Dear Readers,

For the benefit of the readers here, I append below a table for the Flower of Romance direction. Kindly erect your own Bazi chart and use the Year and Day Pillars Branches to check on it.

DAY OR YEAR BRANCH…....... FLOWER OF ROMANCE……...........SECTOR

Rat, Dragon & Monkey…………………Rooster………….........West2 - 262.5 to 277.5

Ox, Snake & Rooster……………………Horse…………...........South2 - 172.5 to 187.5

Tiger, Horse & Dog………………………Rabbit…………..........East2 - 82.5 to 97.5

Rabbit, Ram & Pig…………………….….Rat……………….........North2 – 352.5 to 7.5

Method – You can either place a glass bowl of water or a fresh rose flower in a blue vase or glass bowl of water with some rose quartz inside. ( Base on personal preference).

Reminder – Once you enter into a relationship or in courtship, you must remove it immediately. There is no restriction to the no. of times you can activate, if the relationship didn’t turn up well you can restart again to look for another new relationship. After removal of the water you can place some love symbol in the yearly Flying Star 4 sector to further enhance the relationship or courtship. This year the Star 4 is at the East sector and next year at Southeast sector.

Please do not place any figurine of the the particular FR star because you might invite more (not related) than you want.

Good luck!!!


Bernard

hi, wanna ask, is there a specific time to activate the peach blossom?

activate as in merely 'putting the horse' there, right?

as for my case, i put the horsie at the south corner of the room, then after 1 day, i put it inside a closet, a day after i put it on top of the aircond unit which happen to be on the south corner of my room.

am i doing it right?

Hi woopypooky,

I do not encourage to place a figurine base on the particular FR star because you may invite more than you want. FR is related to water so we only use water to bring out the star from the said sector.

As for the time you may have to check it yourself, there are some site which provide the good time of the day.


Bernard

Bernard154 wrote:

Hi Bernard,

when u say that,what do you mean by inviting more than what want?

would i invite personal enemies as well...thief? something not related to romance?

Hi woopypooky,

You have a Wu Horse in your Hour Pillar, if you place or invite another horse, there might be a possibility of creating a self punishment (Wu and Wu clash) in your Hour Pillar. This Pillar represent your career and children - do you want something bad to happen? good luck!!!

We are only interested with the FR star and not the horse so please use water to activate and invite the star out.


Bernard

hi Bernard thanks for your reply.

since my horse is at my hour pillar, wouldn't the self punishment only happen when i was at 60 yrs +? (if there is any, touch wood*) That is a long time , year 2050, and i wouldnt have displayed it anymore.

another thing i'm curious is u mentioned i should marry after 33?

why 33? why not 31? if based on 10 decade luck, it should be 31.

thanks in advance

Hi woopypooky,

In the elementary stage every pillar is read as 20 years but in the advance stage every pillar is reduced and read as 16 or 17 yrs per pillar. As for me I take it as 16 yrs per pillar. Reading of individual pillar just acts as a guide of our destiny that exerts the greatest effect during the respective pillar cycle. But since Hour Pillar represents our career and children palace whatever influence during our stage of life will have a direct influence in connection to the respective palace representation. A bazi chart must be read as a whole and not just individual pillar. Are you going to tell yourself that when you reach the Hour Pillar of your life then your career and children will only have clashes or combination effect?

Your Day clashes with your Month and Year Pillar so during the respective period of 1 to 16 and 17 to 32 it show how your Day Pillar (which represent you) has a conflict with your ancestor and parent palace. If you will to marry during this period your spouse palace will be triggered immediately. Now it will turn to the situation where your spouse will clash your Month Pillar (which represents your parent, sibling and also your inner feeling)

Likely scenario is that your spouse may have bad relationship with your parent or sibling and also you. But once you cross to the 33 to 49 yrs stage your Day Pillar will be independent by itself and only the external influence will affect the Day Pillar. This is the reason why I told you it is better for you to marry after age 33 so as to avoid the above clashes effect.


Bernard

hi bernard,

thanks for your clarification.

the reason i asked this is cos i suddenly remembered few years back a fortune teller also told me the same thing. Dont marry before you are 33. But he doesnt know my birthdate. He did it by simply looking at my face and lines on my hands.

Hi Bernard,

based on what you reply to wookypooky, I am really curious. Can you help me look into my bazi reading too? I know this is too much to ask but I really want to know when my ONE will appear. I want to prepare myself and give the fullest into it because I have twice failure relationship. I don't want to happen anymore....T.T Please advice....DOB 9 April 1988. Time: 0230 am.

Hi cks999,

Looking at your chart you enter into a decade luck of Wu and Wu Horse. This creates a self punishment of the two Wu Horse. Since it clash into your Day Pillar the likely scenario will be personally you exhibit an extreme character, you are impatient, inquisitive and refuse to take criticism. This might make people around you uncomfortable. Well maybe you need to improve yourself in this aspect and also be careful with your words and expression.

You need a good relationship luck cycle in your bazi to help you support a relationship. I think your next decade luck cycle from age 28 to 37 looks good.

I have only this to say and since you have consulted our Dr. Love – Saphora, I will let him explain to your further.


Bernard

Hi Bernard,
You mentioned 28, means 27 in western year?

CKS

Hi Bernard

I want to thank you for helping me activating my peach blossom. I have activated today according to the direction and time you have gave me with a glass of water. Just out of curiosity, when will it usually started to work ?

Hi cks999,

No, age 28 western year.


Bernard

Hi litoxaznxg,

You will see better result if you have the support from your bazi relationship luck. Important thing is that you must know your Mr. Right will not knock at your house door to look for you. Please attend more social gathering and present your best self at all times.



Bernard

hi Bernard!

Sorry to bother you again..Can you please tell me if i will have any luck this year regarding my lovelife?

My name is Maria Teresa, I was born November 15 1984 ( rat) in the Philippines but now living in Calgary Alberta Canada around 10pm-1am.

I think i was cursed by one of my suitors. Please help. Thank you in advance

Hi Bernard

Thanks for replying. How do I know if I have relationship support in my bazi or not? Can you help me take a look at my bazi?

July 26, 1986 at 5:34pm at eastern time

Hi Maria,

Please look at my PM to you.


Bernard

Hi litoxaznxg

May I know what is your gender?


Bernard

nHi Bernard!

I was born between 2:30 am to 3:00 am Nov. 15, 1984. Thanks again.

Hi Maria,

Yours relationship element in the Day and Hour pillar is competing to combine with your Year and Month Pillar to transform into Water element. In another word your relationship element is very fragile and unstable. Furthermore your Output element is also strong especially the Hurting Officer. As you know Output Star likes to attack and control your Influence Star which is also your spouse or lover star.

You need external relationship element to fly in to support you. Looking at your decade luck I am afraid there is none and now we have to depend on the annual luck cycle. Your annual luck cycle has some supporting element in your next 6 years. We may have to use your Wealth element to support your relationship element. Next five years you will see the Fire element coming in so hopefully the Fire which is your Wealth element can support your Influence Star and at the same time buffer the Output star attack. However the worry part is that in your chart the Water element is extremely strong and might easily wash away the Fire element when it flies in. Anyway I think in year 2015 yours Mr. Right will appear and in term of marriage year 2018 is very strong for you. Hopefully this coming 5 years the Fire element could help you in one way or another to stay in courtship. Well to have is better than don’t have at all, right?

As your Output element is quite strong and it also represents your innovation, creativity and expression so you must also be careful with your words and expression when you appear in front of the opposite sex.

Hope this could help you to understand yourself better.


Bernard