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In case you would like to give me your Mobile number, because a beautiful woman like you I won’t miss out any romantic chances, right?
Let’s met giving you your DM as a warm-up, it is in general what Yin Metal is all about. Probably it is a standard description of Yin Metal. Later on we will discuss your Ten Gods.
Yin Metal is considered as: Refined, Intelligent and very Attractive.
You are sparkling diamonds, glittering gold, and delicate silver. Rough and rustic is not meant for you. The lifestyle of the rich and famous was created in honour of you. When you enter a room, all other attention-seekers should just leave the building. You are a master, and you will have all eyes on you in no time! It doesn't matter if you're talent is yodelling, or glass-blowing, or amazing Feng Shui - if you have it, you can bet that everyone else knows you have it, too! You're pretty vain. Always needing to look good, you're never satisfied if someone walks into the party wearing better shoes, or flashing a bigger diamond ring. Where there's a mirror... a prolonged assessment of your reflection is always needed!. Woe befalls the poor, doomed soul who tries to point your mistakes in public. Whether or not he or she is Right, you will certainly talk them down, in voluble tones, and make them regret it...forever. You can talk a mile-a-minute. If your current day job isn't working out for you, you might want to try being a TV presenter, or if you're one of the few abnormal "shy" Yin Metal people around, a journalist or script writer. You also love a good debate. Being a lawyer is a walk in the park for you.
Other people might have similar special talents to share, even if it doesn't come to the fore immediately. Gracious give up your place under the spotlight once in awhile. You'll be a lot more appreciated because of it!
You've got an eye for figuring out who is good at doing what. But remember that not everyone likes to be told what to do. Sometimes, you need to lay low and let people do what they will. Be less of a control freak. Have confidence and faith in those you lead. If there is some heavy lifting to be done, you'll find a way to manoeuvre your way out of it. While everyone else is sweating buckets, you'll be over at the air-conditioned corner, taking up a storm with whoever is around! (But again, you're a natural born sales-person and marketer)
Take your team out for Happy Hours once a while, or bring in coffee and doughnuts. Your approval ratings are sure to increase. Share your talents with others, acknowledge others for theirs, and allow space for other people to join you centre-stage under the spotlight. It's always a lot more fun that way. Put yourself in another's shoes sometimes. You have a natural aptitude for relationships, and cultivating the trait of empathy will make you further likeable to your colleagues.
Money is a very important component of Yin Metal's life. Don't be afraid of wanting more money. Do not subscribe to the "Money is the root of all evil" philosophy or you, Yin Metal, will never be rich. Learn to make money work FOR you and you've already won most of the battle. Yin Metal's inherent nature is about living a good life. And a good life does not normally come cheap. If you don't have serious goals to be rich (as opposed to being just an average-income earner), that lifestyle that you crave will never come true.
Be generous with your money, especially with friends. Don't be too stingy. Whenever you can, you should try to spend some time to support the people around you. Yin Metals don't normally achieve success on their own without help and support. Your ideas need to be carried out and brought to fruition by others. Your dreams come true only when you have the right kind of support. If you are in the creative fields you need a patron. If you are in business, you need investors and customers. If you don't work on the people-to-people relationship skills, you will lose out on a lot of opportunities.
Others are often afraid to approach you because you seem intimidating or aloof. But they find that to be the opposite when they actually get to know you! Don't see others, especially colleagues, as stepping stones to getting what you want. If you love Coke and someone you despise at work love Pepsi, there is really no need to engage in a 2-hour debate that leaves you, and everyone else, exhausted. Sometimes, you just need to let it go. While your friends love you, you can't always tell them what to do, if they want to eat chocolate cake for breakfast, let them! Wagging your finger and forcing them to eat healthy whole-wheat cereal - just like you - will not earn you any brownie points.
Don't point out your friends' or colleagues embarrassing mistakes to the entire dinner table during the company dinner. You might THINK that everyone's laughing with you, but a few of them might also be tapping in reminders into their Blackberries to never call you again! Be tactful, discreet, and diplomatic when the situation calls for it. Hang out with old people. Your grandma has a ton of cool stories from the past. Listen to her, and curb the urge to lecture, correct, or weasel out information for her to use for your next book/movie/documentary. Or simply spend time with someone else for the sole purpose of making them happy!
Your Husband Star, your ideal man is Yang Fire, Yes indeed me, Saphora, or someone like me.
Yin Metal and Yang Fire will create lots of children, 2 if enough in a modern world. Secondly he needs to have Yang Water in his charts, Yes me again Saphora. I think I am in Love right now.
The reason for Yang Water is to polish Yin Metal to make it more beautiful than it is. Water could also mean Traveling, Yes indeed you have two Traveling Stars, it could mean when you are dating with someone like me, it will make you shine like Heavenly Stars.
There is a Direct Officer right under your Spouse Pillar; it could mean he will be a Hunk, someone like me, maybe?
With an Auspicious Direct Officer Star you will never be lonely.
You have also a Friend to support you, someone older than you, someone like me, maybe?
Well, your current Luck pillar is a Yang Wood Tiger, an Auspicious Ten year for you. Coincidence I am “A Tiger in the Forest”, a Fearless Tiger no Chicken. There is also a Direct Officer in the Hidden Stem. It could mean during this period you will me the real Prince, your Husband Star. Very exciting period to come, I hear the Wedding bells already ringing.
I think I will save lots of money to buy you a big Diamond ring, or someone like me.
More good news, you also have “Powerful Mentor Star”, someone who will guide you to make more money during the next Luck period. After hard working he will advice you how to invest, money needs to grow, right?
So your future will include a Husband and good investment. Maybe I should invest in you, or someone like me.
Like I said you are very attractive, a Snake in Hibernation as DM means, when you invest in Property, you never look back and see if your Property will raise in value or not.
Because you know it will grow in its own way naturally, it is typically a good investment.
I hope not you had run away like your "Year-Pillar" Rabbit. You might think a Tiger will eat a Rabbit, oh no, they form a Pair of Power and they are in harmony.
As I said before Yang Fire is your Direct Officer Star, or Husband Star.
Your current Luck and the next 50 years will support him, it means your husband will in Luck the next 50 years. That is very good news. That's the reason why I was interested in a date with you.
Secondly, you might think Fire will destroy Yin Metal in your spouse, it could be. Luckily your Children palace contains Earth-element. It means he will get along with your children and instead put you in pressure he will support you. Fire supports Earth (Children) and Earth will support Yin Metal Day Master.
Hello Sphora! could you help to understand the strengh of my friends bazi chart ? she was born on 2 may 1974 and well it look like she is extremely week or just week? I thought she was extremaly week cos dragon and snake pillars are empty and in them suppose to be water and metall and if they are emty and there is no support she have to be extremaly week right? what do you think? thank you