Hi there,

If I can ask the following, I got no luck of and I just wish to know if there is hope at all:
1) Marriage/Love - no luck at all :..(
2) Wealth - as much as I tried, it disappear even faster
3) Carreer - is there a curse in my bazi that each time I succeed a project there will be someone being jealous of what I do and I am always involved in a political environment which I dun like, sometimes i retreat over injustice system (ie, my superior will get upset if the boss praise me, but which I share my joy with them and yet my superior will try means and ways to put me down)...I think I am cursed with this my entire working life I have been posted overseas and now going back to S'pore and I wish I can stop being posted again tiring.
4) Is being a hotelier a suitable job for me base on my favorable element ? Shud I venture other alternative base on my favorable element?

So sorry for being lengthy, but I wish I know how to use more short forms to make it shorter. Appreciate your advice very much.

Sincerely,
RQ

DOB: 4 July

Dear Ruiqio,



Thank you having confident in me. You already know what to do about calling my name and I surely be there for you.



Your charts is not too bad, let's us start with Love.


When I look for Love in your chart, I often look for an Auspicious Direct Officer Star, your husband Star. If it didn't exist, than the second choice is the Inauspicious husband Star " 7-Killing Star".


Weel, during your current 10 year Luck, indeed there is a big chance you will get married. Most of the woman I know, they do all married, except with me. So do you soon.


During that 10 year Luck it is in a Wood-season. Your auspicious Husband Star is a Wood-element, so he will in good Luck too.


Although the next few years the Wood-season will pass away, but you are till 50 yo still in Wood-season. That is almost 20 years of Husband luck.



Who is that Lucky guy, do you already meet him?




Saphora

Sounds promising and thanks for giving me hope, I will keep a look out for him then. Is it bad to have inauspicious husband star? I m worried already :,(

Dear Ruiqio,




1) Marriage/Love - no luck at all


**One thing it is very sure, you will never lonely. There are many admirers for you, unfortunately they are all hidden. You need just one Direct Officer comes into surface than, BAM! Wedding!

Please accept his proposal during this auspicious 10 year Luck.

You have also understand that there are two 7-Killing stars hidden under your Spouse and Children pillars. After 39 years old, there is another one hidden. It means there will be potential more admirers than you might think. As long they are hidden, your husband will never find out. There is a Wood-combination, it means there is potential for “Secrets Friends”, I hope I am not one of them; it could be troubles in your marriage if he finds out of course.


When you were born, they called that day as ”Sky Happiness Day” or “Completion”, it means good for arrange Marriage. It also refers as “ Heaven Annals record Ten Thousands Things”. The day you were born, are written in the Heaven God’s Diary.

Coincidence your 9 Star Ki number is 2-7-9. It is a good combination.



2) Wealth - as much as I tried, it disappear even faster

**Lucky you! If it disappears even faster, it means you know how to spend money. Yes. Indeed although your wealth is not too bad, but indeed you spend more than to earn.

Your “Indirect Wealth” is supported by your strong “Eating God”, it means you know how to enjoy life, that’s good news. The other good news is your Indirect Wealth is “Rooted” and Supported by the “Resource elements”. Your “Eating God” is also rooted; it means you really know how to enjoy life and all the fine things in life.
He, if you win the Lottery please go have a diner with me in Hong Kong 5 stars Restaurant, oke? I do know a very good “Sea-food restaurant” there. Maybe, after a good diner, the night is still young, so why not?

There is also an Auspicious ‘Direct Wealth”, it means you can easily earn some money to spend it again. That’s healthy, spend what you earn, and enjoy what you have worked hard for. Life is short and life at its fullness, right?

There are two “Traveling Horse Star” in your chart, again spend money to travel. Maybe we meet us again in Hong Kong, see you that picture too? I do like traveling too, with my bike to the rail-way station.


Your retirement is in Water-season, Water is your Wealth-element. Your Yang Earth DM will support by an Auspicious Star “ Direct Resource Star”, it promises a good retirement.



3) Carreer –

**Wood element is your boss; your “Eating God” is your talent. Your Yang Metal has the intention to chop this Wood down. You are just talented, and he feels a bit “tension” and unsure of his own position.

Boss never likes the “Eating God” for that reason. Don’t worry you are still in a “Direct Officer” period. They can not do any harm to you. As long you are makeing money for him, he will be nice to you. Surely he does feel your talented threat, it is just bluffing from him. You have Water-elements in your chart, it means he will get over it about those threats of your talents.

Being posted overseas is one of your “Traveling Horse Star”, more travel and enjoys life.



4) Is being a hotelier a suitable job for me base on my favorable element ? Shud I venture other alternative base on my favorable element?

**You are current is a Wealthy period, make a wise decision and everything will be all right. This year I can not see any threat in your chart, so be patient and it will be fine.




Saphora

Thanks kind one!!! A piece of mind now I bet the seafood back home taste just as nice )

Will try to learn more on this topic myself, then I can help others too...cos I was told I am abit slow at times, will seek the gurus in here for guidance.

No more questions, and I appreciate Ur time!!!!!

