Dear Bernard154,

I am recently introduced to Bazi & Fengshui.
I'll to know more about BaZi to help myself better certain aspects in my life.
Please help me with the analysis of my BaZi Chart.

DOB: 19 June 1985
Time of Birth: 1815 (Singapore)
Female


I am concerned about these aspects:
1 Health (I have been plagued by acute illnesses these few years which affects me emotionally & mentally)
2 Career (I am in the retail industry but am losing interest in my job. I hope to gain knowledge of which industry will better suit me)
3 Family (Parents health)
3 Relationship/Marriage (I am engaged to be married but I am not sure if I have the marriage luck to have a good & stable marriage)

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Thank you in advance!

Hi siruzheng,

Sorry for the delay as I was busy watching the Olympic game.

Perhaps I shall start off with the root of your chart for you to understand yourself better so that you can work on your strength and improve on your weakness. Present decade and annual luck is not taken into consideration but it will have some influence toward your present character and behavior.

Your Day Master is Ji Earth and is Strong. You fall under the chart profile of “The Friend or Friend”. Individual fall under this profile is full of confidence about life and has your own opinions as well as ideas. With firm beliefs, you stay focused to achieve you goals through sheer diligence. You are a hard person to persuade or influence due to your strong sense of pride. Thus you will not surrender or give in unless the other party proves to be more capable.

Since you are Strong your favorable element will be Water and Metal and Wood is neutral to you. Your unfavorable element will be Fire and Earth.

As your Day Master is strong it is advisable for you to take up tasks or activities that involve in supervision management or overseeing people in your work place. You will perform better in task that relate to the productive aspects of the organization such as coming up with ideas, marketing, driving sales and executing strategies rather than task or activities that relate to developmental or supportive aspects of the organization like customer service, relationship management and R&D.

You are talented and gifted in life, you have tremendous passion, energy, fervor and most importantly ambition to achieve, achieve and achieve. You are always bursting with ideas and your mind are constantly thinking and always working and your ideas can be a cut above the rest. You will be able to gain favorable outcomes and exploit your talents to achieve your goals to attain wealth.

You need to put in more time or effort at work to see good outcomes. You should strive to be workaholics because you have a tendency to be passive rather than pro-active when it comes to work or matters of wealth. It is important for you to focus on your job or work and consciously train yourselves to look out for opportunities for wealth or financial advancement.

You are often projected with a greater measure of leadership than you actually possess. You are seems to be more powerful and intimidating than you really are. You know when to hold back and when to push forward and also inherently be able to risk manage your actions to ensure they never go too far.

You exhibit a procrastinating and lazy personality and you are constantly fixated with the subject of retirement or your next vacation. You spend all your time coming up with either a raft of useless ideas or just a single idea that ultimately proves to not be well thought out. Urgency typically does not exited in you and you often lack the ability to prioritize or to determine the difference between matters that need to be done and matters that can wait to be done. You often lack practicality and your behavior will often appear flighty and whimsical.

You over think your decisions and then still ultimately arrive at the wrong decision because the wrong considerations were taken into account or given more weight in the decision making process. You are emotionally driven, hypersensitive and often proud at the expense of practicality. In the end pride invariably leads to prejudice.

You are surrounded by many friends but a majority of those friends will be fair-weather friends. Your friends are unreliable in time when you need help or rather you have many superficial friends but few close confidants.

You will also have difficulty saving money or has poor financial management skills. You like to take short-cuts in life but end up none the wiser or better as a result of your short-cut driven mindset. You have a tendency to talk only and no action type.

Conclusion

In term of health are you having digestive or abdominal problem? or perhaps can you tell us what acute illness are you experiencing.

In term of career you can go for Metal and Water element jobs. You can go to the following link to check it. www.wofs.com/index.php?option=com_kunena...=5317&Itemid=161

Your parent health shall not have much issue during yours this present decade luck cycle.

In regard to your marriage you may face some minor problem since there is a harm clash between your spouse palace and your marriage life palace. In this aspect both of you need to be mindful in maintaining a good temperamental and be more patient toward yours partner in your marriage life.

In term of feng shui you can use more white, metallic, blue and black color. You can also sleep with your head pointing toward West, Northwest and North direction. You can also wear more metallic bracelet or chain.

Hope this can help you to understand yourself better.


Bernard

Dear Bernard154,

Thank you so much for your time & help amidst your busy schedule.

The analysis really helps to put life into perspective: I realize where I may be wasting time or opportunities and confront my weakness so now I can begin to improve on them. The part about my lazy and procrastinating behaviour definistely hit home - I have carried this flaw in my youth(around 15 years old) until today. Time to quit the bad habit.

You mentioned that the present decade and annual luck is not taken into consideration but it will have some influence toward my present character and behavior, could you elaborate?

