No I didn't mean that. Just sharing what I've gone through before. Let's take another look, if your friend is a backstabber, that would even worse than not having one at the first place. Cheer up, you'll get and meet friends everywhere.
On further reflection, I suspect that you see yourself as quiet, kind hearted while others see you as showy and proud. You will have to work to become more open to others in your feelings and to allow friends to get close to you. You are a private person but they don't see that.
I believe she is looking for someone to help explain why she could make good friendship, your this answer is more apporiate.
maybe becos of your quiet nature, others maynot approach you easily, if you want more friends, try to be proactive, you start the ball rolling, be sincere in friendship becos it takes a long time to build, slowly your quality friend network will improve. Anyway, with 2 Good friends is better than 200 aquantants.
I cannot read yr bazi nor yr zwds but i know if you want to have friends, you need to be open, You need to be sincerely.
Be a little more considerate, care alittle for others beside ourself, slowly you will gain friends - true friends. True Friend need not be many, only a few good sincere friends is already good.
Try it, I believe you will find true friends in no time. I am always a friend to anyone