Hugzzzz
RQ

p/s : I bought books frm LT and JY but the more I read the more I panicked and confused, you summarize my chart linking all the dots in my head, I m very very grateful

Dear Ruiqio,


I am not sure if I already have written about DM Yang Earth, this is just general, it depends how other elements influence your personality.


In General about Yang Earth: Trustworthy, Stable and Responsible

When you think of Yang Earth, think imposing rocky mountains, or huge boulders, and pebbles and rocks. You are a mountain, Yang Earth, and you will not budge. People come to you for good counsel, a shoulder to cry on, and oodles of wisdom. However, while you may be wise where others are concerned, you tend to lack this quality in your own matters! If your mother gives you one perspective, and your grand-aunt with another, and your best friend with another one completely - you will listen them all and give too much thought to each one, without listening to yourself. Is someone asks you, ?What do you think about this?" you are likely to respond, "Well, I feel that the colors purple and neon green shouldn't be put together" Bottom-line: it's all about the feelings in you.
Yang Earth people are susceptible to loneliness. Just like a mountain on its own, sometimes they find it hard to find the right person to express their feelings to. They may be surrounded by friends, by none to whom they can feel Really close. While you appear still, stable, and calm, you can be a riot of tumultuous emotions inside. People close to you are the ones privileged - or disadvantaged! - enough to see your true emotions for what they are.


You are discreet and honour other people's secrets highly, but you are also committed to upholding morals. The closer people get to you, the more ready you are to reveal who you really are. Bringing your dreams to fruition revolves a lot of cultivation and groundwork. Just like you would never marry a girl or guy if you didn't at least know them for a number of years - producing your talents for the world to see takes some time. Just don't need to reveal it at some point or other...and sooner, rather than later!.
At the workplace, you're an ironclad stalwart of silence to some, and a keen, funny, gregarious soul to others. What causes the difference? How much you trust each of your colleagues! Trust is the key factor that leads you to be comfortable with them...or not. The problem is, if you don't trust your boss or superiors at some gut level, you are likely to keep your relationship to a bare minimum of interaction. This could have serious implications on your career, depending on your job role.

You are an honest, upright worker - and no matter what, will get the work done. But be careful that you're not smiling too much that others start to take advantage of you. If your colleagues are fobbing off work on you under the pretext of doing you a favor, you know you're in trouble and it's high time to make a change!

As a leader, most people like you - but it might take some more effort to get them to respect you, especially the louder, boorish ones! You need to be steadfast with your principles and apply them in all situations - no excuses for those who are your "friends". Sometimes, you need more than a calculator to help you out with money management. Don't be afraid to ask for help - it's a lot easier than having to dig yourself out of debt in the future! The world cannot always come to you, sometimes you must go to the world! Otherwise, opportunities will pass you by. While you're always keen on getting what you want, and will somehow get it - and have no regrets - it wouldn't hurt to take more initiative.

When it comes to money and you, mum's the word! You rarely reveal your investment plans to others and guard your proceedings protectively. Feelings are good, when you're painting a portrait, composing a poem, or directing a firm. But when thinking up money management strategies? Not so much. It will be better for you to find a way to isolate your emotions from whatever strategic planning you undertake. Because feelings so often enter the picture, you see no harm in mixing money with friendship and relationship, which could lead to greater problems in the future. You need to ensure that you don't become too comfortable loaning money out to others, or borrowing money for that reason!

You are a born investor, but quite possibly you weren't aware of that. Capitalize on your natural instincts to build or grow your money, but do your research the various forms of investment you can get involved in before you try your hand at anything.
You should not be afraid of change, because what else is change except a change in something that you're used to? It should not daunt a Yang Earth! Therefore, the more ready you are to embrace change, the easier it will be to become comfortable in all sorts of investment opportunities.

People tend you find you quite likeable - or shall we say, even downright loveable! - once they get to know you better. While you may initially present a placid, docile front, once they spend some time with you they might find out that you're literally quite the devil in disguise! Others find it easy to confess to you, and sometimes you're privy to m ore information than you'd like to have! Your shoulder to cry on is usually quite wet at this point. Ain't no mountain high enough to keep you from comforting those you care about the most. However, people should beware the wrath of the wronged Yang Earth! There is nothing scarier than your anger - and when it's roused, you tend to let loose in the most overwhelming way. Think of a volcanic eruption. A better idea might be to feel your anger in normal, smaller doses regularly, instead of smiling down your resentment and then letting it loose one fine day.

You are very empathetic and trustworthy, but sometimes a little white lie or two wouldn't hurt! There is no reason to always tell the truth, especially if it tends to get you into trouble sometimes. You're very devoted to your romantic partner, and will go to the ends of the earth to ensure that he/she is okay. But just like the mountain expects all people and living things to come to it, you can be sometimes be somewhat jealous and possessive. You can always be counted on for a few good laughs with your oldest friend, and are a lot more aware and wise to ways of others than you let on to people.


Enjoy reading! I just started, let’s me see if I can write more about you.



Saphora

Whoah, how one DM can summarize a person, entirely true.