In terms of health, you are spot-on - indigestion and gastritis/acid reflux have been my "companions" for years even when I paid extra careful attention on my diet. The last few vacations would see me hugging the toilet bowl and lying in bed due to malaise; it didn't affect anyone else even though everyone ate the same food.

In terms of marriage, you are right once again about our temper. I have been with my partner for 3 years and the relationship isn't shaky but neither was it build on very strong foundation because we had a hard time grappling with our pasts - he lost his then-girlfriend to a fatal accident and I just got out of an abusive relationship. We have since gotten past those issues and last year we decided to take a leap of faith, we got engaged We both agree that we will take a year to weather out our differences & learn to control our tempers before we set a date for the wedding. May I ask for a favour again to analyse my partner's bazi chart and your kind advice on our compatibility? His details are:

DOB: 04 October 1984
Time of Birth: 0150 (Singapore)
Male
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Thank you once again!

Hi siruizheng,

Thank you for your feedback.

Bazi decoding is using the 5 elements and 10 gods interact relationship so once your decade and annual luck cycle begins there will be some kind of influence into your character and behavior. That is the reason why sometime you find a person with a sudden change in their character.

As for your digestive problem I will suggest you do an endoscopy to check whether there is any ulcer in your stomach.

Marry is easy but the most challenging part is on how to maintain a blissful marriage. A lot of patient and understanding is required and it need both party to play their role. Love is blind and even if I tell you that both of you are not compatible, what are you going to do. There are a lot of couples which are not compatible but still enjoy a good marriage life. It takes two to tango and a couple must play their role well if they are looking for a blissful marriage.

In Chinese Metaphysics we talked about Cosmic of Trinity which comprise of Heaven (destiny), Earth (feng shui) and Man (how you drive your road path) luck and all have an equal weighting. If your destiny is not in your favor then you can use Earth and Man Luck to control or overcome it.

I will now decode your boyfriend chart and his root is quite similar to you. I will address the decoding to him.

Your Day Master is Xin Metal and is Strong. Your chart profile fall under “The Friend or Friend” Individual fall under this profile is full of confidence about life and has your own opinions as well as ideas. With firm beliefs, you stay focused to achieve you goals through sheer diligence. You are a hard person to persuade or influence due to your strong sense of pride. Thus you will not surrender or give in unless the other party proves to be more capable.

Since your Day Master is Strong your favorable element will be Wood and Water, Fire is neutral to you and Earth and Metal will be your unfavorable element.

As your Day Master is strong it is advisable for you to take up tasks or activities that involve in supervision management or overseeing people in your work place. You will perform better in task that relate to the productive aspects of the organization such as coming up with ideas, marketing, driving sales and executing strategies rather than task or activities that relate to developmental or supportive aspects of the organization like customer service, relationship management and R&D.

You are talented and gifted in life, you have tremendous passion, energy, fervor and most importantly ambition to achieve, achieve and achieve. You are always bursting with ideas and your mind are constantly thinking and always working and your ideas can be a cut above the rest. You will be able to gain favorable outcomes and exploit your talents to achieve your goals to attain wealth.

You will have an easy time attaining financial success in your life. You are naturally workaholic and your hard work usually brings about positive outcomes for you. The more you work, the greater your advancement or progress, especially when it comes to your financial capacity and growth.

You are often projected with a greater measure of leadership than you actually possess. You are seems to be more powerful and intimidating than you really are. You know when to hold back and when to push forward and also inherently be able to risk manage your actions to ensure they never go too far.

You exhibit a procrastinating and lazy personality and you are constantly fixated with the subject of retirement or your next vacation. You spend all your time coming up with either a raft of useless ideas or just a single idea that ultimately proves to not be well thought out. Urgency typically does not exited in you and you often lack the ability to prioritize or to determine the difference between matters that need to be done and matters that can wait to be done. You often lack practicality and your behavior will often appear flighty and whimsical.

You over think your decisions and then still ultimately arrive at the wrong decision because the wrong considerations were taken into account or given more weight in the decision making process. You are emotionally driven, hypersensitive and often proud at the expense of practicality. In the end pride invariably leads to prejudice.

You are surrounded by many friends but a majority of those friends will be fair-weather friends. Your friends are unreliable in time when you need help or rather you have many superficial friends but few close confidants.

You will also have difficulty saving money or has poor financial management skills. You like to take short-cuts in life but end up none the wiser or better as a result of your short-cut driven mindset. You have a tendency to talk only and no action type.

Conclusion

It is advisable for your spouse to continue working after marriage. You also need to show more patient and tolerance in your marriage life.

In term of feng shui you can use more green, blue and black color. You can also sleep with your head pointing toward North, East and Southeast.

Caution

As the root of both of you are quite similar, either one party may have to give way in-order to avoid a hard clash. This will help to create a Yin and Yang balance.

Hope this could help you to understand both of your character and please exercise your Man Luck to work on your strength and improve on your weakness.


Bernard