I am new to this forum. I need your help in reading my ba zi analysis especially in love aspect.
My dob is may 29 1973, female. Time : 6:30am gmt (+8 ).
I have no relationship at all for this past few years. I hope to experience a marriage life soon.
Look forward to your analysis.
First of all thank you for responding to my topic. Following your comment about my relationship, I think there is no "him" at all since 2005. Almost a decade of loneliness. No candidates to pick . It's not because i am picky. This is the fact which is th opposite to your reading. What is wrong? am not in a relationship now n still single. Please give me some explanation based on d chart.
I hv interest in fs but too much information or readings make me confuse n can't give a conclusion. i am really curious about your comment.
You have a Chart which I like to marry with. The chart is not too bad at all.
You are strong enough to survive the Wealth you want to achieve. You are strong enough to get married under influences of the Husband Star. Every man you meet could feel the Female inside of you, they will attract like flies. It is like Yang and Yin meet together. You are Yin and I am Yang, harmony attraction. Yes, I can feel a woman in you, it is quite strong.
Although your husband and lover star are hidden, but it will bloom during the period 23-33 years old, it was a perfect period for a woman to get married and start a family. The body of a woman is on its most beautiful at this period. It was programmed in your Destiny, but why it went wrong?
It is true before your 40 years old you are under negative influences of the Luck pillar. Despite those hardships you should get through it easily. After your 40 years old, your life will change upside down, negative will turn into positive. You will have the rest of your life many luck.
The problem is when a woman reach the 40 years old, it is almost too late to start and having a family with children.
The only reason why I couldn’t understand why a beautiful woman and sensitive like you couldn’t find any suitable man in your life and that is: Career and Money.
This could explain why Astrologers gave you an advice that your determination to succeed for the highest career. Jealous rivals try to prevent you the ultimate goal to achieve. With this advice, I would think why you couldn’t find any suitable husband is that you are too focused on your career and have an obsession in making money to support your other family members for example.
For example your mother is a Water-element and needs Metal to support her. Instead you take that Metal luck, your husband luck, you gave that luck to your mother for supporting her. It could mean there is somebody in your family who needs more help of you and that you couldn't let them alone to get married. You are a very respectful woman, who is willing to sacrifice for her family instead to find love for herself.
This is the only reason why you had missed very good opportunities to get married, because you fulfill all the requirements to be in love and get married.
Your “Star of Art” is very strong; it could also mean you are very talented. You had chosen Career above Love. Sometimes on top will lead to loneliness in life. Your Metal-combination is very strong doing business for example, without a husband star than is your career is very high. It like as if your career absorb all the husband luck of you.
As I try to mention before, after your 40 years old, life will change the opposite direction.
If it is true than you have to reduce your career Luck to start a family: for example working part-time.
The very good news, please don't let this Love-opportunity slip away. This year you will meet a friend, in 2013 it will get more serious between you and him and In 2014 you will have in the Love of your life.
Thank you for your broad explanation. I will give some inputs to support your analysis. Yes, I live towards my dad's expectation. I am taking care of my family business . Doing man's role. Luckily I have the capacity to do that. It reflects in my chart I guess.
But I am doing this not to support anyone in the family because none of my family has water element for its DM.
As for the relationship, yes it happened during that period. At that time I was around 30 yrs old. He is 4 yrs younger than me. For whatever reason it failed. I knew him from business. That makes things more complicated.
Again I am happy to hear the good news. There is a change and it is just around the corner. I hope I can grab it and don loose this chance again. Thank you for pointing it out. I think i was destined to meet you at this forum.
This is the reason why I couldn't figure it out why Love had failed.
Water element I didn't refer to any DM with Water. Water element is in general in your chart weak. This Water element in the HS of the year-pillar is so important for your Love life.
It had failed I would think because your Mother is too weak to support that Love affair.
She can not reach you closer enough. Water needs to pass the strong Fire element to reach to you and she needs to pass your Father and she couldn't.
She wanted it too to make you happy, now you tell your story I would think that the business had weighed so much on your shoulder.
Love is sometimes not fair.
Now you have Career and wealth, you do need FS Luck to get good Love Luck. You are still in good Husband Luck period, just a bit Luck you will find your prince. I do not recommend often to activate Love, only if you are still in the Love period, otherwise it has no use for using FS.
Another tip for you, you do need a stable FS House to support it in long term. Some jealous rivals in your Family try to ruin your dreams. A bit FS for support will help.
Ask Bernard154 for good FS advice. He is right now in the room "4 pillars", just give a PM and say I refer you to him.
Your future looks very Wealthy and Lovely, so I am happy for you.
Please send me a Wedding invitation, maybe I will flight to that wedding of you.
Sorry for being off topic,but i can not help it: Now we all know where Saphora is....and his mind and heart:on the way to Jakarta!!!!Saphora,please,please,please say me a few words on the subject I have opened,please!
Ogura:if anything....like a marriage comes out of this Saphora-Ogura meeting please let all of us know;I am dieing for some good news,for real!!!
Ogura: he is 100% man,be sure of that from now on....and please do not get upset with me for...stil loving farrytales;nowdays statistics say that 1 in every 5 couples that get married ...met on the internet;it would be sweet...
Saphora: best of luck with everything you do!!!!!You so deserve it to be really happy man for all the good work and the positive energy and warmth you bring to the world!
I am curious to know about your comment on my life will turn up side down after I reach 40. In what aspect, could you please elaborate on this? It is next year . But the 7 killing star still there. Coz I got too many of these stars. Will this star harm my spouse?
OMG Sephora. You gave me so many hearts. I wish it is chocolates. Anyway, you know I don read chinese.
I started to get some clue. May be true, may be not. only GOD knows. I start to understand the situation that I may not get the spouse that is equal to me. and second, may be had a past relationship means a divorcee. ???