Dear Saphora,a very good friend of my hubby.....he saiis he was never lucky in love;he is a hard dedicated worker....and he lost hope that his situation will ever change;I wonder is...you would see any....hope for the future...in this sector of life....his birthdate is 29 of January 1970, at 1;06 am,so born at Ox hour,...in the Rooster day and the Rooster year,...what could you tell us?He said all his very few relationships....lasted only 2-3 month at the most...He is a succsesful medical doctor,...but when it comes to love...well....I feel bad for the guy,I wish I had some good news to tell him...but I do not want to lie him...about when will be a good year for him...when it comes to LOVE,the most wonderful blessing of all...

ask yourself the reason why u didnt fall for him, and if u r willing to tell him, u will be giving him a great hand. BE HONeST about it.

Firehorse,I am 5 month pregnant with twins and this guy is a good friend and coworker of my hubby;he comes to our house at least once a week,we live only about 5 minutes drive from each other;Ok,...he is not the best looking guy o earth....but is really looks everything?I do not know him very well...he has a nice attitude,civilized when he is with us...but he keeps sayig things like"you guys are so lucky to have each other"....and I see his loneliess;He even said 2 weeks ago that he wonders why he never falled madly in love for anybody....and he is 42 already...I wish to give him hope or advise but....not false advise;trully speaking it is not for me maybe to worry for him...I was born in 1979,and that makes me a Sheep ,the kind of person that wish to have help or at least a few good word for everyone.My hubby likes this guy(,as a friend),they do spend lots of time together for the last 12 years they say...beacuse they work together and they have a nice friendship...do not think of anythink silly:),LOL,LOL...

Hi,

COngrats ! TWINS!!!!! waaaaaaahhhhh.... Sooo GOooD!

looks is not everything but its the starting.
empathy is the basis of any affections.
proximity is a bridge between boundaries.
a spark starts regardless of how many spouse or children one has.

in the first place dun get me wrong, i just want you to put urself in a woman shoe, why u think this guy cannot make it. but so far you only listed his good sides, a typical woman who will reject him and said. If i were u, i will intro my GFs to him, instead of reading into his chart. becoz, this is what most woman will do to help. Pass the duty to next woman and let her carry out. and i have done my part as a friend. there should be no reason i dun do this, agree? >.*

p/s: he said thet he wonder why he never fall madly for anyone - could be he has someone in his heart that he thought can let go.
if ur husband can provide me more details on how this friend met his ex, how did it start and how did it ends, maybe i can help abit.

He works many many hours,he is really dedicated to his work;at work he sais he did meet all his ex-girlfriends;Firehorse,I FELL BAD for the guy....but for sure he is not my type;I would never be with someone because I feel sorry for him;so please never insinuate such a thing;my man is all I want and all I ever dramed of:tall,blue eyes,slender,educated,hot,wellmannered, big hearted,with a good job...and crazy in love with me:);So plese do not go saying anything like you just have said in the last message;if you have some insights about this guy's...situation,love luck....say it...but just going around the subject....it just makes me laugh and nothing else,please do not get offended !

Sorry, u get me wrong again. lol.. i am just stating things as it is. why would i want to incite anything that involved U? there is no gain for me to do that. I am just stating a formula, which u can substitute the person of interest into the situation. becoz u knew more about his stories. after u substituted, u can cross check how many factors are met and if all are met, the green light should be on. if one is not met, the degree of success drops.

at this point of time, it does not matter what his chart is, becoz even if his chart is full of women, if he dun have time, means he has something more important in his heart, and putting r/s aside, isnt this sounds logical?

Pls do not self explain anymore as i have clarify with u that this is suppose to be a putting urself in a woman shoe, NOT the physical u. I believe u value your family and ur integrity. Pls pardon me if i misled u to the area of discomfort. i will be careful of my presentation infuture. Pls do not get offended anymore.

Off topic:Firehorse
,a big warm hug to you,sorry for being too sensitive nowdays...one of my twins has big problems,health related( very enlarged heart,2.5 times bigger than normal size so that baby will not stay alive after the birth)...and I obssess over it...and as hard as I try not to let that to get the best of me,it does;Thanks God...the other one is 100% fine....so I should focus on the positive,but for sure it is not easy;I try to get my mind away from my own problems and see other's problems...I keep wondering why...and I think of all the possible answers...but I stil do not find my peace...I wonder maybe I did something very wrong and this baby....is paying for it all...or ?I wish all the best sweety,we are both wonderful human beings with no intention to harm anybody...so we can clear the itsy-bity of misunderstanding....and we go on.

Dear Delia888,



I will wait till our "Lord" is coming back.





People who born in 1970, female or male has something special in my life.


I will have a look in his chart, normally I try to avoid female 1970 too for a special reason.



I had also a good friend who was born in 1970, I left him to go overseas. He was a good friend of mine, just a friend.





Saphora