Hey Saphora,

I am a new member, and seen some of your wonderful posts replies on compatilbility requests. It would be highly appreciated if you could help me check the compatibility of this man for me in regards of getting married. This iman wants to get married, and wanted to check whether this man is good for me for marriage interms of chinese astrology. Whether he can be loyal , faithful..etc. .. please do check. It would be helpful. Thanking you in advance. Waiting for your reply.

Girl: 17th June 1987 (5:15 am)
Boy: 8th September 1982 ( 08:28 am )

Please help! Waiting for reply from the expert!

Hi Babe,




What a cute name, my Babe! What a pity, you have already a Date, otherwise I could wait for you till the end of time.



I will see if I could see in both of your charts if I could see anything special in him for you.




Saphora

he he saphoraa so sweet of u ! yesss.. so used to ur jokes darling!! Your da bomb babe! cant wait for ur analysis !

Dear Babe,




First I have to admit than you are the hottest, passionate and mostly very sexy woman I ever met in this Forum. Yes, if you decode many charts you could slowly feel and maybe see how that person looks like. You are indeed very beautiful.


When you meet or make the first eye contact with a person, it was already compatible. All your cells were reacting and you feel the warmth of your body, which is Love at first sight. It is like a magnet which it attracted to him, that is already a start of your Love-Destiny.


If you look at both of your charts you could see why you were attracted to him. He looks very manly and look like a Manager or leader type by his three Yang-pillars. Your three Yin-Pillars were attracted to his, makes Yang and Yin in balance and harmony. That is the first attraction.

His first two pillars are in Metal-season, it provides you Wealth and Refreshment for your strong Fire. It is another compatible indication.

In theory both of you are attracted to each others that is good news.


Your first questions were:
- Will he be loyal and faithful?

That question, I do feel worries in you, not that you are more innocent than him. You know about yourselves, are you able to control your feelings to another man? Are you able to control your desires? Those questions make you feel uncomfortable in him.

Both of you are not so innocent either, that is Destiny.


His Luck 2012-2022 had been frozen, if you both want to be married in this period. Both of you need to work hard to keep the relationship healthy. These Ten Luck Pillars are so important to both of you. These parts are more important than the “Compatibility” that I have explained above. Unfortunately both of your Luck is not at the right time, till then it is biting through. After this hard period, both of you will conquer the world and all the luck will come into your life.


It doesn’t matter who you or him had chosen, two of your 10 Luck are matched.


Tomorrow it is 14th February, my favorites day. The day of Love. I do recommend that you will forget about Bazi and go with him having a very Romantic Dinner and a very passionate night together.




Me, Saphora will drink Coffee at the WOFS-Cafe alone somewhere in this Forum. I hope that they are open at Valentine's Day.





Saphora

Thanks Saphora.

1) When you the luck has frozen, does that mean the 10 years will be abit tough? If it will be tough, in which aspect will it be tough?

Also another question is 2) when you talk about loyalty, apart from me.. do you think he would be loyal during the marriage according to the Bazi Chart?


3 ) Also when you say the 10 years luck of his and mine matches.. what does that mean?


Your analysis is wonderful .. just to let you know .. you are great in this babe! Thank you again for your wonderful analysis .. and your help!

Dear Babe,



Maybe it will be clear if I answering all your questions, than you know what I try to tell.


Babe: 1) When you the luck has frozen, does that mean the 10 years will be abit tough? If it will be tough, in which aspect will it be tough?


Yes, indeed for a man or woman from age 30-40 are the years you are starting a family. This is the second fase of your life after the education. During this period only you hope that the 10 year luck pillar will not Clash and activate the bad Energies in the Spouse Pillar.
He is weak Yang Wood, and he has one truly partner on his left arm. Unfortunately he has also a "Lover" on his right arm. Unfortunately this "Lover" is very strong and real.

In combination of his "confusing about Love" due to his blockage of Qi-energy and his weakness to control that, he will have the intention to be more with his "Lover", looking for comfort.

In other words, during this period, he needs to work hard to keep his family together. During this period you need to comfort him more, and talk about understandings, sacrifices and about his problems. Only two of you are strong together in bad times and health.
That is they called it: Marriage.



Babe: Also another question is 2) when you talk about loyalty, apart from me.. do you think he would be loyal during the marriage according to the Bazi Chart?


During the marriage, he will face lots of problems. When he has lots of money. He will have the intention to spend money with his "Lover". The solution is put those money in a safe account, only after his 40 years old than it is safe to use that money.
No money in his pocket means no "Lover" in his hidden diary.



