I hope someone will please kindly help me see my wife and my bazi but both of us don't know our time of birth.
We have been married 6 years but still have no children.
Does my bazi say we'll be childless for life or is there anything i should do to increase my chances of having a kid.
My D.O B is 15th Dec 1973 and my wife's 21 Oct 1976.Time is catching up with us.
Hope a kind soul can help.
Since both of you are born after the 60's most probably your hour of birth is indicated in your birth certificate. The hour pillar is important as it access your career or children luck. The rest of the other pillars when calculated can tell the strength of the output (for female) and power (for male) that related back to the children luck. Please try to find this important info. Thank you.
No, it's not in our birth cert. and we live in the village so our parents are also uneducated and can't remember.
Can it be predicted with less accuracy?How do we see whether a person has children or not? Do we look at only the wife or both husb and wife?
Sorry, Har is a friend of ours who got some good advice from this forum recently and recommended we post our problem here. Borrowed her computer yesterday to reply to forum.
We did consult a gynae recently who asked us to try IVF but it costs more than RM 10000 a cycle and success rate is only 40%.It's beyond our means.That's why we are trying to see if it's fated we will be childless. If it is, we just leave it as it is.If it's not, then maybe we reconsider the gynae advice again.
In your NE1 22.5 to 37.5 degrees of your house and the also the micro sector of your room, clear away all clutters including cabinet or furniture if you have any. Keep the space clear from encumbrance at all times. I hope you know how to impose the compass layout into your house layout plan. You have only 15 degrees to play so it must be accurate.
I think astroace did mentioned that without the time data, it is difficult to give a good reading. Your wife chart looks tricky without the time. However I think there is a good chance and first born could be a boy. Hope I am spot on lol
Important thing is that both of you must not be too over stress in your workload. I have come across a lot of people who are over stressed in their career have the same problem. Both must relax and don't be too impatient.
If you have problem with locating the direction using the pie chart please look at this thread
When I said your wife's chart is tricky because with only 3 pillars there are only 2 elements, Fire and Earth, Of course if we have the time pillar, than we can further analyse the strength of her Day Master. Presently I can only read her as weak Fire.
This topic is a favorite topic for Doctor Love; making Baby’s. I think he did try out all the 69 positions of Karma Sutra, and it still didn’t work, right? Just keep going and he will find the right
Now seriously; Bernard is right about the tricky Chart of his wife. Before I will give my long and boring explanation I must give him an
Advice that even he will find another woman, she will be not better than the current one, so don’t think about that. Why I choose decoding the Woman’s Chart, because a Woman’s egg is one per month, and for a man millions of little “Worms” per day. She needs just one to be received.
As I just have decoded a few hours ago for a male, see other topic. These time a Female one, a tricky one. I also tell the risks and solutions before, during and after the Pregnancy. I try to make it short, Bernard will translate it into Normal English and summarize it to understand.
1) Before Pregnancy, know her Body inside and outside
Outside: In her chart she has 3 Yang Pillars, a manly woman to me. A lot of Fire, she likes intimate and passions relationship, a very sensual woman. 3 Yangs means unbalance personality. She has also lot of Earth-elements, means her Output is very strong. She is not a silent Type, she likes talking too much, I think. So all her life she will have one thing in mind: Earth, means her Children. This is how she was programmed at the beginning of her Birth, it could turn into anObsessionif you have too many the same elements. You may think she has a lot of Children-elements (Earth), so she will have a lot of Children, right? That’s Basic Bazi-decoding. Time of Births gives you the relationship with your Children and future after 50 years old, of course we still need that Pillar.
Inside her Body:
3 Yangs Pillars gives birth to extreme Earth-elements. She has an Earthly Clash, a Dog and a Dragon, so her Earth is already activated. A Clash between a year and month pillar means that she will have serious Relationship problems before 40 years old. An Earthly Clash also means Sorrow and Sad Emotions related to Earth-element, her Children. Even she has some Water Element in her chart, it will hard to turn it into Water. Thereby her current 10 year Luck Pillar is a Wood Horse-pillar, this form together with her Horse-pillar an extreme “Self Fire Penalty”, and this is located under her Spouse Pillar. According to the Traditional Chinese Medicine, Water-element is a “Reproductive” network, for a Woman; her Bladder, Kidney and V…- organ. The Overwhelm Earth-elements are the Destroyer of Water-Elements, right? Her overwhelm Fire-elements are in Clash with her Water-Elements, so Water-elements have no chance to be formed.
There is no Qi-flow in the Reproductive Network, too dry and too hot; disorders of Growth and Development, problems of fertility, conception and pregnancy. In the near future 2012 is a Dragon-year, this year is not a good year to give birth, because the mother and unborn child will not have all the Luck, they are Clashing each other. If she wait to long, time is indeed running out, 2012, 2013 2014 and 2015 are Fire-seasons,
even she gets pregnant in these years she will have more Luck than she will need. Why not in 2011, look in her Husband chart, the Spouse
Palace is a Rooster-Pillar is clashing with 2011 a Rabbit pillar.
We, Bazi-decoders, always trying to avoid such Clashes, Harms, Penalties, Destructions, Combo and Destructions, even there is Heavenly Stems or Earthly Branches combinations. We have to be cautious about that.
