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u have to be firm with urself. tell him now or never.

and the same time, u should find urself a new bf.

dont wait and mop around.

By proposing......do you mean a romantic proposal with dinner, flowers and one knee thing....or just him saying...let's register for marriage?

If you are not aftering for the romantic thing.....then, just suggest to him..."we should register for marriage". Set the date and go for it

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Dear all,

i edit my post here.aster thinking clearly, the best and general way to activate marriage luck is by wearing double happiness symbol.
Now, to be in this luck u must have the karma and both parties are ready (financially,mentally etc)
warning: if u are not ready to such responsibility, dont activate marriage luck. Marriage means commitment and not just one night stand or asking a divorce a year later when u felt ur not compatible with ur partner.

Goodluck.

In my personal opinion, you can not force someone if that person is not yet ready or especially if that person has different plans as yours. I guess it would be smarter and fair for both of you to talk and iron things out. You mentioned that both of you will talk about things when he gets back. Is he away? Are you in a long distance relationship? Maybe you should wait for it first before you jump into conclusions.

Now, if that time comes (when he gets back), talk him about your worries and fears and how you feel about your relationship. I guess an open communication in any relationship is an essential ingredient. Now, if your bf says he is not yet ready because of different factors, then as his partner, try to understand it and patiently show your support to him and work together as partners so you could fix things that hinders him to propose marriage to you. But, if it would turn out to be the other side of the coin, then maybe you should let each other go.

You also mentioned that you broke up 5 years ago and after 3 years you met each other again. Maybe there could be factors which happened within these break-up years that hinders him to propose marriage...

Take care...

You have been waiting 7 years for a proposal? You are 30 years old, it is time to move on.

mentor777 wrote:


i agree with u mentor.
if man want a girl, nothing can stop him to get it and if he dont want the girl, nothing can stop him to leave!

dear all
thanks...

Hi there. Always remember that in a relationship, it always takes two to tango. Otherwise, the whole dance would be a disaster or a failure in the worse case.

Just like in your relationship. You are in a state where there are so many factors to consider (one major factor I guess is cultural differences...you being a Filipina and him, being Japanese), you are in a long distance relationship, his family is in big disagreement of your relationship, him being married to another woman (whom according to you he has divorced - were you able to validate it? - this may be the reason why he can not hold on to his promise, which is to marry you....).

But, if the 2 of you really want to fight for the relationship, no matter what happens, you will hold on to each other's arms and continue dancing....

But I guess, the situation tells otherwise.....maybe it's time for you to consider moving on....

I am sad to hear this....because I am a Filipina too...

Take care....All my prayers are with you....