Dear Teddy Bear,
I thank you for showing your chart to learn about Bazi and Love. I have to admit that this chart is not a happy Love chart. Please understand it; I just want to show others that Love is something like a mystery. How hard we struggle, we can not escape of the Palm of Mother nature. I do want to share others with what I have learn so far, like in Heluo website “ Harvest for All”.
How do I read this chart?
A chart is like a human being, your first impression of someone, is she beautiful, pretty, nice or even lusty?
First I quickly scan on the surface of a chart, like I did that in the picture. I highlight the 4 pillars and the 10 Gods.
This is Love forum, so I will focus only her Love-life.
My first impressions:
- All pillars are in Yang formation
- A double Indirect Wealth on the HS
- Fire element: Monkey and Tiger
- A Double Dragon in the Hour and Day.
- Her ten year Luck is a Water Snake
- Her last three pillars (Month, Day and Hour) are in Controlling-Sequence
- There are four 7-Killing Stars in the hidden stem and another in her current Luck pillar.
- Two pair side by side Negative Strong Combinations (Self-penalty and half Fire Penalty)
(I just being a starter in 9 Star Ki, her number is 5-5-5, it says something about her inside/out personality)
My first impression I do try to make a “Picture” of the situation. The more you practice the more clearly the picture.
An Auspicious husband star for a woman is “Direct officer Star”, her Inauspicious husband Star is “7-Killing Star”.
As long those 7-Killing Star are hidden, buried under the surface everything should be fine. Like a Grand Duke Dragon 2012, as long he is asleep, everything will be fine. Even he wakes up, you must know what temperament he will have. When he wakes up in a bad environment like a bad FS House South-East, like in a stressful chart, all the In-auspicious Stars come into the surface.
Secondly I scan also her Day Master Strength. She is Yang Water born in the month of Monkey. It is in beginning Metal-season, the first Metal is not at strong, but it is a Metal which supports her Day Master. The hidden stem of the month contains ‘Indirect Resource element and a Friend-element”, those are Resources or supportive elements. You could consider her DM as Not Weak.
I choose “Not Weak” instead of “Strong” due to many reasons. First her Metal-season is a Fire over Metal. Metal loose its strength to support her due to Fire controls Metal. The quality of the Metal-month is not so good.
On the left and right of the Month is not supportive either, left is Wood (Tiger) and right is Wood (Dragon) season. Again that supportive metal will loose it strength again.
Secondly there is a Clash between her Metal month and her Wood Year Branch. It is also a half Fire Penalty combination. This Clash and Fire Penalty will weaken her DM Strength tremendously.
Thirdly a side by side Double Dragon is another negative influence for her DM strength.
Fourthly her current 10 year Luck is unstable Water over Fire Snake, this current 10 year Luck forms a very strong Fire element.
Her main Chart is Same Gang = 84 and Opposite Gang = 198, you could calculate your selves in the formula of RapaNui.
You could see the Opposite Gang is more than double of Energy than the Same Gang.
It is sometimes uncompleted approach when you just calculate your Day Master Strength based on only the Season of Birth.
Thereby her Yang and Yin Formation is un-balance, just only Yang and her three Pillars are not cooperate together, but instead in Controlling Sequence.
Looking at her total Chart, I could conclude her DM is not weak, surely not Strong.
What makes her loose all her Energy?
Let’s us answer in the name of Love.
First her ‘Indirect Wealth” dominates her Life.
Indirect Wealth you could summarize as her Generosity, Flamboyance and Extravagance.
What does it means, if you look at her total Yang Pillars, you could feel her Manly Personality. Her Yang Water is unstoppable. Now in combination with Extravagance, unstoppable Manly you could find her wild movements like a Active Tiger.
This Manly personality is also influence by her Adrenaline driven, all about excitement and the Thrill. If you translate it in Love, it is like Fast and Exciting Love, a rush. Fast could mean Yang, her fast life style.
How do you combine with Love and Excitement, through her Yang Water. Water is according to Traditional Chinese Medicine her Re-productive network. It could mean she is Sexual Active. Her Double Fire in the Heavenly Stem is also Passions, excitements and Rush.
According to the Nine Star Ki, her Character is “Seductive” and her Energetic aspect is “Extrovert” and tough.
Indirect Wealth could also mean get the pleasure and thrill making Love; the actual Love is less significantly.
Now, the key of her life is that Indirect Wealth could also mean:
She will treat Love as a Business Deal, not that she is intend to do that, but somehow Love comes and Love goes, like a Business deal.
This Indirect Wealth is intensified during her Fire-season; yes her Trio Fire completed combination, her current 10 year Luck.
As I said before, when the Dragon is awake with a bad mood, her Inauspicious Stars will come to surface.
Now her Hidden Stems: Four 7-Killing Stars.
It means the day she was born and till her retirement, those Inauspicious Stars will follow the rest of her life.
What are those 7-Killing Stars?
7-Killing Stars and Indirect Wealth are the “Bad Boys” in traditional Bazi. It cost the DM lot of Energy.
7-Killing Star is for a woman, her second Lover.
If you combine with Indirect Wealth and 7-killing Stars, you could with slightly confidence that her Love-life is worried.
Four times as a second Lover is not a good sign. It means it is very hard to have a stable and long relationship. In the worst case four times with different men, it is not included her double Dragon in the Hour and Day pillar. I don’t want to know what it could mean.
After a few Heart-break she will not feel what real Love is all about, she is in a Spiral of Love. Love will become like a Business Deal, just the Rush only.
I do understand that with her chart and her bad experiences with men, she could hide her true feelings.
Her true feeling is Yang Wood, strong and tough. You can not easily make her sad.
How can we support her?
See you next time, until then you have some to read.
Saphora
