How You Sleep Can Reveal Your Innermost Desires!!
How you sleep says more about you than you realize - your dreams, your
hopes, and most of all your yearning for loving and touching. How you
sleep reveals what you are really looking for in a soul mate. Remember
that often what we feel and what we think we want may be quite the
opposite of what our inner consciousness wants.
Here we highlight the six most common sleeping postures - check
these out and see what your sleeping position is telling you about what
you really want in a guy… or a gal.
is the foetus position, when one sleeps curled up like a baby in the
womb. The hands can be held together at the neck or between the legs.
This is reportedly the most common sleep position and is also
indicative of the most normal type personality. Such men and women are
generally secure and well-balanced individuals.
: Women who sleep like a
baby in the womb are described as being incredibly loving and sweet.
They are very tough ladies who run their homes with firm hands, but
they are also warm and sensitive individuals. Women who sleep like
babies tend to be shy and do not trust others easily. They like men who
are sensitive and caring of others. Not for them the arrogant,
know-it-all type of guy. They value humility, decency and honesty. If
you are the flamboyant, show-off type, you can forget about this lady.
She has little time for the dramatic and grand flourish.
: Men who sleep like a
baby just love being mothered. In a sense, they have never grown up, so
they like “big mama”. If you tend to be on the plump side, you will
appeal to his need for the warmth of the womb. He likes women who can
take charge of situations and he will seldom allow himself to be
unfaithful. To him, the family unit offers an irresistible sense of
well-being. So such men usually make faithful husbands
people sleep on their stomachs with their hands in the surrender
position flat on the bed. Their heads can be turned to the left or
right. They rest easy and are pretty well balanced. Their sleep posture
suggests they are in dreamland, visualizing the scenes that make their
hearts sing and their eyes smile with joyousness.
: Women who sleep this way
are incurable romantics. They dream always of the knight in shining
armour and are seldom disappointed, even when their knight turns out to
be less than expected. This is because they are eternal optimists -
always ready for the next guy that will come into their life and sweep
them off their feet. They can be practical and down-to-earth, but they
know they want a romantic to share their life. Married women who sleep
this way are usually very much in love with their spouses. This is a
happy sleep posture.
: Men who sleep on their
stomachs will usually make excellent husband material. They are
romantic, but also down-to-earth and practical. They usually fall for
women who are sweet and non-intimidating - preferring the ladylike
types to the flirtatious or forward sirens. In love, they like to take
their time and it is a bad idea to hurry them into marriage.
The Wild Thing
is the freedom personified sleep posture, with both legs and hands
flung out in wild abandonment. It is an indication of their free
spirit. Here is a person who does not feel shackled either by society’s
norms or their own cultural or family restrictions. Such people are
usually adventurous and courageous. But they can also be brash and
thin-skinned. They do not take kindly to criticism.
: Women who sleep with
abandonment tend to be very adventurous and they are willing to give
everything a chance. They make good friends and are often generous with
their time and money. Many men will find them irresistible and respond
easily to their love of life and their non-judgmental outlook. They are
free spirits not bound by convention.
: Men who sleep this way
have a secret yearning to run away and do their own thing. Many often
do - sail around the world, climb Mount Everest or swim the English
Channel. They respond to women who share their appreciation of the
environment, and their love of adventure and travel. Men who sleep this
way make wonderful friends and in their more mature years are
incredibly reassuring to have around.
The Strait Jacket
by one’s side with both arms by the side, like a log. This is a posture
of inner constraint and invisible chains binding you to a set of
principles. You do not feel free and your psyche is ruled by powerful
subconscious rules, which may be cultural, religious or traditional.
Such people are generally quiet and reserved and they often set the
moral high ground for others.
: This is a sleep position
that is suggestive of someone very decorous and correct in the way they
interact with others. Women who sleep this way are usually afraid to
take risks in love and are reluctant to be adventurous. They need a man
who is strong enough to reassure their hidden fears. Usually they
respond to a father figure - someone used to authority and leadership.
Women who sleep this way tend to trust people easily and may be naïve
to the point of being gullible. When in love, they can be very “needy”,
often clinging to their loved one. So the men in their lives could find
them too possessive. Learn to relax and let go of the tension. You will
be more successful in your love life then.
: The guy who sleeps this
way has probably been through some kind of regimental discipline - so
he could be from the army or from a strict private school. His life is
well ordered and he finds comfort in tradition and the norms of
behavior. Men who sleep this way are usually easy to please, as long as
you follow the traditional way of doing things and responding to
people. You know what to expect from them. They are drawn to sweet
young things who come from sheltered homes. Fussy and aggressive women
usually turn them off.
people sleep on their side with both arms flung out in front of them,
resting on a pillow. Their legs are stretched out straight and their
faces are seldom buried in the pillow - instead the face is often
averted upwards. This is the seductive sleep posture.
: Women who sleep this way
are the seductress sirens of the sleep spectrum. They are unconscious
flirts, often sending out unexpected “come on” gestures, yet seldom
making it easy for the man. Such women tend to be enticing and sexy.
What they love most is the chase. They do not like men who give up too
easily and they love being seduced. Flirt with her if your lady sleeps
this way. Pamper her also and play hard to get - all at the same time.
If you do not, she could well get bored with you and look for someone
more exciting. This lady loves to be surprised and she has a very open
mind about a lot of things. But never take her for granted, because
then she will simply run away.
: Men who sleep this way
tend to be rather effeminate and could prefer the company of their own
gender. If they do not, then it is likely they are drawn to women who
are bossy, and who take a leading role in their love life. Seductress
type men are not necessarily the romantic or flirtatious type, but they
are very touchy, feely types. They like the foreplay better than the
real thing, but they prefer women who initiate the big moves.
people sleep on their sides with both arms resting lightly by their
side, and their heads resting gently on the pillow. All through the
night, they will maintain this position of sleep, and in the mornings,
they awaken with hair pretty much in place. This is often the sleep
position of the narcissistic person.
: She is easy-going and
very sociable. Women who sleep this way get along with most people and
are usually very popular. Such women however tend to be too trusting so
they often fall for the wrong kind of guy and allow themselves to be
taken advantage of. They prefer good-looking men. Appearances are
important to them
: This can be described as
the gregarious male - flamboyant, charming and sociable. They love
glamorous women and can often be depended upon to be at all the fun
parties. They move easily with the in-crowd. Men who sleep with on
their sides with arms pressed close to their bodies also tend to be
egotistical and have a rather inflated view of themselves. They will
usually go for the woman who is a suitable trophy for their social
Couples Who Sleep Facing Each Other
are said to reflect their mutual respect for each other. These are two
independent individuals, probably with their own careers. This is the
sleep of the power couple. If they are covered by a single duvet cover
or blanket, it shows a greater closeness between them. If they sleep
each with their own blankets, it indicates distinct and separate
When Couples Sleep Close Together
on their stomachs, it suggests a depth of relationship between the two.
When the woman sleeps this way facing her spouse it suggests a
subconscious dependence on him. If he sleeps with his arm over her
back, he is manifesting possessiveness.
The following article is taken from the "Feng Shui World (Mar/Apr 2004)". To subscribe, please click here.