Just curious how compatible am I with this m'sian guy? Based on my knowledge when the two chart combines , they are too dry. Everybody needs water. Can't compliment. For sure one aspect will be lacking in this relationship. But at this moment, ti is too early to judge. Just go with the flow and enjoy while it last.
Compatibility is just one aspect of indicating the interest between both parties. Most important is still the degree of tolerance both parties can offer to each other after marriage. Marriage is easy but to maintain a marriage is the toughest of all. Communication is very important for a couple and it is good to put it on the table for a discussion to find a solution rather than keeping it inside the heart. A prolong misunderstanding and frustration will usually result in unpleasant events to happen.
You must understand his weakness and ask yourself whether you can accept and tolerate it or even help him to improve it. A chart which the spouse and marriage palace is free from encumbrance will still face a direct clash every 12 years. This will be the time where the foundation of a marriage will be put to test.
I have question re. day master. Since my day master is weak and I have too many 7 killings on my chart, therefore, it is not favorable for me. In terms of relationship, this will result I will be controlled by my spouse. On the other hand, 7 killings give me leadership and power. Career wise, I am a leader. Wow, if this understanding is right, it will be difficult for me to play the role. at the office, I am a leader, at home, I am being controlled by my spouse.
Yours excessive 7 Killings Star is due to your present decade luck cycle which has makes it strong due to the 3 harmony combination in your Earthly Branches. Perhaps I shall say that your 7 Killings Star is very strong rather than excessive since the combination has boosted the decade luck 7 Killings Star in the Heavenly Stem.
In your original chart you have only two 7 Killings Star and one Direct Officer Star hidden inside your Earthly Branches. As you know Direct Officer Star represents your spouse in term of people and in term of character it represent righteous and principled. As for the 7 Killings Star it represent your lovers or close opposite sex confidants and in term of character it represent ruthless and impulsive.
Therefore the roots of your chart show that there is a spouse star and close opposite sex confidant. The strength and appearance of this star will have to depend on your chart, decade and annual influence.
Overall you still need to look at the whole chart and influence to conclude the circumstances. Just like a sportsman needs strong 7 Killings Star to give them the killer instinct to win their opponent. As for your case your 7 Killings Star is presently too strong and in term of character it help to give you the aggressiveness in managing your company. In term of people the opposite sex may have an agenda toward getting near you. So there is no good or bad, right or wrong, everything is relative and it depends on what you want.
The reason I asked about it is because I think I don't have the luck to experience a marriage life. Many cases are I actually being compared and the result is I always become the unfortunate one. Not being pick up. Regardless she is being better or worse than me. The guy I have the relationship with will be back off slowly and peacefully. That 's really frustrating . That's why I like to know why. If there is something I can fix before finding another one. Tired la.