What I try to explain is that even you choose another woman, that woman will not be better than the old one. I want to suggest is that whoever you had been given, be happy with that one. It is better to choose the one you had loved and work it out in time of problems.
I do have a small request.
I send you a picture of the Language of a "REAL MEDIUM". I can not read, only a Real Medium can read it. If that person can read it and write an answer in that language to give it to you home than that person is real. If she can not read and write in that language than that person is just a professional in Face Reading or Astrologers and not a "REAL MEDIUM", that person wants to suggest.
Print it out and give it to the Medium to read, I will wait after 3 April 2012 for your comments.
Some Bazi-readers and Face-readers try to change their name of profession into "Medium" to attract more clients.
I do respect all Bazi or Astrologers for their Professions.
This is not a subject to discuss about Real Medium, the moderators will delete my post and no woman will ever talk to me.
Looking at both of your charts, you guy do really thrilled such kind of adventure and mysteries, I do like it too. You are the first one I do show about Medium and Mysteries.
If I see people in person, I do look how they walked in, how they talk, how they move their eyes and their hands I already gain so much information about them without looking at their DOB.
Another test is for a real Medium:
Eat before you go to that Medium lots of garlic and do not brush your teeth. Put two Garlic in your pocket for you and her. Put a pair of Fu dogs in your handbag with their face in the direction of your face.
There are many other methods I rather not discuss in this forum.
If that person is a Real Medium, you will not even come close to the front gate. Somehow you can not enter the gate and you have to go back home.
My last advice is a Real Medium can not change Summer (Fire-season) into Winter(Water-season), what real Bazi is all about. Bazi is like weather forecast when the storm is reaching your life.
Real Medium is always excitement, right? Just enjoy a day out and be happy or sad for one day and than Life is moving on. Being back to the reality, back to this Forum and chatting with me is more fun.
I will reveal more details bout this "medium". Like you said, she might not be the real medium since she need my bazi and chinese character name to read my life. Most interesting is, she did not use the bazi pillar to read. I heard from my ex that she uses some kind of book, I suspect it is '3 life book' (forcase past, present and future'.
Another interesting is, many people went to her for years...from the whole Malaysia and Singapore because her reading is very accurate as what my ex told me. I willing to go not because this medium can forcast accurately. It is because the reading taking place at the temple with many people looking at. For Chinese, since it is temple and surrounded by many people and also accompany by the close friends in open air, I am relieve. Furthermore, what she decode bout my ex family is damn accurate, including my ex gf's sister whom she describe her husband in details and family background without him in the present (she is going to marry). That is why I am abit curious.
I definitely will bring along the talisman. Hopefully I wont be chased out by the villagers at there. Hahahaz. Ya, chatting mysterious thing definitely make me thrilled and excited. Thats why I like all this thing but too bad, I dun have that luck to do it.
I will update you when I am back. Oh ya, my appointment with medium is 10am.
Forgot to tell u, the medium charge is around RM10 to RM30 ( USD 3 to USD10) which is sealed in ang pow to her. I dont know if the money will go to the temple or her. Of course, we were told by others, not her, to pay more if she found you to be in 'serious problem'. She will advice you on the spot on how to handle it. However, so far my ex family do not have this kind of problem, therefore, her family just pay according to the rate set by the villagers.
I would like to go to try since it is operated in temple and many years already. Another reason is I have many things to ask including career, and land issue (inheritance) and also my grandma which i am facing now.
After learning a few years from thos Forum, my dream is also contributing my knowlegde for the Temple. I already shaved my head.
I am serious.
About your Career, You enjoy too much about fast life and pleasure. Your chart is telling you will destroy all the wealth you ancestors had left for you. It is not looking good. Career needs a Knowlegde or Diploma as a foundation, your Resources are weak and couldn't support that foundation.
Heritage doesn't look good either, it will tear apart, tears will follow. It means lots of arguments about heritage-wealth.
Your grandma is very old, her days will come soon or later, it will hurt you the most. As I said life goes on after the rain.
As I said in the beginning, there are lots of nasty things to expect with or without the Medium.
Just be happy and enjoy life.
What you could do is to reduce the impact is what you hate most: Knowlegde and Study.
Knowlegde and Study will bring happiness into your life. Go back to school or reading books, like Bazi books.