Babe: 3 ) Also when you say the 10 years luck of his and mine matches.. what does that mean?

During your roughly 30-40 years old. There will be a "Self-Penalty" of two Roosters in your Pillars. Again this will affect your Spouse again. During this period, you will face lots of turbulence in family and career. Luckily you are better off of both of you.
Again during this period you will earn/get lots of wealth. Again Wealth is only good for later after your 40s.
Try to save all your money during this period in a safe account. Spending money means marriage troubles. If your husband didn't understand why you did it, it will cause of course misunderstandings and will cause marriage-tensions.

The only solution is try to discuss both of you like, half spending and half for the raining days. This will be a Win Win situations for your family.




Please ask for more.





Saphora

Saphora.. Thanks for being so apprehensive and asking me to ask you more questions which is so sweeet of you!

1) when you say " he has one truly partner on his left arm. Unfortunately he has also a "Lover" on his right arm. Unfortunately this "Lover" is very strong and real". Does that mean he will be seeking for another person for comfort? Saphora, just to let you know this man is divorced. So do explain more.

2) apart from looking at only his chart.. and ONLY by looking at my chart.. is there a fame element in my chart.. coz of the Yang fire horse earthly stem in the month pillar? If there is, by which year will it be possible?


3) If i do not get married to him, do you think there will be much better compatibilities out there compared to him? Will it be easier to let go, if i did or do you think he is my destiny from looking at the charts of both of us?

4) Which career will be more beneficial to me in terms of money and fame according to my chart?

Thank you so much for your kind assitance saphora, ur too sweet and kind babe! Love learning it from you..




Firstly, if i was to look just at my chart and not about him since whether the marriage happens or not.. that is up to fate. But just looking at my chart.. do u think the spouse pillar

Also babe.. just like to correct that .. Self Penalty in my chart will be the two " Rabbits" right.. not the rooster.. coz rooster only appears once in my chart..

Dear Babe,




Luckily you do ask, otherwise I keep tell things that won't matter to you.



1) when you say " he has one truly partner on his left arm. Unfortunately he has also a "Lover" on his right arm. Unfortunately this "Lover" is very strong and real". Does that mean he will be seeking for another person for comfort? Saphora, just to let you know this man is divorced. So do explain more.

**On his left of his DM, that is the month-pillar there is a Direct Wealth aspect. Direct Wealth is an Auspicious Star to have. It means he will never run out of work and money. It also means he will never lonely in life, he must get married once in his life. If he didn’t have a divorce before it will surely come, especially in December 2020, he will face another divorce.

With this information you are better of as his Lover than his wife, because you will the one he will get a divorce if you are married him.


2) apart from looking at only his chart.. and ONLY by looking at my chart.. is there a fame element in my chart.. coz of the Yang fire horse earthly stem in the month pillar? If there is, by which year will it be possible?

**Fame? Oh My God!

When I see your chart I see more than just Fame. It is a Special chart, almost the four Seasons. Some refer it as a “Power of Love” Chart, the name says it all. You are indeed truly the Goddess of Beauty. Even I am far away, but I can feel your tremendous Power of Love.
Even I close my eyes I see that you are surrounded by lots of Fire. This Fire is excessive strong and makes your chart un-balance. It is not a good sign. Luckily you are going through the Luck periods of Metal and Water-seasons. That’s more than 40 years good Luck. So you don’t have to be someone else’s Lover, you could have anyone you like, even me included.

Please be patient, only men with money are able to seduce you. It means he will have money and he is rich.


3) If i do not get married to him, do you think there will be much better compatibilities out there compared to him? Will it be easier to let go, if i did or do you think he is my destiny from looking at the charts of both of us?


**Yes, there are lots of admirers with wealth are waiting for you. They are just after your Desires.



4) Which career will be more beneficial to me in terms of money and fame according to my chart?


You are beautiful and be admired by everyone you meet. Your Rob Wealth Star is very strong; it means your friend’s network is so big that you even couldn’t remember all their names. Ever Manager or Director will place you as a front-face of their business to attract more clients.

You could end very easy in the Model-world and in the spot-light.


There is a financial problem, I don’t know how many pair of shoes you have, but in the future it will countless. Fashion and cloths are for you addicted, because a beautiful woman like you, need a good fashion to wear.


Indeed you are right, Internal Chart you have two Rabbits. During your 27-37 years old, an External Rooster will combine with your Day-pillar Rooster form a Self-Penalty with your Spouse palace.

Like I said before a woman or a man during 30-40 years it is a start of their family. You will hope during this period nothing will affect the Spouse pillar the better.

