Dear har,

In term of the 8 Aspiration Theory, SW sector represent our love, relationship and marriage and in term of the Bagua it represent the matriarch of the house. Every sector has a representation in term of matter and family member so it is quite difficult to fully avoid it.

Imo I will be more concern on the location of the maindoor, bedroom, living room and kitchen. These are the places that we spend most of the time and it should fall on the auspicious location of the house. You can use the 8 Mansions or the Flying Star theory to locate the auspicious sectors of the house.

It is also important that there is a good external landform to bring the good qi into the house.

Bernard

Thanks Bernard..again for your prompt reply.
Using Flying Stars and 8 mansion,this house is not too bad.....

I have another question which I forgot to ask.A friend of mine had a clash(dog-dragon) this year at her parents pillar and coincidentally her 86 yr old mum was due for heart surgery this year.Her practitioner friend recommended she do some renovation to her house to alleviate the clash.The mum has gone through the op and has recovered well.
My question is ..is this "cure' by renovation only for Earth-earth clash or does it apply to other clashes as well eg Horse- rat clash which I'll be experiencing in 2014?

Thanks

Har

Hi har,

Your friend practitioner is trying to deviates the clash into other aspect. Earth element is more related to property, moving house and also wealth pot. Month pillar is also relate to a person home and by creating an activity it may help to reduce the other effect.

Yours Zi – Wu clash is in your spouse palace and the clash is more related to emotion. So if you are still single then it will not affect your spouse but more on your inner feeling. What you need to do is to control your emotion and be mindful of your competitor.

Every practitioner has a different way of decoding and solution. The type of cure that is applied must be appropriate to the circumstances so I son't think you can use the same type of cure to apply on a different situation. There is no right or wrong and everything is relative.

Bernard

Hi Bernard,
"be mindful of your competitor." means Rob Wealth?? Competitor for what -love , career or money?

So you are saying that even if I move house in 2014,it's not going to help "cure" my luck pillar and annual pillar clash? SIGH!!

Har

Hi har,

Since it is in your spouse palace it could be love problem but if you are still single then it may relate to career and wealth.

Yes moving house is not going to cure the clash because yours is a totally different type of clash.


Bernard

Hi Bernard,
Quite disappointed to hear that.All this while I thought moving house and renovation can cure my clash till I realised they are Earth related.Really no remedy to decrease my Zi-Wu clash?I thought bazi is the diagnosis and fengshui is supposed to be the presription.

What aspects of my health should I be wary of in 2014?This year I already have a sinus problem and chronic cough that has lingered on for months.Probably the dragon-rooster combo gave me more Metal than what I need..

Hi har,

A clash may not always a bad thing, if it clash into your unfavorable element then such clashes is actually helping you to weaken your unfavorable element. Likewise a combination may not be a good thing as it can take away your favorable element.

Yes you are right that bazi is the diagnosis and fengshui is supposed to be the prescription but you must diagnose what will be the problem first. Some need to take medicine, some need operation and for your case you just need to exercise. Since Zi – Wu clash is more related to emotion so what you need is to take care of the Star 3 sector during that year. Also make sure your house kitchen and bathroom door is not in direct conflict. Exercise your Man Luck and be mindful with your words and expression. All these can help you to minimize the effect..

Your sinus is due to yours this year Chen and Xu clash. Hidden inside your Xu Earth is Wu Earth and also the main qi. Wu Earth represents your nose in the body part and also your favorable element. Since Xu is in the Year Pillar it also represents your head to shoulder position and obviously it will be under stress.

May I know why you are so worry of Zi – Wu clash and not this year Chen – Xu clash or even last year Mao – You clash?


Bernard

Hi Bernard,
Zi- Wu clash is a double clash.Clashing from my 10-year luck pillar and annual pillar..that's why I am worried whether the bad effects will be doubled .
My health..sinus/cough started during last year's Mao-You clash actually and lingers on till now.Before that,I was very healthy leh.

Har

Hi har,

Sorry I have overlook into your decade luck cycle. As for your case a single clash which clashes away your unfavorable element is favorable to you but a double clash will not be the same and will have some bad impact on you. Since this is the case, first of all you need to defer your marriage after 2014. Secondly you need to be mindful and avoid all speculative investment and business venture. Stay in low profile and take extra care of your career and wealth.

You are a good driver and you should be able to overcome it.


Bernard

Dear Bernard,
NOW you know why I am worried. I am not bothered about those once in 12 -yr clash.Those are minor setbacks but since this decade clash started I have been having more health problems..even back ache at such a young age!
Everyone tells me not to marry before 35.You are better..you only ask me to defer till 33! Does it mean if I marry after 2014,I'll be ok?
What other health problems do you think will befall me? You said " keep low profile".I was thinking of moving house in 2014..will that be all right or should I move in earlier or later?

