I guess career relationship n marriage... Anything u can tell me? I am looking into changing my career but I am
Not sure... I have a daughter her dad is a weak wood rat... Anything on my chart about marriage? Money?
Anything u can tell me... I just got a 6 inch 5 Elment pagoda with mantra as a gift for this year.... Any information would be great... What are the negative things on my chart?
As you could also see that the first 3 pillars are in the Fire-season (Snake, Horse and Goat). These first three pillars are very important and they are dominating your life. The hour-pillar is at Night time and contains Water-element.
Without your time of Birth you could be in the special chart like: Extreme Weak DM (turn into a Follow the Leader type). In that case your life/chart will turn upside down. This is very dangerous to decode.
In my experience when you have just only one Resource Star, than it is enough to be independent and not “a Follow the Leader Type”, I will consider your chart as normal and it will be just maximum weak Day Master. Even you were born at 9 pm – 03 am, you are still in the Water-season (Pig, Rat and Ox hours). Time correction is not necessary.
I could immediately there is a problem. How big that problem is we have to find out together. There more than just one problem, but I will try to ease you because it is almost Chinese New Year. I don’t want to upset people with this kind of chart; it is my duty to tell the truth even you don’t like it.
Let’s us start with Love and Romance, I am not the Love-Doctor in this Forum, so I will make it short.
There are two hidden Direct Officer’s Stars (Metal-element). They are weak due to surrounding by Fire-elements. There are Earth-elements to support it. It means you need lots of Luck to find him and to keep him.
During the period 17-27 yo, in this period you had found love. This period was your Direct Officer star strong. Actually you did have two chances.
The 10 year Luck Monkey forms a Combo-Destruction with your Day and Year Pillar. Everything will get perfect or to be disastrous. You are very Weak DM and not rooted, you couldn’t handle the overwhelm pressure. It went all wrong with love.
If you were married during your 27-37 yo, there are 7-Killings waiting for you. 7-Killing star for a woman is her boy friend and not her husband. In this period you could face a separation and be someone’s just second wife.
A possible bad Love Luck was in year 2007, this year the father of your daughter was leaving you.
Could you please tell me more about year 2007 about your marriage?
Hi! Thank younso much for taking the time out to help me with my chart.
To answer your question, in the year 2007 I separated from my fiancé. We were together for about 7 years and I fell out
Of love. It was a sour relationship and at that time my daughters father came into my life. We became official in August 15 2008. I got pregnant in may-June 2009 and had my daughter Juliette Feb 11-2010. Him and I separated before the end of 2010 and at the present moment we are living apart but still very much in contact. I have a depandacy problem and I know I need help. I don't want to loose my family for my emotional
Instability. Please help me try to find some sort of balance. I am open and willing to try and do anything that will benefit me and my family.
Again you don't know how much I appreciate you helping me with my situation.
Born: June 17, 1977
Time: 11:09 pm
P.s. my daughters father his information is
Born at 7:55 am
Santiago de Cuba!
Thanks so much!
Last Edit: 1 year, 10 months ago by marilinda77. Reason: Removal of names
Your daughter will be a gorgeous girl when she is growing up. She will be fine later; you don’t need to worry about her.
Is her father born in 11 April 1984? He is quite young, 7 years younger. Knowing a younger person is much better than an older one.
27-37 is just biting through, 7-Killings is also hardship for a weak person like you. You have the intentions to make fast money. You could split half and half, if you don’t have other choice. This way you could minimize the maximum losses.
37-47 yo, in this period is very good for you. A Direct officer Star is not only represents your husband, but also other good things in life. Like: having an impeccable reputation, command respect from those around you – honorable, law abiding and ethical.
This star accompanies the Direct Wealth Star. It means in this period you will earn the right money through hard working and getting respect from people surrounding you.
The coming 30 years life will be much better and happiness is on your side.
There are potential for Money or Wealth, the only problem is are you strong enough to carry those heavy loads.
The only way to balance your life is living near a big swimming pool or near the sea. Sometimes working at the swimming pool could improve you luck. Working in a café serving drink could also one of the options.
Your heart is being overloaded and needs to be calm down. It is getting better year by year.
The other good news is Yin Wood as DM is a survivor; it means even in hot summer, grass will survive easily. You can do it and together with your daughter, both of you will get through this hardship.
Bazi is telling you when the storm is coming; your storm had been over. More sunshine is coming back into your life.
Feng Shui is like building a safety house during the storm. Try to rent a house near Water-surrounding like a pond/lake or river/beach. You could draw your house and surrounding so I could give a second opinion. Keep the house clean and tidy works more effective than having all kind of modern Feng Shui stuff. It will just boost temporary your mental state. I can do more if you have an own house.
Health is part of Human Luck, knowing your body and health could guide you the right way. To balance your overloaded Heart pressure, you could take Fish oil to increase your veins and blood vessels. High Blood pressure will destroy those internal veins and organs first. The other option is having Acupuncture treatment. Only Acupuncture could release your internal Qi-flow. Releasing and moving of your internal Qi-flow will automatically increase your other 5 aspects of life. This is the highest recommendation ever been told. It is up to you if you believe or not. Nowadays they used laser Acupuncture, so painless and no needles.
Summary your life:
Bazi: the storm had been over.
