I was born on Sonar Calendar 13 April 1980 (Lunar Calendar 28 February). I got involved with a guy who is born on 26 March 1961 (Sonar Calendar). We have had a fantastic relationship. Some trust issues (I did something stupid, would say I grade it 5 on the scale from 1 to 10 of the seriousness level) happenned + ongoing arguments made us break up in the second week of Nov 2010. I didn't agree with the break up decision, and have never stopped working very hard on mending it. This guy asked me to be patient and understanding with him, and kept saying the same things that we were rebuilding it, that he was incredibly attracted to me, that he loved me, that I had him, that there's no other woman for me to be jealous and I believed him (I was the silly girl just sitting, waiting and hoping. Anytime, I suggested him to make decision about our situation as I just get fed up the walk-on-shell situation, he was extremely short-tempered and cross with me).

On 10 Feb 2011, I was hospitalized and his number was under emergency contacts (he brought me to the hospital when I passed out, and didn't leave until 3am because doctors/ nurses didn't let him be anywhere near me after I was admitted). I woke up at 4:30, had no home key, no cash, no credit card (as he kept my clutch) and desperately wanted to be discharged. Thus the nurse called him at 5 am and guess what, a woman claiming that "I'm the new girlfriend of Mr. 26 March 1961" picked up the call. It turned out such woman has been living under the same apartment with him for almost 3 months although Mr. 26 March 1961 confirmed that he has never named her to be his girlfriend.

He came to see me on 11 Feb and told me that he has already asked such woman to move out by 19-20 Feb. We agreed that we would start all over, that I was/ am his girlfriend and that he would make it very clear with such woman about that (on 11 Feb). The horrible situation is they are and will be living in the same apartment until 19-20 Feb, which is so tough for me to cope with.

Yes, I'm sorry for the long story, and I'm ready to receive all of criticisms/ comments like I have cheapened myself, I have been blinded by love, that I have betrayed to my sense of worth. The truth is I did try seeing other guys (no sexual relationship) and was not attracted to any of them.

Please kindly help me out of this situation by using FengShui (like which symbol I should keep with me to make sure that he would always be faithful to me, and we wouldn't have fights/ agruments/ agreements with no proper reasons). Thank you in advance so so so much.

In this situation, I would only ask you to stay calm and make things clearly. I not disagree of this man with you nor agree you to marriage. I couldn't control your decision. So far, this situation Feng Shui can't help in this. The only cure is you, you who are the good remedies to to this thing. So that what I say in the beginning, Stay calm and make things clear then you have what right to do. So sorry, Feng Shui also has it limit too.

Try to solve this problem by yourselves. if anything happen, please do, share with us, let us help you in this burden.

J

Dear Jacky Lee,

Many thanks for your sincere feedback.

I would rephrase my question as given what has happened to me, my Fengshui corner at my house must be really bad. In such case, could you please guide me through how I should arrange it to enhance my romance luck? Thank you very much.

CheekyTrickyChic :-*

As I told u in the early post, it not the Feng Shui problem. If you want you may find you house West sector, and try to activate the Qi over that side. It may help you boost up some happy occasion.

J

I believe JackyLee is giving you a good response.

The feng shui of our house does not cause or control all that occurs in our lives, nor the choices we make or the choices others make. Feng shui is no substitute for the hard work of developing mature personalities. You could learn and benefit much from this experience... rather than trying to make it disappear.

Devadog and JackyLee, many thanks for your advice. I believe that this horrible relationship experience has enlightened me many things, or at least, it has toughen me. Women are funny creature, maybe we would remain naive until we die (no matter how smart or successful we are in other areas of life).

Fengshui questions please:

1. I know that my Peach Blossom star falls in the West. However, under Kua number calculation, West would be my very bad directions (six killings). Could you please suggest what I could do in this very tricky situation?

2. Also under Kua number calculation, East would symbolize my romance luck. What can I do to enhance mine though?

3. Under Flying Star theory, the Peach Blossom star falls in South West, which is unfortunately my bad compass direction - Five Ghosts? Any chance I still can activate it without worsen the Five Ghosts direction?

Many thanks. I wish you all a very good week ahead.

CheekyTrickyChic

Feng Shui Answer, YES:

1) West is Peach Blossom, this is not direction but sector. You not facing it but sitting it. Find you west sector of your house then sit on there, you will receive the Qi over there.

2) Do more activity at there, such as dance, sing, jumping and etc.

3) same as No.1.

Additional, you may sit on West sector and face your good direction. You will still receive the Qi of the Peach Blossom and other Qi as well.

Hi,

can i give suggestion?
If ur West and East afflicted (2011 is very bad), you should try to activate universal love corner for women. I tried it SW and star 4 romance fly to SW this year. Light a red lamp and put crystal enhancer at this corner. Try to enhance earth element there.

Well this is my suggestion because ive tried it.

but sometimes, if its not meant to be, u will find a new love. just be patient.

goodluck.