I have another million dollar question for you :let's say I find a man like the BMW model that day..can it 'cure' my Day Branch Void and present decade Zi-Wu clash?
Thanks again

Har

Dear har,

Hahaha… don’t put all the blame on your chart. What you are experiencing is minor health problem which is all`due to our way and style of living. Backache can be caused by continue sitting position in our work desk. Health problem will only occurred when suddenly and element in our chart turned very strong, especially when there is a seasonal or harmony combination.

Imo I don’t believe in moving house when you are in bad luck cycle because you are going to bring your bad luck into your new house.

I won’t say that a BMW can change it but rather that if both are loving couple then it could reduce the bad effect. A loving couple will still quarrel but they can reconcile very fast at the same time. I told you before about the both M combination which will result into a loving couple.

It is better for you to marry late since your spouse palace is sitting on heaven void. But again how should we define the word late. In the ancient time after age 21 is considered late. But as for now maybe after age 30 can be considered late. A friend of mine who has the same problem married at the age of 28 and presently in their 15 years anniversary they are still very loving.

Personally I feel that you can marry after 2014. Since sitting inside your spouse palace is a Rob Wealth Star or a competitor and also your unfavorable element, a clash is good to get rid of that. Best for you is to seek professional advice rather than keep guessing with so many opinions.

Bernard

Dear Bernard,
Maybe I should listen to you by moving my house next year..mu Gui Ren year.
Good professionals charge up to 1/3 of my meagre salary.To pay so much for just 33% of our luck doesn't seem worth it.Later no money left to move house loh.
Actually,my present bf DM also combine with me .Too bad that fella has such a negative forward luck cycle. I hope you are correct in saying he won't get into another relationship.His behaviour in his younger days gives me some doubts as I really cannot accept infidelity after marriage.
For the Zi-Wu clash,I thought my Zi wins..so it doesn't get rid of my RW,isn't it?Like last year's Mao-You clash also involve my unfavorable element, but I didn't have a good year either

Har

Dear har,

Ya lor, they charged so expensive. Fly down to Singapore lor, here for a good bazi decoding only around S$200.hehehe.

Yes your Zi will win the battle with the You Metal support but you can select a Fire month to combine with your Fire decade luck cycle so that the Metal will be too busy fighting with the Fire and have no time to support the Zi. Last year only one Mao Wood, how to win the 3 Xin Metal and furthermore Yi Wood is afraid of Xin Metal.


Bernard

Hi Bernard,
It's me again but now the problem is not mine.I have a niece whom the mum suspects is stealing her money(not a big amount)but they don't condone such behaviour.The kid has all sorts of excuses as to where she got the money but they find it hard to believe.
From her bazi she is going through unfavorable Hurting Officer luck now and this year Fu Yin luck pillar.
Her Bazi Gui Xin Xin Xin
Si Wei Mao Si Luck pillar Ren- Chen

Do you think the daughter really stole or did the mum blame her wrongly?Waiting for your EXPERT opinion

Har

Hi har,

Her present luck is a fu Yin of Ren Chen which also created a self punishment. When a self punishment appears a person will have the tendency to commit something against the rule and law. Since the punishment is from external it will be advisable for the parent to check with the school for an answer to the cause of her action.


Bernard

Thanks Bernard,
The mum will asked a school teacher to advise her because she listens to her more.
For a strong daymaster ,what stars(gods) will give them the "potential" to tell lies/steal?
Just for curiosity sake...

Har

Hi har,

Resource Star coz it control or attack the Output Star.


Bernard

Dear Bernard,
Update on the girl..even when the teacher spoke to her -she lied and now they still don't know the cause and where she got the money-stole from friends or home.However the girl is more well-behaved these few days.The mum would like your opinion ..is this behaviour just because of a passing 'unfavorable' luck cycle or is it inherent in her chart that she'll lie and steal??

I have another friend ..whether you'll be kind enough to tell her about her relationship,career and wealth.

Ji Bing Jia Wu
Hai Yin Yin Wu ..current luck pillar Xin- Hai

Thanks again

Har

Hi har,

As for your niece I think next year the bad effect will go off. As this year could be the start of the cause and a few years down the road may see the effect. So it is important to watch her like a hawk to ensure that the present problem will not be carried to her future teenage development.

Her companion star is favorable to her and sitting near her DM is the Friend Star. Most likely her friends may know her inside story so perhaps her mum can seek her friend’s parent for help.

I will decode your friend’s chart later when I am free. As the Olympic game just started I am too busy watching the games. hehehe

Bernard

Hi Bernard,
That's why I say you are a sifu.....actually her teacher also said she'll try to talk to her friends next week as they may know more.Hopefully some info can be gotten from her friends.It's good the "Friend Star" is favorable as she has many good friends compared to her siblings.

Go watch your Olympics...I'll wait for you to decode when you are free.

Har