I have consulted one Ziwei Master and she said that I have Hua Qi Ge. May i know if anyone have any idea what is that? She said in Bazi, it is a special chart. However i'm confused as some Masters said i'm normal chart and some concluded i'm special chart.
Could someone pls help me to analyse? Many thks in advance.
Thks, yes.. I speculate in shares the past 3 yrs. My loss is much more than income. I have since stopped trading.
I'm actually very clueless about my career direction. I'm in accounting but i cant stay more than a year in a job for my past 3 yrs of work experience. I resigned each time the job gets repetitive and boring.
That's the reason why i'm seeking alternatives like a switch of career or to do my own business. But. I dont know which industry should i enter into.
I am actually suffering from Schizoid Personality Disorder (SPD). Is it due to my bazi? Am i normal or special chart?
I have high stomach acid (i think) and therefore have recurring ulcers for whole yr round.
It's a torture for me to interact wif others on face-to-face basis, communicate wif people of all levels. I need to work alone. I get very uncomfortable when in meetings or socialising. And vice versa. Even if i just keep quiet, there will be awkward silence when i'm in a group(even knowing the people for yrs). I'm anti-social.
I dont know what are the jobs for loners like me. Definitely not accounting or anything in the corporate world. It frustrates me to a point that i feel so hopeless.
But something puzzled me alot. I always succeed in terms of job interviews and have ample job opportunities (only tried Accounting so far cos i'm stuck wif a Diploma in Accounting from TP)
My interviews success rate is 100% during the past 3 yrs of job hopping; I even get counter-offered by 3 companies at a go. I do feel i have some luck in job hunting but none of my accounting job is sustainable becos of my SPD.
I start to get tired and am in despair. I have no idea what kinda jobs out there will suit a loner like me.
And i'm simply unpopular with female friends (which i dont know why) but quite well-liked by opposite sex though. Should i go onto an industry where the enviroment is male dominant like engineering or construction? But i need a job with minimal human interaction cos i'm just not comfortable wif people.
I have read your post.
Have you tried doing some coaching?
May be you find the light of your path. I have the feeling that, though you say you are anti-social, you have a great coaching potential (you as a coach, some day).
Thank you for ur suggestion. Appreciate if u could elaborate on coaching part. A teacher? I'm quite keen on learning infant massage becos i likes job that nurture and develop and help others. But market is very niche. Alas, and i dont know if i can conduct a class given my SPD..
It has always been my dream to be a nutritionist or dietician cos i have passion in this area as well. I think i have chosen the wrong course(Had done a Dip in Accounting & Finance) and currently in ACCA level 2 (It sucks alot cos i hate accounting!) but i force myself to take cos i see no other way out. There is no part-time courses on nutrition or whatsoever and I have since given up hope.
Becos of my job nature (accounts), i'm surrounded by females, and simply just dont work out man. I dont like to gossip and hate politics; and people dont understand why i dont join them in gossiping. Is it becos of the industry i'm in? I'm in oil & gas and commodity and international trading industry all these while.