.

Dear Eagle09,



As I said Feng Shui needs time to mature, but in the meantime you can seduce me anytime and anywhere you want.


Back to FS:

A serious relationship takes time. This year is not a good year to start a relationship. A good year should be in 2017, your Husband Luck is at highest point.

Before that surely there will be enough admires who attracts to you because you are still in a good 10 year Luck for romance.

If your DOB is right, I should worry more than just finding a Romance.

Your children need your care and love, that’s high priorities.


With Feng Shui Luck you could use the 8 Mansions Feng Shui, and a friend of mine could help you with it he is the expert with this type of Feng Shui: Bernard.


Next question?



Saphora

Saphora u r so funny

and yes my DOB is right, why that will cos u to worry more than just romance?

umm Saphora..?

someone told me that i have 3 direct officers in chart and 0 7-killings, so does that mean i might have 3 marriages?

dont laugh but u did say 'next question'

umm Eagle09.?



Hahahaha. This is the first time since I joined this Forum I did laugh with tooth-pain, I must say what a feeling!


Well, One Direct Officer who makes children for you and now you are now single.


Do you want three times a "Single Mom's"? No? Than you need to use Feng Shui to reduce that possibility, again I recommend you to listen to Bernard.



Last question? This time I try a different question, maybe it works.



Saphora

Dear Eagle09,


Bernard recommended you to me, I would not disappoint him.



Although you probably know everything about Feng Shui and Bazi and you do not require for more.

As I told you before, if your DOB is right, I will take this case also seriously. The knowledge of Bernard is priceless and we are willing to help you.


You are now here and the Love-forum is not so busy, so I have time to show you another case which I just read a few minutes ago.

There were much written about him, only just a few words how he became famous. I will show readers and you more about this case in my own perspective. I could write this case in the room “Fame”.


His name is John Travolta born on 18 February 1954, 2.50 pm.

This case is not about him, but about the Death of his Son, who had died on 2 January 2009. This is not Coincidence.


Although this case has nothing to do with your case, but Bernard and I take such kind of Chart quite seriously. I must admit his recommendation overwhelmed me, because we just say hello just once.




I’ll Back.



Saphora

SAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAPHORA!!!!!!!!!!!!!

U MEAN MY SON GOING TO DIE????????

btw my DOB is correct. can u share with me why u worry?

and the next question is: u can tell me what u saw in my bazi, is ok i can take it(braving up) and then yes i need fengshui and man luck and heaven luck enlightenment from u n Bernard becos i dont know much actually.

Saphora,

when u will be back?

Dear Eagle09,



The best way to comfort you is to answer some questions:


You cannot dance like him, right?
You are not as rich as him, right?
You are not a pilot, right?
You are not as famous as him, right?
And surely you are not a movie Hollywood Star, right?


Than I could conclude that you don't have to worry anything.


Unfortunately you couldn't understand Bazi otherwise I could explain about the Qi-movements of his Son. It is a beautiful subject.



You seem to worry about your Son, please tell more about him, he is not Sick I hope? I didn't know you have a son either. In John's case, his Son had 'Autism".

He might a bit naughty, but it is normal.



This is the reason why you could ask Bernard to look at your Houseplan to confirm that there is not Sha Sector or External Sha Energy around your House. Feng Shui could improve your Husband Luck as well, but it needs time to be matured.




Saphora

Hi Saphora,

Bernard said he can only help with fengshui after ur diagnosis of my bazi.

Dear Eagle09,



I understand it, in real life I am also with a friend of mine. He is doing the 8 Mansions Feng Shui part like Bernard and I am doing the Bazi part. Feng Shui and Heaven must be one.



Because you don't ask questions, I don't know where to start. In a Bazi Chart, lots of angle of interpretation possible. I can write a whole book about you, it doesn't fit in a thread like this.


This time I will start with my perspective, I try to make it short.

The priority of importancy:


- Children Luck and Inner Emotions
- Understand about your Yang Metal DM as a woman
- Expression in conflict with Husband Luck
- Foundations of life
- Currently 10 year Luck
- The Future related to Husband and Children



I'll Back soon, need a coffee.



Saphora