He put a lot of energy in his study although the result is not fantastic. What would be his luck pillar in his 40 age till old. I am weak now ..will he be able to take care of me with current escalate high expenses ? Can you elaborate more detail on his chart. The month and DM is crash..what does it mean ? Rooted in month of earth ..what it mean ? Day (geng) and Year (xin) will that be good ? Jia wood in hidden year and day is Yi wood, wealth is good or no good ?
Hour Day Month Year
Yi Geng Wu Xin
Rooster Chen Dog Hai
This is a fact, a fact that wealth and ability to change things in his life is largely controlled by his wife.
If you truly wish to be taken care of in ways that you think his wife may obstruct,
I would say that you will need to 'fall into her good books'.
I know this is atrocious as you're the elder afterall, but you may have to check your own attitude and outlook in life.
This is perhaps one key thing I can offer to you, and also from your chart.
Changing your attitude and the expectations of how you would expect others to treat you, can really make a DIFFERENCE FOR YOU.
Sorry to take so long to reply. I read your lazy son's bazi, and you said he is lazy. So, i dont have anything to say but rather to think, whats his interest ? this one better to follow his interest... ask him whats his interest ?