Hi har,
Sorry for the delay.
This is the decoding for your friend and as usual I will like to start off with the root of her bazi so that she can know her strength and weakness. Present decade and annual luck is not taken into consideration in decoding the root and this will have an influence toward her character and behavior. I will address the decoding directly to her.
Your Day Master is Bing Fire and is Strong. You fall under the chart profile of “The Philosopher or Indirect Resource” Individual fall under this profile has good comprehension skills and is flexible. You are observant, sharp and alert, which may come across as overly suspicious at times. Cool by nature, you do not reveal your emotions and dislikes social activities.
Since you are Strong your favorable element will be Earth and Metal, Water is neutral to you and Wood and Fire is your unfavorable element.
As your Day Master is strong it is advisable for you to take up tasks or activities that involve in supervision management or overseeing people in your work place. You will perform better in task that relate to the productive aspects of the organization such as coming up with ideas, marketing, driving sales and executing strategies rather than task or activities that relate to developmental or supportive aspects of the organization like customer service, relationship management and R&D.
You are talented and gifted in life, you have tremendous passion, energy, fervor and most importantly ambition to achieve, achieve and achieve. You are always bursting with ideas and your mind are constantly thinking and always working and your ideas can be a cut above the rest. You will be able to gain favorable outcomes and exploit your talents to achieve your goals to attain wealth.
You have an internalized confusion or almost like a split personality. One is in a forceful, argumentative character and another introspective, non-confrontational personality. You do not know what you want and is constantly changing your position or thoughts on a given situation. You think and act in an extremely disorganized and chaotic manner that ends up being destructive to your work performance or communication with those around you.
Your affinity with Wealth is weak and this may cause a serious issue with either managing money and or earning a steady income. That does not mean you cannot earn an income but that there is always a challenge, real or psychological, when it comes to wealth matters. Basically you just lack practicality when it comes to money matters and is not prudent in managing your finance. The wealth here does not mean being a millionaire but rather refer to being a multi-millionaire.
You are often projected with a greater measure of leadership than you actually possess. You are seems to be more powerful and intimidating than you really are. You know when to hold back and when to push forward and also inherently be able to risk manage your actions to ensure they never go too far.
You exhibit a procrastinating and lazy personality and you are constantly fixated with the subject of retirement or your next vacation. You spend all your time coming up with either a raft of useless ideas or just a single idea that ultimately proves to not be well thought out. Urgency typically does not exited in you and you often lack the ability to prioritize or to determine the difference between matters that need to be done and matters that can wait to be done. You often lack practicality and your behavior will often appear flighty and whimsical.
You over think your decisions and then still ultimately arrive at the wrong decision because the wrong considerations were taken into account or given more weight in the decision making process. You are emotionally driven, hypersensitive and often proud at the expense of practicality. In the end pride invariably leads to prejudice.
You are surrounded by many friends but a majority of those friends will be fair-weather friends. Your friends are unreliable in time when you need help or rather you have many superficial friends but few close confidants.
You will also have difficulty saving money or has poor financial management skills. You like to take short-cuts in life but end up none the wiser or better as a result of your short-cut driven mindset. You have a tendency to talk only and no action type.
Conclusion:
Present decade luck cycle of Xin Hai is average. There is a Hai self punishment in your children and career palace. In your career you may show some smart and logical attitude but you also like to keep things inside your heart which may not be good in the long term. Hai also combine with your Month and Day Pillar to form Wood and boosted your unfavorable Indirect Resource Star. You may exhibit sign of hyper-sensitive and paranoid so you must learn to control your emotion.
Your present and next few decade luck cycle will see your missing Wealth element appearing which is good for your wealth. But a word of caution in your next decade especially from age 44 to 48 there is a 3 harmony combination of a fire fame which may spell trouble in term of your Wealth. In term of health you must take care of the overwhelming and attacked element. Finally need to be mindful of your marriage relationship during this period.
You can use more Earth and Metal color or wear more crystal and metallic bracelet and chain. You can also sleep with your head pointing or face in all your endeavors to NE, SW, W and NW. For career you can go for Earth and Metal element jobs.
Hope this will help you to understand yourself better and please work on your strength and improve on your weakness
Bernard