“The imagination conceives a great plan, but there is no reason why it should be a dream.
With sufficient determination, and constant application, all the practical problems can be solved. There are those who declare that the ambition is impossible, but the fainthearted can be proved wrong.”
I have met the medium. Indeed, she was able to draw out talisman and give others. I did have one and she told me to burn it into water and drink it.
Btw, about the relationship, she advice me to get merry after 29 years old (30 years old in Chinese calender). That is to avoid more trouble. I asked her " I have someone I like, can I know what is the final result?" Not very clear and did not indentify who is the ONE i am speaking but with Her power, I can guess she know who I am referring to. She just replied me "It is hard to say. Just go with the flow. Of course, the most important things are that you should eat well and sleep well."
I was like 0.o?
She did say I will destroy the wealth of my ancestor if I stay at home too long. Time to kick off to somewhere else. I cant reveal much here but I will tell u more if I start a thread in Bazi reading. I would like to compare your reading and hers.
I am very flattered that you try to compare my interpretation with a real medium.
It is like you compare me (White belt in Karate) with the Master (Black belt and Medium).
Some questions can not be answered, like an example from the Medium. “It is hard to say, just go with the Flow”.
Sometimes if I am telling the truth, the moderators will delete it, because the truth will hurt somebody. Sometimes I have to adjust my story and highlighted just the Yang-side of the story. I can not answer all the questions, because my knowledge is just started.
Indeed, she is a real medium. Only a powerful person, could able to write a Talisman. A Talisman is like you give the Gods an “Order” to manipulate Destiny. At least people do feel mentally good about it to have a Talisman, but if she could chance “Winter” into “Summer”. I really don’t know.
Sorry to have such offensive words Saphora.
I am not flattering you nor I have the intention to do so. Your advice in all this while did really give me encouragement. After I show my gf on what you explain in previous posts, she indeed have courage and confident to be with me. I do have to sincerely thank you for that!
I have to admit that it is offending to compare your reading and the medium. I seriously apologize on that. Btw, I am quite surprise that you told you just learn Bazi because the way you answer my question is comparable to a senior reader!
The talisman I told you is just to let you know that I am really seeing a medium, not evil shaman. I just want to relieve you because you seems like worrying that I would see shaman in first place. I am happy that you care in the first place. Seriously I have no bad intention other than that.
Btw, I can say, most of the thing you read on my bazi in previous posts did told by the medium too. So, Jia You!
She (Medium) is beyond my imagination, you are lucky to see her. I am like you searching for all the mysteries in the world. You are a good guy, we respect each other, I know that.
To be honest with you, I have no directions. This is because my Nine Star Ki is 1.1.5.
Water means traveling, no Destiny. Some people want to be a Master in Feng Shui or to be a Professional Bazi reader. I don’t have any of it, no purpose and no direction, that’s my weakness. Bazi reading is just a Hobby for me, a self-satisfaction for gaining such of knowledge.
My budget is enough to buy books and for self-study. Now I don’t any books to learn, so I decide to hang around this Forum to have little experiences to build up.
That Medium is different; she has more than just experiences. Someone who can draw a Talisman must be someone.
Drawing a Talisman is the highest Risk you can take and you are in the world of “Sacrifices”. Every time she draws a Talisman, she must give up something. Drawing a Talisman is a gift from heaven; even a Grand master is not able to draw such of Talisman. This is also one of the answers I want to know, searching for the truth.
As you know, Holy people are not afraid to die at young age. They will sacrifice it for you.
I am like a traveler, searching for answers; I don’t really know what to do with those answers when I found it.
Until then I am hanging here around, to practice my Bazi and chatting with a friend like you here in this Forum.
I do like talking about Medium and Mysteries or unexplained phenomenon.
Nice to have people to talk about the mysterious thing!
I willing to be your chat mate if you allow me to!
For your information about my visit, the medium I have said in previous is not an 'ordinary human' when reading bazi. she will be 'enchanted' with the spirit of god when serving visitor like us. When her job is done, the godly soul will leave the body and the person who 'read' my life will return to normal human life. And guess wad, the medium job can be be taken by anyone who serve the temple. Means you will see different people "becoming" the medium at different time in that temple. Only one person can serve as medium at one time.
