This is the decoding for your friend and as usual I will like to start off with the root of her bazi so that she can know her strength and weakness. Present decade and annual luck is not taken into consideration in decoding the root and this will have an influence toward her character and behavior. I will address the decoding directly to her.
Your Day Master is Bing Fire and is Strong. You fall under the chart profile of “The Philosopher or Indirect Resource” Individual fall under this profile has good comprehension skills and is flexible. You are observant, sharp and alert, which may come across as overly suspicious at times. Cool by nature, you do not reveal your emotions and dislikes social activities.
Since you are Strong your favorable element will be Earth and Metal, Water is neutral to you and Wood and Fire is your unfavorable element.
As your Day Master is strong it is advisable for you to take up tasks or activities that involve in supervision management or overseeing people in your work place. You will perform better in task that relate to the productive aspects of the organization such as coming up with ideas, marketing, driving sales and executing strategies rather than task or activities that relate to developmental or supportive aspects of the organization like customer service, relationship management and R&D.
You are talented and gifted in life, you have tremendous passion, energy, fervor and most importantly ambition to achieve, achieve and achieve. You are always bursting with ideas and your mind are constantly thinking and always working and your ideas can be a cut above the rest. You will be able to gain favorable outcomes and exploit your talents to achieve your goals to attain wealth.
You have an internalized confusion or almost like a split personality. One is in a forceful, argumentative character and another introspective, non-confrontational personality. You do not know what you want and is constantly changing your position or thoughts on a given situation. You think and act in an extremely disorganized and chaotic manner that ends up being destructive to your work performance or communication with those around you.
Your affinity with Wealth is weak and this may cause a serious issue with either managing money and or earning a steady income. That does not mean you cannot earn an income but that there is always a challenge, real or psychological, when it comes to wealth matters. Basically you just lack practicality when it comes to money matters and is not prudent in managing your finance. The wealth here does not mean being a millionaire but rather refer to being a multi-millionaire.
You are often projected with a greater measure of leadership than you actually possess. You are seems to be more powerful and intimidating than you really are. You know when to hold back and when to push forward and also inherently be able to risk manage your actions to ensure they never go too far.
You exhibit a procrastinating and lazy personality and you are constantly fixated with the subject of retirement or your next vacation. You spend all your time coming up with either a raft of useless ideas or just a single idea that ultimately proves to not be well thought out. Urgency typically does not exited in you and you often lack the ability to prioritize or to determine the difference between matters that need to be done and matters that can wait to be done. You often lack practicality and your behavior will often appear flighty and whimsical.
You over think your decisions and then still ultimately arrive at the wrong decision because the wrong considerations were taken into account or given more weight in the decision making process. You are emotionally driven, hypersensitive and often proud at the expense of practicality. In the end pride invariably leads to prejudice.
You are surrounded by many friends but a majority of those friends will be fair-weather friends. Your friends are unreliable in time when you need help or rather you have many superficial friends but few close confidants.
You will also have difficulty saving money or has poor financial management skills. You like to take short-cuts in life but end up none the wiser or better as a result of your short-cut driven mindset. You have a tendency to talk only and no action type.
Present decade luck cycle of Xin Hai is average. There is a Hai self punishment in your children and career palace. In your career you may show some smart and logical attitude but you also like to keep things inside your heart which may not be good in the long term. Hai also combine with your Month and Day Pillar to form Wood and boosted your unfavorable Indirect Resource Star. You may exhibit sign of hyper-sensitive and paranoid so you must learn to control your emotion.
Your present and next few decade luck cycle will see your missing Wealth element appearing which is good for your wealth. But a word of caution in your next decade especially from age 44 to 48 there is a 3 harmony combination of a fire fame which may spell trouble in term of your Wealth. In term of health you must take care of the overwhelming and attacked element. Finally need to be mindful of your marriage relationship during this period.
You can use more Earth and Metal color or wear more crystal and metallic bracelet and chain. You can also sleep with your head pointing or face in all your endeavors to NE, SW, W and NW. For career you can go for Earth and Metal element jobs.
