Please when you have time help me to understand and to be a stronger lady.
My life is very very hard from 2007.I'm from Europe but I feel the truth at the East. I tried macrobiotics, Ayurveda, acupuncture, Yoga breathing , feng shui books. Now I found Chinese astrology and find out why is so hard for me from 2007.And how hard is going to be this decade, specially 2014. I am master of Math, work in IT. Married, two small kids,great kids. Problems with weaknes , health, husbands family . Pressure on job passed but problems with husband arise last yaer.Just I need to be stronger for everything, not to sinc.
By right you should start your own thread rather than intruding into someone else thread. I hope Dingri will not mind and allow us to discuss here.
As you know you are under the Direct Officer chart which makes you an upright, gentle and kind person. You are also reliable and down to earth type with full responsibility that command respect by others.
You are a strong Yang Wu Earth and such kind of earth is like a big rock which rendered you to be quite stubborn or self centered. Your favorable elements are Water and Metal and Wood is neutral, Fire and Earth are your unfavorable element. Although Wood is neutral to you but since you are under the Direct Officer chart, government service jobs or law enforcement is very suitable to you. You can also look for your favorable element Water and Metal career. You may wish to access the following link to look at the job element reference. www.wofs.com/index.php?option=com_kunena...=5317&Itemid=161
By the look of your chart it seems that your accomplishment depends a lot on your own effort. Being strong you need to concentrate on leadership orientated activities or job that involve supervision, management or overseeing people.
Your Output Star is weak and you have only one hidden Eating God star. This will result you being introvert and also you may not aware of your talent or skill. You may have a lot of ideas but you cannot put them together and express your thoughts.
Your wealth element is favorable but weak which mean that you need to put in more time or effort at work to see good outcomes. But because it is weak you may tend to be passive rather than pro-active when it comes to work. As such it is important for you to make an effort and be more focused on your job and train yourselves and look out for opportunities for advancement.
Unfortunately for women who have strong Output Star or Influence Star will usually face with relationship or marriage problems. Strong Output Star like Hurting Officer Star will attack your spouse star and likewise strong Influence Star like Direct Officer (your spouse star) will attack you and at the same time drain your wealth.
Your present decade luck cycle has a self punishment in your spouse palace and that could cause some relationship problem at this stage. Presently he exhibits some extreme personality and you may find it disturbing. You need to be mindful and don’t do stupid things to upset him.
Your present and next decade luck cycle is not in your favor but will start to improve when you reach 51 onward.
Hope that the above give you an understanding of yourself and please work on your strength and improve your weakness. In this way you be able to exercise your Man Luck to flow the chart to your advantages.
How do you differentiate the chart from being a "Follow Intensity" chart and a "Strong Day Master" chart. I'm using a chart calculator that gives the pillars along with the "type" of chart and these are the possible types:
Fake Follow Son
Fake Follow Wealth
Fake Follow Power
Transformation Into Wood
Transformation Into Fire
Transformation Into Earth
Transformation Into Metal
Transformation Into Water
I see the chart I attached the pic for as a Strong DM, but it recommends it as a Follow Intensity. How do I determine which one or eliminate the possibility of other chart types?
To follow intensity you need to fulfill the following conditions:
1. Day Master must be very weak without supporting elements
2. Day Master must not have root.
3. The dominant element leading must be very strong without opposing and draining element or with very small weak opposing and draining element.
Looking at your chart you cannot be follow intensity, you are just a Strong Ji Earth.