I did a little homework on my chart as well, hope you can advice, only if you have time to spare, so that i know which area i can improve on:

1)I belong to Strong Yang Earth - means a stubborn and i need to work on this

2)An industry that relates to Water, Wood and Metal will be preferable for me

3) Tiger+Snake+Monkey combi is bad, though not complete in my chart but it is possible to form a clash still, like next year (2013)
-the fire penalty, is there a posibility for my case?
-ungrateful punishment, this happens yesterday where it is a yin fire day and i got a ungrateful message received, this is no coincidence

4)Wu+Gui combi, read this frm some site that says its good but on another book it says non-merciful, need some advice

5)Gui water (hai) at hour pillar means one behave in a childish manner, and love children.

6)Monkey+Pig means i am lack of family luck

RQ

Dear Ruiqio,



Now, I am also in Trouble too.



Let’s me try to answer some questions for you.

1)I belong to Strong Yang Earth - means a stubborn and i need to work on this

**Your personality is Perfect for a Yin Wood DM, see!? Just find a good combination and Harmony will come.




2)An industry that relates to Water, Wood and Metal will be preferable for me


**Although you are born in Fire season, but your total DM Strengths points are low. It means you will be distracted to many other things in life.
Same Gang = 74 and Opposite Gang = 204.


Your Talent Metal is moderate strong; your Wealth (Water) is also moderate strong. Although they are not in season, but they are Rooted in the Stems and they are supported by the Resources elements.

Water has the higher Priority. Why? You already have a “Five Elements Chart”, there is good flow for transformations.

The Clash Wood and Metal means those two elements are more difficult to transform. Water element could act as an Intermediate Element to bring Peace between those two. Your current 10 year Luck is a Wood-element, so Water will support that Clash and support your 10 year Luck.

Wood is fuel for Fire and Fire will support your Yang Earth DM, because a Clash will cost lots of energy, you do need support for extra Resources.

Five Elements Chart is harder to decode, because there is transformations of the Qi-flow.


3) Tiger+Snake+Monkey combi is bad, though not complete in my chart but it is possible to form a clash still, like next year (2013)
-the fire penalty, is there a posibility for my case?

**In Chinese Astrology, they call it the “Coaching Post of Four Directions”. It means lots and far Traveling. I bet that you will make lots of travel overseas in 2013. Maybe we will see each other in Hong Kong or in Macau. I do like to bet too.

Imagine that I use the I Ching tossing the coins to bet, if it is a good Hexagram than I increase my bet. I don’t think they allow me to toss the Chinese Coins on the bet table.

BTW, Fire will increase by the Fire-penalty, but you have enough Water to cool it down by Traveling and there is Earth in your chart to have a good transformation. It will be all right. Yes, if you don’t have a “Five elements Chart”, it will be harder.


-ungrateful punishment, this happens yesterday where it is a yin fire day and i got a ungrateful message received, this is no coincidence.


**You are still young, and having a good flow, surely the stress is there, but it will disappear quicker than you might think.



4)Wu+Gui combi, read this frm some site that says its good but on another book it says non-merciful, need some advice .

** This an extra Fire-element in your chart, when the transformation of Water into Fire, you loose a Water element to cool your chart down. Water element is for you Wealth, it means you spend more than you earn. It means Wealth disappears quicker. It happens between the Tiger and Pig pillar, it means the foundation is in Harmony. Although lots of spending, but your wealth will not dry out due to that Total Harmony Combination between the Day and Hour Pillar. If you loose that Water element, there is another Water element to support or replace it.


5)Gui water (hai) at hour pillar means one behave in a childish manner, and love children.

**Yin Water in the Hour Pillar, it refers to your hidden Inner Feelings. On the outside they just see a manly personality of you. Your female inner feelings tell it differently. It means you are tough on the outside, but soft on the inside, if they know you better. Those feelings only very close friends know it, now I know it too.

Yin Water, refers also intelligent and smart, also gentle rain. Your Yang Earth and Yin Water and the branches total Harmony is a good signs with Children Luck.



6)Monkey+Pig means i am lack of family luck


** Partly true, if the Monkey is your Day-pillar. In your chart the Monkey is the Year-pillar quite far away from the Hour-pillar.

In Chinese Astrology, a Monkey refers to some Playful personality and a Pig is more Family oriented. It could mean when your have a Family, it is better to focus on it and not going out or traveling so often and leave your children to your grand parents to take care of. Year pillar refers also to your grand parents and Hour pillars your children, it could mean they didn’t like the way you raise your children.

Year and Hour pillar are far from each other and the Energy is weak, so it will be all right and your grand parents are too old to worry about your children too.




Saphora

thanks a million!! I hope you are not in trouble becos of me sorry

will definitely keep all these informations by heart. You have been great!!!! I feel more positive now to carry on learning. at first decoding to me is a scary thing. Thanks for your encouraging words.

And hopefully I can send you some good news in future, and hopefully my two feets can stick longer on the ground.

YOU ARE AN ANGEL, awaiting for Saphora's book of TCM incorporating bazi

hugszzz

RQ