Thanks Bernard.
Think I'll use Eight mansions plus yearly Flying Star like you suggest as its more straightforward.Will try to put up the plan for you to
check once I figure out how to attach it here!
My sister has a steady bf and would like your opinion whether he's a BMW or Proton Saga..haha.
When you are free,give me some comments especially wealth and marriage luck.
His bazi

Jia Bing Xin Ding
Wu Xu Hai SI

Thanks again
Har

Dear har

Hmmm….a word of caution, need to be mindful of the people around him especially next few years. Best advice is to lie low and take cover.


Bernard

Hi Bernard,
Was away for Hari Raya hols in remote place without internet.Regarding sis bf,I really don't understand.Isn't he Weak Bing Fire,so next few luck pillars should be good??What shows he should be wary of people around him?Please explain.Now I am getting worried for my sis as he likes to dabble in the share market.
Marriage -wise he should be all right ,correct?

Har

Dear har,

When you determine the strength of the DM you not only look at the season but also the hour of birth and the surrounding elements. His DM is Bing Fire born in the Wu hour is like a sun shining strongly in the hot noon hour. Further supported by the Ding Fire and Jia Wood and together with the DM are strongly rooted.

The season Hai clashes with Si and also sitting on ”Repose” in the 12 stages of life cycle will reduce it strength. So overall the strength of the DM is considered as Strong.

His new decade luck will be Ding Wei in which Wei will combine with Si and Wu to form a seasonal combination of Fire. When a seasonal or 3 harmony combination is formed it will boost the strength of the resultant element in the Heavenly Stem. A volcano is going to be erupted so he really needs to be mindful. Since his Rob Wealth Star is being boosted and sitting beside his Wealth Star he needs to vary of people or villain who will be robbing his wealth.

There are no major issue in his marriage. Have they decided when to get marry?


Bernard

Dear Bernard,
All this while i thought he was Strong.This business of counting Strong,weak and the rest is really hard to master.I really ENVY you..haha.Father died young in 2009.They recently bought a new house and intend to marry next year .Any problems with that?

Har

Dear har,

Did he has a high urge to marry this year?


Bernard

Hi Bernard,
I supposed you can say 'yes"- they intended to marry this year-end but my sis will be away for a course and may not have time to prepare for the wedding.Then his mum consulted "someone" who told them its better to marry next year- Snake year.
How did you deduce that?

Har

Dear har,

His spouse star which is Xin Metal 入墓 or enter into the grave of Xu Earth. This may explain why this guy is still single at this age. So when Chen Dragon year fly in it will clashes Xu to release the spouse star out of the grave. You may say that since Xu is in sitting in the spouse palace and marry on a direct clash into spouse palace year will not be good. But as for him it will be under special case since there is a need to clash it so as to bring out the spouse star. So I reckon that he has high urge of getting marry this year.

Well next year the Xu grave will close again and there may be a possibility of him losing interest or his marriage affinity may disappear off. hehehe…To rectify this situation I will advise that they should register their marriage this year and perform the customary ceremony next year since your sister has other commitment.


Bernard

Hi Bernard,
Eh,doesn't his Xin beside the DM count as Wife Star?Furthermore it combines with Bing DM.They have been together for some years but my sis still young mah.Maybe that's why thye haven't settle down.He's the very loving,loving type of husband woh...

Har

Hi har,

In theory you are right but in practical a strong Bing Fire will reject the combination to transform into another element. Just like a big company will not merge with a small company and change its name. If you are strong why must you give way? However we can see that the DM loves his wife very much since there is a combination effect taking place. His wealth and spouse has a strong weighting in his life.

The 4 Earth elements in the Earthly Branches are complicated and not as easy as we see it. It plays a lot of roles in a bazi chart and I can only explain to you if you buy me dinner hahaha….