In my own experience decoding charts, I have noticed that even a woman gets pregnant with this kind of chart, her pregnancy during the 9 months and 10 days will be a hard “9 months and 10 days”. After giving births, she has to hope she will have a Healthy Child or not. Because
during her Pregnancy, there will be no Qi-Flow in her Reproductive Organs, so the unborn child will not receive a healthy Qi-Flow from
her body. That is why she needs to give birth in a Hospital in case of an emergency.
We, Bazi-decoders, always look for the best for the clients before we increase the Human-Luck and Feng Shui Luck after consulting the
Heaven’s Luck. I have told the possible Risks before, during pregnancy and after pregnancy. It is up to them to decide what to do. If they
want to accept the Risks, then I will tell them how they increase their Human Luck and Feng Shui Luck for having Children.
I will come back for increasing Human Luck and Feng Shui Luck explanation. Don't Worry, Be Happy.
Note: I need her House Plan for Feng Shui purposes too.
Wow, Lang C - that was a really long and detailed explanation .I have understood and accepted that and I really thank you.
What i don't understand is why do you say even if I were to find another woman, it won't be better than my present wife.My bazi also says I don't have children luck like my wife?
Not all man will dump their wives after knowing all the bad things about one's marriage. I love my wife and we live a very happy and simple life in the village although we are not rich.Not being able to have children may be a setback but there are other things in life to look forward to. We just wanted to understand why we are childless.
By the way, my wife is not talkative but she's a tough lady and have sacrifice a lot for our family.
To increase your Feng Shui Luck, it will take at least 3 months to have it effects. It is never too late to start Feng Shui-ing. Please attach you House Plan first included your land if possible. Otherwise go to Googlemaps.com and make a “Print Screen “button of your location. You could cut out the address for private reason; I need 3 Zoom pictures of your House or location. I would like to study it first before I made some changes. I try to make it Cheap as Possible with the Maximum Results. We are going to use Yin-Energy of Mother Nature to increase the Female out of her Yang.
For Feng Shui you need to prepare, not buying yet, before I had seen your house: A Pomegranate tree, a Grape fruit tree, a Turtle stature made of Earth, a Traditional Chinese Coins.
Without the Feng Shui Luck is very hard to increase Man-Luck, so it is in that order. Man-Luck we have to focus on your Wife. Your wife is too Yang, we need increase her Yin-Energy. Thereby we need to increase her Water Qi-Flow as well. Secondly you need to plan very strictly. Write in your Diary when it is her Period-Cycle every month. She could go to the Temple or Church once a week to increase her Yin-Energy. She could go often to a Still and quite Water Pond in the Park to activate her Water-Energy. After her Period-Cycle she must try not to eat Chili, Hot Food, too much Salt, Meat, but a lot of veggies, fruit, especially Pears and drink a lot of water. It requires a lot of timing and planning.
Between the first 10 days and 15 days after her Period-Cycle is very important. Check also when there is a “Full Moon”, that time the Yin-Energy is at it maximum strength. Full Moon Calendar you could find it on line, otherwise I will find it for you. If that Full Moon is coincidence at the same time of the 15 days of her Period-Cycle, than it is Perfect. This is the big Chance to “receiving” and join Life. It is important that you and her need to bath together in a warm bath. She needs that Water Energy as many times as possible. Be in Love again; feel attractive to each other again. Don’t finish the “Job” in the bath-room, but hold it till the 10 days. Give often the massage of her Legs, because all the Energy will shift to her Legs instead of her head. Use Rose Oil to give her a Massage. Her legs need to keep warm at night too. She could drink the “5 Elements Herbal Tea” to circulate her Water-Energy, ask local Chinese Herbal doctor.
You could drink at the big event, two Red Bulls, this Caffeine drink will boost the little “worms” run faster. Use the S..-word only for “Receiving” and not for Fun, she must feel Happy and Ready, that is a Sacrifice you are willing to make.
I know from myself; it is hard to hold it for ten days. In that circumstance you could hold it between the 12 days and 15 days after her Period-Cycle. I make it easier for you; you need just three days rest before the big event. Please do not give Hope, with good Feng Shui it will succeed. We are still here to give all the Knowledge you will need.
Wishing all the Happiness for your Family and may Heaven open a Window for you. They sure do when I knock on their Window, trust me. I knock so many times, they already know my Ugly Face.
Here you find the full moon calendar 2011 with exact dates and times in an overview.
Wednesday, 19th January 2011, 10:21:24 pm
Friday, 18th February 2011, 09:35:42 am
Saturday, 19th March 2011, 07:10:06 pm
Monday, 18th April 2011, 04:44:00 am
Tuesday, 17th May 2011, 01:08:42 pm
Wednesday, 15th June 2011, 10:13:36 pm [**]
Friday, 15th July 2011, 08:39:36 am
Saturday, 13th August 2011, 08:57:30 pm
Monday, 12th September 2011, 11:26:42 am
Wednesday, 12th October 2011, 04:05:42 am
Thursday, 10th November 2011, 09:16:06 pm
Saturday, 10th December 2011, 03:36:24 pm [**]
Time specified in Central European Time (CET)
or Summer Time (CEST)
Don’t Worry about one or half day different or adjustment.
My friend Jeffery has gone back to his hometown in the outskirts with poor internet connection and may not be online for some time. He would like to thank everyone especially Lang C for the advice given.
By the way Lang C, I did ask a question on my own bazi that day but didn't get a response from you.If I don't have any output element in my bazi, does it mean I'll suffer some infertility problem like Jeffery's wife?
Hope you can take the trouble to answer this last question.