Hi verge,
Although we have the chance to select the type of spouse we want but heaven is always good at making fun of us. I can give you a guide on what is installed in your spouse and what type of Day Master is best for you but Love is blind.
Anyway your spouse will likely be someone who is very romantic but unrealistic type of person. Love to enjoy life, food, sing and with full of fantastic ideas. You belong to the special chart which is Earth Dominating Chart. You always have your own idea and like to take control of things. So it is preferable that your spouse Day Master is Weak so that both stubborn characters will not clash with each other. His favorable element shall be Fire and Earth.
It is best to avoid Dog zodiac but not necessary. If his Day Master is Jia Wood both of you will have a loving and blissful marriage. Other type of Day Master like Wu Earth, Geng Metal and Ren Water is also compatible.
Year 2014, 2015 and 2019 is a strong marriage and relationship year for you.
Hope this can help you.
Bernard