Hope this will help you to understand yourself better and please work on your strength and improve on your weakness
Thanks for your time .in spite of the Olympics.
It's basically quite accurate except for this.
[Your affinity with Wealth is weak and this may cause a serious issue with either managing money and or earning a steady income. That does not mean you cannot earn an income but that there is always a challenge, real or psychological, when it comes to wealth matters. Basically you just lack practicality when it comes to money matters and is not prudent in managing your finance. The wealth here does not mean being a millionaire but rather refer to being a multi-millionaire. ]
Despite not having a Wealth Star,she has no problem with wealth actually.Born to a medium-class family and is a graduate in the civil service..steady income with no burdens.
She's more concerned about her relationship.Not having the D.Officer star and only having a 7-Killings which transforms to Wood....what are the implications in her relationship/marriage?How will the fight to combine between the Hai in the Hour and Luck Pillar affect her?
She's still single.
If you will to read my last quote which I quoted “The wealth here does not mean being a millionaire but rather refer to being a multi-millionaire” Although she does not have Wealth element but her Output Star is strong which can help her to produce Wealth. Furthermore she is now in the influence of decade wealth luck cycle.
As for her relationship luck we can look at her Influence Star which is Hai Water. Her chart doesn’t have Direct Officer Star so we can use the 7 Killings Star to represent her spouse star. But unfortunately the Hai is being combined off to form Wood. That mean her spouse element is taken off or I called it “On Leave”.
Her Influence Star is Water and consists of Ren, Gui, Hai and Zi. We can check on which one is usable. Hai will combine with Yin Wood, Zi will clash Wu Horse. Gui will combine with Wu Earth and Ren will be control by Wu Earth and contaminated by Ji Earth. That is the reason why during her Influence decade luck cycle there is still no positive result in her relationship. Her Influence Star really has difficulty in coming into her chart. Furthermore her Wealth Star which is supporting her Influence Star is also missing.
Her relationship star is just too vulnerable and I am afraid that she must not place too much hope on it sigh……However during Shen year in 2016 her Hai may come back from leave because Shen will clash the Yin Tiger to release the combination and at the same time knock at the spouse palace door to wake up her spouse. Ask her to place more attention on either those guys younger than her or foreigner.
Haha,not all of us dream to be multi-millionaires lah.
About her relationship,that's actually what I thought also.There was a rich ,older guy who was interested in her middle of last year but as she was hesitating whether to continue the relationship,a younger lady came in and 'snatched ' the guy and they got married 4 months later! Such luck!!She is actually a very attractive lady.
[Ask her to place more attention on either those guys younger than her or foreigner].....teach me how to see this ,SIFU.
Since her only Influence Star is in the Hour Pillar we can decode that the spouse may be younger than her. Hour Pillar also represent outside or even to the extend of oversea. So there may be a possibility that her spouse is a foreigner.
Do you think it's advisable to activate Peach Blossom ,taking into consideration her Influence element and present luck cycle or is it better for her wait for it naturally?
What would the quality of her marriage be or is it better for her to remain single?
Sometime activation of Flower Romance need some support from the bazi. Although she is now in her Influence Star luck cycle but the Star has problem to come into her chart. Anyway she still can try it and in another next few days will be Shen Month which can also help her. It is also important that she must socialize more and attend more gathering.
Although there are no serious clashes in her spouse palace but the spouse palace element Yin Wood is not her favorable element. So I will say that her marriage is slightly above average. It takes two to tango and to achieve a blissful marriage a lot of tolerance and understanding is required.
regarding my friend's favorable element, why is Water not her favorable element? Is it because it grows Wood?
For a weak Ding Fire,Ren and Gui should be unfavorable ,right?Why does a website by a Spore practitioner says it's favorable?
Please enlighten me.
Its all depend on the chart. Yes the Wood is very strong and will drain the Water. Since her Earth element is strong she should use the Earth to drain the DM and also if you use Earth it is not advisable to use Water since Earth will control the Water. So Water is neutral and can be used for regulating the climate of the chart.
