hi everyone, i am new to the forum. not sure if what i am writing is in the right area of discussion. i need some kind of direction for myself and my husband. he has been between jobs for 11 months now. mt life is like a roller coaster and it has been this way for the past 15years. my date of birth is 27.03.1967 and my husband's is 18.12.1956. could someone please help me out here with some advise. thankyou