Feng Shui: draw a house plan or living near lake/river/beach or swimming pool: having a little cheap water-fountain in house: rectangle land and house.
Man-Luck: take vitamins (Fish oil and Vit. E) And eat healthy, increase health-expectations. Take care with your heart and blood pressure.
If you have any other questions please ask; Feng Shui or Bazi, they are the same to me.
Wow, you really should be more careful online, Marilinda. I suggest you not give out such personal details on the Internet. Your name and your family members' names are not necessary for Bazi so you should delete that information at the very least.
Thank you so much! I have always wanted to move by the water and this year it's one of my goals. The only question i have is that the husband star... Would that be with my daughters father or someone else. I don't know of bazi tells u that. As long as my daughter n I are healthy I am so much more at peace! Thank u!
Lost of blessings to you!
Shogun you don't have any idea the peace of mind you have given me. I really would like for u to do one last thing. My mom is very sick she has Parkinson's disease. I feel horrible n I I wish to help her but a lot holds her back in her life. For instance her language, her health, depresion, my dad. Please advice me any way you can to see what I can do to improve her life. Her sob is November 10- 1937 she believes she was born early in the am but there is no telling. She was born in holguin Cuba. Any help would be great! Thank you so much for taking your own personal time out to look at my chart and answer my questions... Blessings to you!!!!
My father was born in Santurce Puerto Rico
November 17 1938
Not sure of the time!
Oh and by the way, yes my daughters father is a great guy. Reliable and loves his daughter. I feel our breakup was a lesson for me to learn more about myself. I need to find control in certain areas in my life n not depend on things to make me happy. I need to work on that! I hope to get settled this year career wise so I can find a home near the water. At the moment I live with my parents but there is a reason for everything.
Your parents had passed the 60 years cycle, it will be fine with them. It is is normal to have age-related illness and old age bad health. I cannot give any valuable advices fir them.
What I have noticed was that you took all their Fire-elements to you. The good news is if you are living with your parents your family will be in Harmony. They do need your Fire-elements to keep them happy and you do need their Water-elements to cool you down.
Mother Nature always find a solution for you, only you couldn't see that. You do need to live near the Water, just to be with your parents is enough. Of course they cannot live forever to support you and you for them.
It is not your fault that you made mistakes or life was turning the other way. Life is like a "Black-Box" of life, it is not you but the entire environment which had created you what you are become now.
It is all in your Destiny-Code, even meeting me is part of your life.
Life is a long journey with lots of bus-stops on the way. Finally we all face the same end-Destiny.
Since I studied Bazi, there is no bad or good people anymore. We all are part of our Destiny-Code, everything has a meaning. Bad or good days are just part of our life. I never imagine that I have learned Bazi for so far, now I do know it was part of my Destiny: Knowing Bazi. It is just beyond my own imagination how the world had created me from the people I have met, included you.
I wish you all the good Luck in your family and you.
thanks again for taking so much time out of your life to help me with my chart. I wish you many blessings. I feel sense of peace when I think of you. Tall Slender but IDK... Maybe my mind is playing tricks on my. I am very spiritual and that is an area in my life where i want to experience the most growth.
My life presently has taken a turn for the better. Weird cause career wise what has been going on has been something completely new. Nothing to do with my profession at all. To give you an idea, I went to support my daughters father for a commercial casting. They asked me if I would like to audition and I said yes. Well I actually got the job and I leave on cruise on the 18th to shoot for the commercial. That is something so unexpected but wonderful at the same time. I have always envisioned me doing modeling or something like that, but have never applied myself towards it. It has been more of a dream than anything until now. I am still going to finish my school and become an ARNP in Nursing, but i really want to pursue this acting/modeling thing. What do you think? Any thoughts?
ANything I should be cautious about?
thanks! I look forward to hearing from you! I hope you are having a wonderful day, year, life!
u are a follower chart...when rat year...come u mother will have health problem with zi-wu clash...when pig will arrive...will clash u dm...
u are a very inteligent person but very rezerve...when u want to show u ideea...u hide inside u,very flexibile with quick mind...
I think that chen-ren year will be good for u...2010 was a bad year...because harme`d u dm ...with yin clash the si...u little snake!or husband...because geng is rooted-as hidden elemnt into si
u favorable elemnt are fire,earth,metal...bad for u is water and wood...
this lp is bad for u...as direct officer inside si in COMBINE with you-lovers...not a true man,like a husband...seem that u want to have a boyfriend...and less a husband...u should be able to take the money and make the money very easily with ji-indirect wealth...u favourable elements is reveal on the steam...u SEE THE WEALTH AND TAKE!
Hi! I am somewhat confused? I dont understand the terminology so when you say that it was a bad year because of ...harme`d i dont understand what you are saying. My moms health is already bad so please elaborate a little more on her health. Also my relationship with my daughters father. In 2010 was the year that my daughter was born. I dont know why that year was a bad year for me. Please let me know if the storm has passed. Career wise I am in the process of changing career paths. What is a follower chart
time: 1109 pm eastern time
born in Santurce PR
i live in florida
my mothers DOB is 10/10/1937
she was born in santiago de Cuba
During the day
my daughters fathers
born in santiago de Cuba
at 7:15 am
my father his DOB is 10/17/1938
born in day time