jamie.123 wrote:
hello jae and saphora thank you sooo much for your response i really appreciate it!!...but it is very confusing for me i dont know whether to be happy that my friend is back or be sad regarding his thoughts..another depressing and disheartening opnion he said to me was that of he were to be in a relationship and if his ex-girlfriend were free also and then would want her any which ways....
PLEASE TELL ME WHETHER HE NAD I WOULD GO STRONG and his mind will change over time for me??????will he and be ha[ily together forever????
i really am very depressed!!!!!!!!
Deeeeaaaarrr Jamie!
His thoughts are exclusively within his mind's domain, so are yours!
His thoughts will dictate his feelings and happiness, so do you!
Why don't you choose to have thoughts that make you happy, only thoughts that allow you to experience happiness for now.
Don't let his indecisiveness cloud your mind. The chinese have a saying, that 船到桥头自然直, and this is one of my greatest treasures that I will share with you (an exclusive domain of my mind!

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It means, no matter how directionless 'your ship of thoughts' may be, at the end of the day when it drifts near towwards the rivermouth that leads to the ocean, it will naturally (and surprisingly) orientate itself to have its head face the front towards the ocean, while the back of the ship will of course, face the BACK!
In life, it would also mean for me that no matter how we struggle, what will be, will be. Don't try to control situations all the time.
Go with the flow...
Having said that, I would not comment further but to ask you to tread carefully, not to let people have a chance to treat you as a 'spare tyre'.
Please take care of yourself and value YOU!
J