I do not know what will happen to the person who draw the talisman for me but I think it was the 'god' spirit drew it, by borrowing the physical body of human. I am grateful to them.
Btw, do you know there is one show called 'GUai Tan' documentaries from Hong Kong? i love to watch them!
She was already enchanted when I met her.
Her eyes roll up and sometimes open a bit and not open a bit. Over all, most of the time her eyes are rolled up.
She drank alot of "kao liang" or chinese wine.
I didnt ask if she is already enchanted but she said all my problem first before I have chance to ask her.
her voice is not normal also. She speak mix language coz she need to cope with my mother tongue but she speaks teow chew most of the time.
When I ask questions, she will ask me to draw the bamboo stick from a bamboo casing to predict and explain.
Wow I am really jealous of you. It is a dream of mine to have such kind of experience. One day I will travel around Asia to find such tremendous experience. The world of the other side is a wonderful knowlegde.
It gives you respect for the other world. It is for me amazing story. I do have also real story about seeing ghost or spirit.
I also had a friend, he is chasing Ghost, kind of Ghost buster. He is Catholic, I didn't share much about his Bazi. He did mention about evil Talisman. He told me when you talk about them, they know and they like it.
Through his Bazi, I did notice that his Fire element is very strong, probably his Fire will neutralize the Darkness.
I have heard also other stories, when a place or people do believe in them, ,they do exist.
Like in Europe, they don't believe it. That might be a reason, that they do not exist in Europe.
Maybe one day I will travel with you to see that person.
It is scary, but also excitement and it is a life time experience.
Still I cannot imagine that Enchanting is happening in a Holy ground like within the boundary of the Temple.
I don't know much about the Budhist Law and procedure, Enchanting is still very sensitive in all kind of religion. Such kind of practice I would think is not allow in any Religion. Maybe there is an exception, I donot know.
When you have such kind of experiences your way of think will change dramatically. I am a bit Spiritual about the other world, but I never learn or experience it properly. Throwing the coins for I Ching hexagramd is for my already excitement. My heart beat increase when I throw the coins. Normally your mind must in peace when throwing the coins, but for me it is a mix of scaring and excitement. The problem is I can not always understand fully about the Codes of the Other Side.
Indeed things just exist when you believe if they really exist. In Asia, we really believe all kind of spirits, as long as it is mentioned by the highly respected monk, shaman, or medium. This is the reason why different religions and anisme exist in Asia.
Btw, I will only go to the medium or temple which my friends recommended and have good background. Others I dun trust because I know if a so called 'medium' charge a person thousand of dollars, it is comfirmed either she/he is a cheater or just want suck the blood of us.
I still dont understand why April and another month (I forgot which month) is not a good month for me. This has been told by the medium too. Saphora, mind to explain?
I always explain to people about Bazi and Feng Shui as the Theory of "Tide Water".
The influences of the 5 Planets: Mercury, Venus, Jupiter, Mars and Saturn, our 4 Pillars of Destiny.
I have found from google about the Tides:
Tides (from low-German 'tiet' = 'time') are the rise and fall of sea levels caused by the combined effects of the gravitational forces exerted by the Moon and the Sun and the rotation of the Earth.
This Forces will influence our moods , characters and personality. I often explain about the Energy of Mother Nature that influences our Destiny.
Most places in the ocean usually experience two high tides and two low tides each day (semi-diurnal tide), but some locations experience only one high and one low tide each day (diurnal tide). The times and amplitude of the tides at the coast are influenced by the alignment of the Sun and Moon, by the pattern of tides in the deep ocean and by the shape of the coastline and near-shore bathysphere.
The time and its amplitude you could find it back in our 4 pillars.
Your chart has already double Dragon pillars, this month is also a Dragon month. According to the Theory above, this month has the highest Energy that influence your way of thinking and decisions.
According another tide in your life is in October 2012, it will cause another releasing of Energy.
Our life and our Bazi is just like the Tides of Water, if we know when there is high Water, we don't risk our life to go to the ocean.
It is just like weather forecast, nothing is superstitious or magic about the 4 Pillars of Destiny. We can calculate when the storm or bad weather will come into our life. We can take a umbrella, but we can not stop the rain.
Your Bazi Chart is also the same, like the weather forecast.