Your Spouse pillar is a Rooster, a metal-element and it is surrounded by Fire, ready to weaken it. Further more there is hardly any real husband in your chart. Power of Love Chart and no/weak husband star, means you are a Goddess of Love and she keeps waiting and waiting and waiting for a perfect Prince to arrive. Unfortunately he will arrive very late in life.

Fame and Power have also their weakness and that is a happy family and a good husband and lovely children.


Sometimes when you are mature enough to start a family, and it was already too late. You couldn’t reverse the passing time. Plan well and have before your 40s at least a son/daughter to give you happiness at old age. Like a candle light, it won’t burn forever. Even a Goddess of Love will get old one day too.




Saphora

Hey darling
Thanks so much for answers!

a) When you say he will get divorced in 2020, does that mean if he gets married again, he will get a divorce? Or do you mean the divorce in his life will happen ONLY ONCE?

b) Do you think if he gets married again, he will stilll have the "Lover with him"?

c) Darling, not really looking into a career of modelling! But looking at other careers, which careers do you think is the best to pursue?

d) i was looking at the chart of the " other date of birth" he he , and i saw that he has Agressive swords in the day and the hour pillar.. its not suppose to be good right?

Waiting for the analysis of the " other apple" he he he.. so interesting to see the difference between both the charts .. waiiting for ur analysis on the other date of birth.. i PMed you the date of birth .. hehe Thanks sweetie!

Your the best

Dear Goddess of Love,




Here we go again. Where do you find so many Lovers? Tell me your secrets, so I could find one for my selves.


Babe: a) When you say he will get divorced in 2020, does that mean if he gets married again, he will get a divorce? Or do you mean the divorce in his life will happen ONLY ONCE?

**I don’t know how many times he will get married, but I do know 100% that in December 2020 he will have another Divorce. As I said before, that guy always have a woman by his side, now or in the future. He is kind of Sex-symbol, which attract women easily. It is in his Destiny, the problems are he can break hearts too. No matter he resist, he family will fall apart at the end due to the third party.



Babe: b) Do you think if he gets married again, he will stilll have the "Lover with him"?.

**He always has a woman by his side, wife or Lover.


Babe: c) Darling, not really looking into a career of modelling! But looking at other careers, which careers do you think is the best to pursue?

**Networking, use your Beauty to attract more clients, and more money. In sales or bank sector you will meet more clients. A beautiful can work anywhere she wants, she will be loved by everyone. Yin Fire as DM, are normally Leaders or Supervisor, so you never get a low-ranking Officer. You will automatically promoted by a crazy Manager who attract to your beauty.


Babe: d) i was looking at the chart of the " other date of birth" he he , and i saw that he has Agressive swords in the day and the hour pillar.. its not suppose to be good right?


**One at the time Darling, I am not finished with the old one, now I have to decode a new one. I will have a look; at least you give me two apples. It is easier for me to select the best for you.

(Wow, I am meeting a Goddess of Love; it is my Lucky days here in this Forum.)




Saphora

he he he .. your too cute! im not a Goddess of Love.. i just end up meeting rotten apples darling! Not even one good apple that wont turn sour!.. Thanks so much darling for the comment! I cant wait for u to tell me about the other apple! im waitingggggggggggggggggg anxiously sweetie! Fast Fast ! he he he ! Thanks again for the beautiful comments and an analysis Waiting for your reply

As you asked me how to find many lovers so you can find as one.. ! hehe anything PM me when u neeed advise on that topic.. im sure to help darling! waiting for your reply on the decoding ! ! mwuah

Hi Babe,



Oh yes, you want a Golden Apple!



I think you will have no teeth left if you bite on it.


I am just an ordinary Apple, but it tastes delicious, hard and very juicy. You can bite anytime and anywhere you desire.


Let me recall two men in your life. I always tell my selves you can run, but you cannot hide from your Destiny.

This is a good example what Destiny is all about, your example is a very good example I will show readers what Destiny is all about.


A beautiful girl like you, she is with full confidence about how she looks and how men had given you all the attentions. As I did explain before, your truly Husband is very weak. Only at later stage you will meet the right one. Until then you will only meet the “Bad Apples”.
This one is just another “bad Apple from the Love-tree”.

Coincidence he is like the other, manly smart and very handsome and sexy. It meets your requirements.

Coincidence both of them will have a Divorce between their 30-40 years old. I am 100% confident that I am correct. Destiny never lies.

It doesn’t matter who you choose, you will choose the wrong one.

You and others may think they could easily manipulate Destiny, WRONG!


