Sorry for troubling you . It seems there aren't many active users here. So thank you for taking your time doing this. If it's very slightly on the weak side, does it mean DM is quite balanced? Is there such thing? I thought when I had too much resources, it had negative impacts on me, so shouldn't it have been a tad strong DM instead?
Current luck phase is Mao, does it mean not giving much luck to me?
When gautam.rao said Gui-water is my output element and is my Yong Shen, how can I best utilize this? I know when people had resources as their Yong Shen, they can learn/study more, gather more knowledge etc to strengthen themselves, however if my Yong Shen appears to be in my output Gui - water, does it mean that I have to be more expressive, persuasive and need to work on my communication skill etc? Hope you could shed some lights . Many thanks.
I think your DM could run the risk of being buried by earth,and this point could cause problems for you in the course of your life,generally speaking.In bazi analysis,we try to discern from the chart what is/are the major factor/factors that cause imbalances,for they can result in problems in real life.Once we know this,we can use fengshui or 5-element"cures"and"enhancers"to balance.
If earth threatens to be overly strong that it buries your yang metal,you can employ wood cures.Your present luck phase is yang wood which should help you.Though the "void"is present in the luck phase,I don't think it means this phase totally disappears.If that's the case,what then is your present luck phase?
Try using wood remedies from now,and see if things improve.Alternatively,you can use fengshui.If you find romance in the present luck phase,you'll feel better.Your finances will improve too.
But don't over-use the remedies for a start.
For example,Ms Lillian Too has a weak wood DM.That's why her dwelling is infused with lush greenery. :)She also uses water to feed the wood.She says so herself,in her book.
If water serves to release your DM,you can employ it.Ask yourself,what is my forte?It doesn't need to be communication only.
Sometimes your feelings and intuition can draw you towards some field that can bring success,if you don't focus too much on financial returns.
I believe the Earth elements buries my DM. Not really bad, but somehow I'm quite affected a lot by this. This has caused me to even be more pessimistic about life. I do tend to think too much. For example, how in the world I could find someone to be with me if I don't even have a proper job and still don't have any idea when I'm gonna settle down for life. However, this thought barely made me move a step, it got worse.
Not until March this year I could feel things have changed significantly. A better job, a new romance (half-way there). Overall things are much better than the last two or three years. I'm gonna try the wood remedies soon and see if it helps further. Now, where do I start? I promise I won't over-use these . Thanks for letting me know all these. I appreciate it.
When I asked you about the age 6 to 10 and 21 to 25 luck phases(both earth phases),I thought they might have strengthened your DM to make you feel better(earth>metal,">"means "produces").But from the past events you have related,it seems that these earths were overly strong,so much so that they buried your metal DM.That explains your depression.
Here's my opinion: The Ox earth is water season, with yin wood stem, not useful for Metal strenght as he wasn't in a Metal season.
The Dragon earth of luck is wood season, so there is why the earths weren't that helpful.
The metal was helpful though Ox & Snake form half combo of metal, plus his DM is sitted in metal season.
Tq for taking your time to intrepret my bazi for me. Yes you are right i am very unstable person.... one day if i could reached tremendous position in my life but may i know what types of career that really match my skills... can u give me a general advice. Somehow i cannot discover my talent at this time...
any of you care to read my love life? Met this one person earlier this year. Everything seemed fine, however recently the other party shows lack of interest to proceed further . Would anyone be able to tell whether this relationship could go any deeper? Her chart is as follows:
Hour Day Month Year
Ren Ji Jia Jia
Shen Mao Xu Zi
Second question, is my DM = Kui Gang? What does this mean and what impact does it have on me? Thank you for any feedback.
Last Edit: 2 years ago by gws. Reason: Adding chart and more question