Hi,

You're not the only one who felt like that. The same thing happened to me too. The worst thing is discovering your supposed friend is a back stabber.

hmmm can explain

i am fated to be alone?!

No I didn't mean that. Just sharing what I've gone through before. Let's take another look, if your friend is a backstabber, that would even worse than not having one at the first place. Cheer up, you'll get and meet friends everywhere.

My question is: I have friends but they don't care for me but I always do. What's the reason? Can you help me out?




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Bernard154 wrote:



Bernard, how do U see ?

H1 Wood ( Yang ) H2 Wood ( Yin ) H8 Metal (Yin )
E9 Metal (Yang) E8 Earth (Yin ) E8 Earth ( Yin )

Care to share?

Devadog wrote:


Devadog,

I believe she is looking for someone to help explain why she could make good friendship, your this answer is more apporiate.


maybe becos of your quiet nature, others maynot approach you easily, if you want more friends, try to be proactive, you start the ball rolling, be sincere in friendship becos it takes a long time to build, slowly your quality friend network will improve. Anyway, with 2 Good friends is better than 200 aquantants.

Hi lucyng,

I think I used purple star astrology to analyse rather than 4 pillars. I don't have the record with me and also she had removed her birth time from the post.

Bernard154 wrote:



Oh.. ok. Thank you for your respond.

poshywan,

I cannot read yr bazi nor yr zwds but i know if you want to have friends, you need to be open, You need to be sincerely.
Be a little more considerate, care alittle for others beside ourself, slowly you will gain friends - true friends. True Friend need not be many, only a few good sincere friends is already good.

Try it, I believe you will find true friends in no time. I am always a friend to anyone

This was to gheelam statement that having a friend who is a backstabber is worst, I reply

then I dun think we need this kind of friend

I just felt I dun need this kind of so call friend

Thank U

Smile more often and be happy more .

Whether can click or not also depends on yuan fen and destiny is not fixed.

Every passing minute is a chance to turn it all round.

So i say, think more good things, say more positive things and do more good deeds. Naturally, life will improve for the better.

Let me know how it will be going. Good Luck

moodyblue wrote:


True, people with any of the graveyards in bazi tend not to make and retain friends.

I mean, who would like to visit a graveyard?

kindly check your four pillar maybe you have a strong self element but do not worry we can do something about it