Courtship and marriage is a two different thing


Bernard

Hi Bernard,
By the look of it,I need to buy you many,many dinners before I can understand... So the conclusion is he'll love his wife but won't have much luck the next 3 decades,right Sifu?
Thanks for your free tips(without dinner)..haha.
I'll put my house plan for you to check when I have finished figuring out how to arrange my furniture.

Har

It's me again Bernard.
When you have some time to spare from your "commitments"( hehe..I read your other posts),please give some hints to my friend here on her relationship luck.She's worried about the Hurting Officer in spouse palace.

Bing Jia Ji Ren
Zi Wu You Xu

Take your time.
Thanks

Har

Hi har,

Can you please confirm the time of birth. A Jia Wu will not have a Bing Zi Hour Pillar. As she was born on the first day of the month the time of birth is important to check her Day Pillar.


Bernard

Hi Bernard,
Sorry ,I just used the bazi calculator on one site.It's Sep 8(time 2300)
Thanks

Har

Dear har,

Thanks for the feedback as I need to make sure whether it is an early or late rat hour of birth. With Hurting Officer sitting in her spouse palace she may have less affinity in her marriage and it also very likely her spouse will depart earlier than her. Actually her marriage problem is already shown in her Day and Hour clashes. Such clashes indicate that she will face problem with her spouse in her marriage life and may result in mental depression.

As you have said that her hour of birth is 2300 hrs which is right on the dot so I think further confirmation is needed. If she is born on slightly before 2300 hrs then things may not be as bad as it will be.

Bernard

Dear Bernard,
Wow, that's worse than mine.I'll try to clarify with her the hour.Before that,actually she was asking when she's likely to meet her hmm..."soulmate"?

She just broke off with from a long-term relationship recently(her decision).How do you explain that from her luck pillar?

Thanks
Har

Note: Clarified with her.It's really AFTER 11pm.Any "prescription" for your diagnosis?
Har

Dear har,

The quality of her Influence Star is quite vulnerable which may cause some problem to her relationship. Year Pillar has a strong influence to the Day Master because if you don’t sow a crop well in Spring (Year Pillar) you will not see a good harvest in Autumn (Day Pillar). This year Chen clashes her Year Branches Xu which also affected the hidden Xin Metal which is her Influence Star. Her present decade luck cycle also created a destructive clash into her You.

Bazi show us the potential and the best cure is to exercise your Man Luck.


Bernard

Hi Bernard,
[Year Pillar has a strong influence to the Day Master because if you don’t sow a crop well in Spring (Year Pillar) you will not see a good harvest in Autumn (Day Pillar). ]
I don't really understand this statement.Care to explain further?

[Her present decade luck cycle also created a destructive clash into her You.]
Her luck cycle 20-30 is Bing- Wu.Why does it have a Destructive Clash with You?

She was in the long-term relationship for more than 10 years and they slowly drifted apart.She's quite frustrated at that.You mean there are no specific years she MORE likely to meet her soul-mate...all depends on her man-luck?

Sorry if I sound a bit blur today..hehe

Har

Dear har,

Sorry for being too deep hahaha… Year Pillar can represent Spring, Month Pillar is Summer, Day Pillar is Autumn and Hour Pillar is Winter. In Spring season you sow your crop and in Autumn you harvest it. If there is anything happen to your Year Pillar you will not be able to achieve a good harvest in Autumn. Since this year there is a clash in her Year Pillar it will ultimately affected the Day Pillar which is her.

I am very sorry for the mistake on the destructive clash as I have entered a wrong gender in my software. Please ignore my statement hehehe… In this case it may not be that bad but may need to wait for Metal element to fly in to give her the support for her next relationship.

In conclusion she must know that even she is married she must understand that her marriage will be not be blissful and she needs to constantly remind herself to exercise her Man Luck to properly manage it.

I am the blur one and not you hahahaha.


Bernard

Hi Bernard,
Thanks for letting me know I am not that blur after all.Looks like she's worse off than me relationship wise.How about her wealth and health? Any thing to watch out for?

Har