I cannot answer your second question with such limited information. I need to look at the whole chart. You must know that there are many website that used very simple calculation to determine the strength of the DM. Just like in the elementary learning when a DM born in season you can classified it as Strong.
I know which website you are talking about. As I told you before maybe they are using a very standard procedure to determine the strength of the DM. As for your boyfriend case although he is born in season but Ding Fire is weak in the Shen hour and furthermore in the EB, Shen, You and Xu is creating a seasonal combination of Metal. Si Fire will have to give in to You to form Metal.
Your boyfriend’s chart Day Master is just only moderately weak and this kind of chart generally will not be too greatly influence by decade and annual luck cycle. Of course this is subjected to minimum clashes and combination influence.
The funny thing is the website DID read him as Weak DM but when I see the luck/annual pillars,all the Gui and Ren as well as Zi and Hai are considered favorable.Why?Shouldn't it be Unfavorable?That's what is puzzling me.....
I read an interview by Master Tan Khoon Yong in one Chinese paper.He says next year is not good for marrying as it's a blind year.Will it affect people with good relationship bazi or only people like me?
Water is neutral to him and is usable and depending on situation. His chart is quite warm and need Water to regulate it. Since his supporting element Wood is relatively weak Water can help to grow the Wood but too much Water will float the Wood.
How a blind year reflects to an individual will depend on the person chart. Marry on a good year and date can help to enhance the luck and vice versa. A bad day will still have good hour and I believe a good practitioner can help to select a good date to overcome the bad influence if not all the bridal shop may have to close down. hahaha There is no right or wrong, everything is relative.
Thanks for the explanation. Hmm....bazi is not so easy to understand.
In the same Spore site, he also says not to have a Toilet in the Liu Sha sector(8 mansions) but in a few other fengshui sites,I read having a toilet in Liu Sha is GOOD.Why?
Hope you won't tell me both are also right again........
Yes I am going to tell you that both are also right.
In Chinese Metaphysics we cannot be so rigid, as I have said before there is no right or wrong and everything is relative. Liu Sha is also a flower of romance star and is a Water element. So having it in the toilet may enhance the Water element to bring out the star. Personally I agreed with him that it is not good to have Liu Sha in the toilet. But on the other hand if you are working in the networking and require more friendships and relationships then activating the Lui Sha or sleeping in a Lui Sha room can help you in your endeavors. hahaha…
Feng Shui is changing with time and it depends on what you want and also self discipline.
Remember the house I was thinking of buying?The one with a Southwest toilet.Coincidentally ,I just found out Southwest is not only the Marriage corner(8 Aspirations) but it's also the Liu Sha.
Again-same question...should I buy the house?If yes, any problems moving in next year or must I wait till after 2014??
Waiting for your expert opinion.
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You are buying a house and not a toy so I can’t give you my opinion just by basing on such limited information. I think you need to look into the overall aspect of the feng shui to find your answer rather than just base on one sector.
Imo if you are using the 8 Mansions theory the important rooms of the house must fall inside the 4 good sectors because you spend the most time in these rooms. Ask yourself this question – how much time do I spend in the Liu Sha bathroom?
Next year Si Snake is a Travelling Horse Star but is not your Travelling Horse so chances of you moving house is quite slim.
Haha..you may be wrong in the last part.I finally got down to pay the deposit for that house after much pestering from my dad.Since you asked me to lie low in 2014..I'll probably move in next year!
Thanks for your tips.It's not easy to get a perfect fengshui house terrace house unless we build one ourselves.
Ii's me again. I am confused with the Flying Stars and 8 mansion theory.I have a Seng Qi room but with a #2-#5 combination.Which system one should I use? Can they be mixed for better effect?If not ,which system is more "Potent"?
Both are from different school of thought and you cannot mix them together. However you can complement each other by using 8 Mansions to locate the 4 good and bad sectors and yearly Flying Stars to check on the yearly Bagua sectors influence.
8 Mansions theory needs time to see result as compare to Flying Stars theory.
Flying Stars keep flying and you may end up seeing stars hahaha