I hope someone here could help to read my fiancee Bazi in terms of health, wealth/sucess and relationship. He have been very kind to me, but throughout the years I feel that luck is not on his side. I would like to help him improve his luck based on Bazi / fengshui. Thank you in advance.
He used to tell me his luck was better during his late teens and early 20s (1997 to 2002). He had a good start with business opportunities in year 2004 but everything went downhill since 2005 and he has been keeping a low profile until now. In the year of 2012 he seems to be doing slightly better. He also told me, once a sifu given him advice not to be close to women to avoid bad luck.
Thanks for the feedback and base on his past event he looks to be on a moderately strong side. Since he is strong his favorable element will be Water and Metal, Wood is neutral. Fire and Earth is unfavorable to him.
His chart profile belong to “The Diplomat or Direct Officer” and individual who fall under this profile is gentle and kind, Besides being humble and polite, he is also reliable, disciplined, down-to-earth and helpful. His sense of responsibility earns him respect. He can do well in civil service or military & police force.
The main problem in his chart is the missing Output element Metal. When an Output element is missing, his personality and communication abilities will be affected. He will exhibit extremely bland personality. He can be classified as world class boring person, and also easily been bullied because he don’t know how to push back when he is pushed around. As Output Star is closely linked to creativity, innovation and problem solving ability, so without an Output Star he may lack the above abilities or exhibit a low level of creativity and not proficient in thinking out of the box.
Without an Output Star he will only know how to generate Wealth through sweat and hard work. This will stress him out because with so much effort he will only receive a small return.
I don’t understand why the sifu said that. Personally I feel that it is better for him to marry so that the spouse can help him in his career. Furthermore the spouse star is also sitting at the correct palace and also his favorable element. Maybe the sifu thinks that his spouse element will contaminated his Day Master Earth to mud. But his Fire element is very strong supporting his Day Master, so it shall not be an issue as long the Fire is around.
Present decade luck cycle is average, now his influence is more on the Zi Water which is better for him. His following decades will see him enjoy better luck with Water and Metal element coming to him. Good luck!!!
His weakness is innovation and expression perhaps you can help him to improve in this area. This is an Output Star which is very important to generate Wealth.
He shall use more blue, black, white and metallic color and avoid red and yellow. In term of career he can concentrate on his favorable element or his chart profile which is civil service. You can check on the 4 Pillars page on element jobs posted by RapaNui for reference.
Hope the above decoding can help him to understand himself better and by working on his strength and improving on his weakness, he shall be able to enjoy a smooth ride.
Thank you Bernard for the explanation and kind advice. I guess it true. Now I know why he has been feeling depressed. Sacrificing himself for others and working hard without much returns. It must really hard for him. His health is also deterioting and have skin problems due to stress from work. He does his own business in IT line. Is this field suitable for him? I find him creative in his works and he has done a good job in renovating our house. He is more on the artistic side I would say.
You have mentioned that due to lack of metal element, communication will be tough. I'm surprised by that as others find him charismatic and approachable. He understands others and could start a convertion with anyone. Although surrounded by good friends, he still feels lonely. He needs to chat with others to fill up his soul. I'm not a good listener, I'm not sure if I'm a good partner. However, my DM is metal, does it help in any sense? How about children in the future? Regarding the advise from the sifu, it is to stay away from women as they might cause problem to him. He also agree that it's true. Before knowing me, the women around him have been causing problems to him. I hope I am not the one causing him misfortune all these years
In term of element in jobs, I should say that if he dealing in computer technology like the hardware then it should be classified under the Fire element but if he is dealing with Informative technology like the Internet then it should be under Water element.
He has many superficial friends but few close confidants. His friends find him harmless due to his missing output.
Advice him to erase what the sifu has said. This is not going to be healthy in both of your relationship in the future because he will always use this as an excuse. If you are strong DM Metal then both of you will be comparable but beside this there are other factors that need to take into account. His destiny causes his own misfortune, nothing to do with you. Tell him that I say it is good to get marry now so that he can trigger his favorable element Water. hahaha:lol: