I have been reading the forums and I felt like i should reach out to you. I am in a situation where I am mourning a relationship that i am trying to let go.
I have been with him for 4 years and we have a daughter together. My life seemed like it fell apart when we broke up about a year ago. I have been trying to pick myself up ever since. Its been really hard because we still until recently have been somewhat emotionally involved. Its like we cant let go of each other.
I recently met this new guy ( i am not sure where this will go) but he has made me feel special. I havent spoken to him for a few days now so i am not sure whats going on with him but then again... I am not sure what road to take... I feel broken and lonely... please help me with any information you may have
my DOB 6/17/1977 born at 1108 pm in Puerto Rico
my daughters father is from cuba and he was born 4-11-84 at 0755 am
the new guy was born in the us in GA and his DOB is 9-28-1975
In 2007 I broke up with my ex fiancé and got into a relationship with my daughters father... We still have maintained an emotional relationship and I have been torn as to continue or move on... There is a new guy in my life (very new) so I am not sure what to think of that... New feelings lightens me up but then what if I make a wrong turn... I'm so confused any help would be great... Having a daughter who is 2 1/2 doesn't make things easier... It makes me fight for a family I'm not sure will be... I really like this new guy but I do love my daughters father
Actually for relationship affair, my buddy Dr. Love Saphora is the best person to consult. But lately he is busy with his one thousand pages of Trigrams. Perhaps I will give you my view base on my limited knowledge and hope it can help you in one way or another.
First is to look at your chart, you are a Yi Wood person born in the hot summer season. With support of further Fire elements in your Year, Month and Day Pillar, your chart is indeed very hot. Luckily there is a Water element in the Hour Pillar to help to cool your chart. Fire is your Output element which represents your Hurting Office and Eating God Star. For women when their Hurting Officer Star is too strong it will hurt their Direct Officer Star which is also the spouse star and this will result in tumultuous romantic relationship.
Now I move further into your chart, you have a Hurting Officer-Eating God in Confusion. Since Fire is not your favorable element it is going to exaggerate the situation. The presence of the Hurting Officer –Eating God in Confusion formation makes you highly-temperamental, unpredictable and exhibit a split personality of yourself. This will make it difficult in dealing with people around you because you are not sure what you want.
In your chart it show that you still love your daughter’s dad but unfortunately your present decade luck cycle see a combination which a new lover came into the picture and is taking away your daughter’s dad away from you.
Although money is the root of all evil but without money things will turn ugly. We cannot just drink water to fill our stomach for the sake of love. I cannot help you to make a decision but I can only prompt to you the circumstances. If you are looking for a more stable progress and environment then I should say that your present boyfriend is more outstanding. I will leave the decision to you.
You must always be mindful of your strong Hurting Officer Star and please always stay mindful with your words if you are looking for a stable and long lasting relationship. God will only help those who help themselves.
I hope the above can give you better understanding of your problem and good luck to you.
The "new present boyfriend" ? Kind of confused... We just recently met, n yes it has been a few years since I have felt like this about anyone, I'm scared to start anything and at the same time not sure how he feels... I have strong feelins that make me more confused than ever. Can u elaborate on that?
As I told you before you have a split personality and you don't know what you want. You are just very confuse with your relationship. But this is also very dangerous. As your Hurting Officer Star is very strong, you must learn to mellow down your opinion, expression and words used in the long run.
Bazi is just a potential but you are the driver of your road path so how you want to drive your car depend a lot on your decision at every point of time.
I can only give you the potential and you need to assess the pros and cons yourself.
Ok... I understood that...all I have known for the past 4 years is that I wanted my family n to be with my daughters father... There was no split personality about that... But yet he does neglect me due to his own things but I just wanted to know about this new guys because I have never felt anything for anyone aside from my daughters father
Good to hear that. My suggestion is to weight yourself to see which one can ride alone with you for the rest of your journey. The one that has failed you before, has he changed for the better? or the new one which show more promising attitude.
I wish you good luck and success and hope you make a right choice.
I have decided to walk away from my old relationship n work on myself for a while... The new love hasn't called me and yet I can't get him out of my head... I know the spirits brought him to me... Can I help me with communication with this guy or give me an insight... Inwantto do things right..
In Chinese Metaphysics we talk about the Cosmic of Trinity and this comprise of Heaven (your destiny), Earth (feng shui) and Man (you-the driver) Luck. All have the same weighting. Since you are the driver of your own road path, the final result will depend on your decision and execution.
As I told you before, this gentleman came to your life in your current decade luck. I can’t tell you whether he will be your next spouse, you need to assess and decide yourself whether he fits well into your requirement. You need to ask yourself what is the reason behind your failed first marriage. Does this guy possess the quality that will not allow the same problems to repeat again.