hi HW
these are my reasoning u should stop this unhealthy r/s.
1) only buy expensive stuffs for someone who is willing to commit for u, coz buying of expensive stuffs is a commitment that u make too, so she must commit into u also. e.g lawful husband and wife.
2) if u buy for her now, don't regret if she follows another guy who can buy her a house. [this isn't a crime, u happy to buy for her, she dint force u.]
3) u are still in the shadow of ur pass r/s. NEVER start a new R/s carrying old scar. u will pass the disease to the new gal, and soon ur r/s will fall. ALL R/s needs a GOOD start, so that there is something memorable to talk about.
4) she is a very nice and honest gal to tell u "lets not meet...." she does not want to waste ur time. undernealth the words it simply means I maybe ur type, but u are not my type, no point forcing, LEts MOVE ON.......
WHAT u SHOULD do Now:
go a tour or an escape, somewher to relax and catch a breather. think about ur future, what and where u will be going, then along the way, u will meet girls that share same vision with u, who are also going same direction as u are, by then if u meet the girl, u can invite her, " why not we go together?"
hope this helps. Good Luck!