Finding the One is a myth.
Be the One for her is the truth. (roots down to how u treat people.if u play game, u will attract girls who play game---Dragon personalities.)
Fate is something after two person get together, looking back at what has happened.
there is no way u can change ur personalities, but u can choose whether to exhibits your traits.

U are quite a caring guy but u need to exhibits the diligence side of u.

GoodLuck

Well, it is my pleasure that firehorselord joined the rank. Btw, what you said is correct. I really neglect my exhibition of caring towards my ex. (we broke up again) Things turn ugly when we argue in the end and perhaps, now still can be normal friend and still, she thinks about her ex! This make me even more speechless. Btw, past is past and I want to look forward to find another girl which really suits me better.

Can anyone, Saphora or Firehorselord, rougly let me know what year my real ONE will appeared? I know it is about fate but surely the hints are stated in Bazi right? Sorry for my selfish request....

CKS

Hi saphora,

I am so dead in love now. I broke up with her two weeks ago and things cant just work out anymore. She seems like have dead feelings towards me and leaving my life. Once we broke up, we have a good quarel and she pointed out every weakness i have, including do not have rommance, ego, twist words and etc. She told me that she remember back her ex during the cold period, on how good he treats her in the past. I am sooo down because of this. I twist my words because i want to protect her and myself, I am studborn in rommance for sure, I know i am too ego and I do not know how to express my feeling at all even during the dating although I love her sooo much! .

I am so regret of what I have done. Am I fated to be failure in relationship for everytime I involved in relationship? I really do not know what to do already as she is the one I love since I met her three years ago. broke up with her three years ago and again three years again. She even told me during the breakup of not going back to her anymore. T.T

Anyway, now we remains as friends and we meet each other quite often lately. Yes, we have no quarrel anymore but still treating each other as friend. She has the firm mind and give me the feeling of remaining as friends. What should I do? I really do not want to lose her! I swear to do better if I am with her again. T.T

Saphora, is she really the 'ONE'? Please advice....T.T I plan to get marry at 27, 28 or 29 but things seems ruin with her leaving my life...I am so lost now....

i think i know why.....

Dear Firehorselord,

Can you give some indications and noble advice?

CKS

Hi,

I cannot see what Master Saphora has seen, so neither i have indications or advice.
by picking bits and pieces in the previous posts,

I am also making a guess, that previously donkey years back u missed the chance, then recently u took actions. but she came and go. i think she has inferior feelings that u are too good for her, so she wants to find someone outside yet something is pulling her within thats why her r/s does not last. She duno how to handle u.
and i guess both of u are trying to finished an unfinished LOVE, to erase the regret.
If she is not married, neither are u, u can push in, chances are high. its how u prove ur sincererity and ur actions to take away her inferior and doubt in u that u two are not enjoying a regretted LOVE, but is building future.

Just a guess..

Lol,
this is more like giving advice. Thx dude for the advice. ^^

CKS