It is not your consciousness mind that chooses a handsome guy with money. It will be a trap, because your “Second you”, or “Hidden Devil”, or your totally body-cells will control your Destiny. You will attract to him and he will attract to you. It will make you crazy, till you made a mistake.


You had given me already two Apples to choose for. I am really sure the third one will be the same as both of them.


Your Fire-elements are so strong; it controls all your body. It is like a Drug-addicted, desire for more Love. It is like a magnet, attract the wrong men.



As I told you before, you have indeed the “Power of Love”. It is like an addition to control men with your Sexy Body and Irresistible Eyes. One look in your eye, the man will forget minutes about his wife and lovely children. Yes, you are very dangerous and very attractive woman.


I am like other men, willing to die and sacrifice everything to be in your lovely arms.





Saphora

hey Saphora

1) when you say that i will meet the right guy later onward.. could you say by which year??

2) which of the apple is better ?

3) You are saying that the other man ( born in october) will ALSO have a divorce??? are u sure? can you explain about his chart more in depth! thank you so much darling! Pleas explain! Thank you sweetie! waiting for your reply!


Thanks darling!




Thank you darling!

Dear Babe,



That was the Yin side of the story, now the Yang side.



The guy of 1979, he is the man.


He will be your husband; I give him 9 out of 10. He is the One, truly Love.

Why 9/10 and not 10 out of 10? Because in June 2014, both of you need to use Feng Shui Harmony to reduce the marriage tension. After that month, both of you are truly the best couples there is. If you both survive that month, than everything is just Champagne and Roses.


He is the perfect Lover for you, you can feel it. It is the work of Mother Nature. Even you are blind of Love, he will find you in the darkness hours.


Congratulations for a good match! This year in August I can hear the Wedding-bells between you two. Wishing all the Happiness you deserve.


One last tip, from beginning of 2014 till June 2014, please avoids arguments and everything will be all right.

Till that time, I am still here; I didn’t show you my FS yet. Just call my name and I will be there for you.


Why 2014? It will be a tough year for both of you. As long you are hanging around in this World of Feng Shui, we will protect you from any harm to your Happiness.


So enjoy the happiness with him, next year please come back for more Feng Shui tips, we will go to prepare you and him with all kind of Feng Shui to avoid the Tsunami in your marriage.



With Love and Kisses.



Saphora

Darling

1)Are u sure its the 1979 guy the husband for me? Are u sure we are compatible? I was thinking of breaking up with him..coz of arguing too much! and was thinking that the 1982 guy is better? Please explain why honestly.. Can u please explain the difference between the both?

2) Please explainn the difference? This 1979 guy is not stable.. and does not want to get married at this moment! i would really love to knoww the difference according to chart of both of them..

3) I was chekcing the 1979 guy's chart.. and there are chances of infidelity in his chart.. and also self-penalty of the two rats being in hour and day pillar.. which is not good right? How can you say he is really good for me? Please explain

Thanks saphoraa

Hi Honey,



Let us summarize those two hunks:

1) The First one, no DM compatibility
- Marriage tension between 30-40 yo
- Water-elements are weak for balance your chart
- Handsome and Manly


2) The Second one (1979), Yang Water DM & Yin Fire DM: Perfect Yang Yin Combinations
- Marriage tension between 30-40 yo
- Water-elements by double Rat-pillars to balance your chart.
- Handsome and Manly



As you could see, they have both the intention for cheating, but the second one comes out the best.


You are right; both of them need to go through the tough period. I am rather to give marriage a second chance.


As I said in the beginning of my reply, you are also not innocence at all. Without a good 10 year Luck and a good Husband star, I think the best way is to follow your heart and not through Comparing with Apples.


You are also right about the second one (1979), because his Breaking-Point in his relationship is almost there, very soon in June 2014. The first one’s Breaking Point is still far away, this is the reason why you are still feeling hot for him. In 2020 your feeling will be cold as ice like the second one.


A marriage is a relationship for long term; you should support each other in good and bad times. Right now the one 1979 is going to the hard times. You could explain it to him and work it out together. His good times will come, and I and others in this Forum are willing to help with FS.




Saphora

Dear Saphora

1) When you say breaking point being near and far? what do u mean by that?
2) I guess im just going to go with my heart to choose... my compatibility with 1982 works really well honestly.. we are alomost like twins.. they way we think ...the way we are.. what do u think about 1982?
3) Also how is this year and next year for me in terms of money and relationship..?
4) Also do you think from my chart it indicates that i will travel overseas (other than malaysia) in terms of carreer... Malaysia is not my birth place by the way...just to let u know ..

Thanks you sweetie for being so sweet and kind for your response.. so sweet of u darling!