My mom has sufferred epileptic syndrom for years and last ear she was diagnosed with a very hard case of encephalitis. She was in bed for 2 months and doctors couldn't even promise anything to me. Luckily she has started to recover but ahe still has lots of issues as far as her balance and headaches. Could you take a look and see if her health will improve with time?

November 10, 1950. Born around 4 am (GTM +3)

Dear Sam,



At the first glance at her chart, she had worked very hard for her family. I do respect such kind of woman with determination sacrifices for her children.


First in her Chart the Qi-flow is not too bad, there is still average Qi-flow. Second her current 10 year Luck is a Metal Dragon, so the Qi-flow in her body is still good.

The elements in her main chart are a little bit chaotic, but not excessive strong, weak or unbalance.

She has passed the 60 years cycle, so that is good news.


Her mentally state is controlled by the Wood-element, or the Liver. This Liver will support her Heart-Qi flow that is also good news. Her Wood is not weak.


She has three Powerful Mentor Stars, so is always somebody supporting her during through her life. It is also good news.

Her current HS 10 year Luck pillar is Yang Metal; an Output element for Yin Earth DM. Output could also mean escape from danger, that’s good news.


Encephalitis is a Virus infection, as long her Qi-flow is stable and good, the Virus will not have the change to dominate her body.


With all the Bazi-diagnosis according to the theory of Chinese Medicine, I could conclude with confident that your mother is a fighter and she will be all right the next 10 years.


I have seen worst charts about health than your mother.


To be sure about her Hour-pillar I would like to check your Chart too for extra information related to inherited illness.




Saphora

Thank you so much for your time and some good news!
You're right. My mother is a fighter. She's trying to get back her strength really hard.
I'm a female born on September 29, 1972 at 2:10 p.m. (GMT +4).

Dear Sam,


The reason why I want to check your DOB is, I do feel some problems in your chart and I was right.


You do have lots of problems, from Health to your Love life. In the worst case your Father.


10 of 10 marriage couples those have similar to your charts, ten of ten of them didn’t survive their marriage in 2013. So please prepare for the disastrous impact, all you could do is “Retreat and Defend”.

I do hope that I was wrong about you, but till now I am still 100% correct. Your destiny is just to be a “Second Choice” in a marriage. May God save your souls and marriage in 2013.


About Health and Luck, if you were Lucky your father is still with your mother, in the worst case he is not longer near you.

About your Health, one of your inner Organs is not working properly. Your immune system is out of control. Your will easily get chronic illness, it means you have to take medicine to control that illness. It will get worst and will trigger in year 2013, yes next year.


All you could do is keep calm and relax more. It is not easy, when the whole world is against you. You will be pushed your back against the wall, you must bite back even you don’t want it or not. You don’t have any choice. In theory is always easy, but being in your shoes is not that pretty.


If you have any questions, please ask.





Saphora

Thank you Saphora again for such detailed information. I really appreciate that!

My mom is still with my father but they're officially divorced. They got back together when he got sick and almost died and she practically saved him. Now he's taking care of her.

Is there a way to prevent this chronic illness? Can I do anything now? Point me in a right direction if you can please.
In another thread it was said to me that I should be a heavy drinker due to zi-you punishment. I hardly ever drink alcohol but could it mean that my liver is out of balance?

As far as my marriage goes, it makes me really sad because my son is way too young to go through this kind of drama in his life.
Also, I was thinking about having another child next year. Would it be even possible? Or having a child might trigger either this illness or a divorce?

Dear Sam,



There are three major important issues to deal with are:

- Your Husband is losing his confident
- You want to have a child in 2013
- Your Health


*Your Husband is losing his confident

Your husband has just 13 months to recover. Within these 13 months mean everything in both of your Family’s future. If he can not find his confident back, your Destiny will be fixed. It means you will be somebody’s “Second Choice”. Your Family Luck is dependent on his Luck and confident. He is losing it and need to deal immediately. “Retreat and Defend” means you have to spend more time with him to recover his confident in the society. On the left and on the right of your chart, there are two Devils waiting to attack. They are waiting when you and Family in May 2013 are weak, they will be activated. As long your husband within that time is recovered than everything will be fine, your Future will be stable.

Winning a Lottery is no Solution in this matter.


*You want to have a child in 2013

As you already know you are now 40 years old, if you are just 20’s than I would recommend “Yes”. Your biological clock is ticking, looking at your chart there are un-pleasant Qi-flow in your body that I wouldn’t dare to recommend it. Having a Baby is the Work of Mother Nature; I don’t have any abilities to give some comments on that.
Looking at your chart, your Luck will be blocked in 2013; there is no flow in your Luck and also in your body. There will lots of stress and worries, if there is a baby in you the child will feel with you too. He will receive all unpleasant Hormones and Stress in his blood. He is not even born yet and he already feels sadness and sorrows. I do recommend having a baby when both of you are happy, the child will be happy too when he/she is born.


*Your Health


As other already had mentioned, a “Punishment” in combine with “Destruction” and very strong “7-Killings God” in your chart, in theory we should be worries about those unpleasant Bazi-facts. When sorrows and sadness come, people like to hide their feelings, some try to “drink alcohol” to forget. In your case it could mean you will helpless and not know what to do, self-blame will destroy your health. One of your Organs especially the Liver cannot handle all the stress and will trigger other illness. Your immune system will be triggered.



Only you and your husband could win and reduce this disastrous impact, understanding and sacrifices for each other.


Never blame him or her, it is your Destiny together, together share the dreams also share the nightmares. Good times will come, till then is biting through.



Discuss about the Fate with your husband, he must understand it, otherwise it will be no meaning.



Can I take a look in your House plan and surrounding?




Saphora

Saphora, I'm having troubles attaching an image here. Is there other other way for me to send it to you?


We live in an apartment building. I draw a plan for you (hope it's good enough to give you an idea) and you can see surroundings nearby the house. I've marked my apartment with a red dot.

Thank you!!!

Dear Sam,


In an Apartment the Qi-flow is weak, it is dependent which apartment you are living, but I do my best to take a look.



You could send to my email: This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it .

It accepts any file-formats.




Saphora

Thank you Saphora. I sent a message to you

Saphora, I've sent another message to your mailbox. Please respond if you can!

Dear Sam,



Yes, I did reply in your private mail.



You are living in an apartment, in this apartment the Earth-Luck will not help you much. Just keep the apartment clean and tidy, make it more Yang. In your circumstances using Feng Shui you need know the basics yourselves first.


You do know your Heaven-Luck and Earth-Luck. It is now only your Man-Luck left, it will be hard. At least you know, you have done your best and everything has a reason.


But don't worry, after the rain the sun will shine again. I am also in the rain right now and I understand your concern.



Your good period will come after the rain, so it will balance your life again, till then it is biting through.


Save money for the raining days, they said.




Saphora

Thnak you Saphora! I'll try to bite through the hard times.
I was asking something else in a private e-mail

Dear Sam,



Lately I was overwhelm with Spam-mails, probably I accidentally delete your post, my apologize.



Could you please send that question again?



You could send to WOFS-mail or This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it .






Saphora

I resent it to your gmail inbox. Many thanks!