In my life, friends do not last long
And ppl come and go,

I want a close r/s with someone ..

But no one is my friends
I wonder why

Using Purple star astrology, i wish to know y

13/7/1991
Female

anyone wants to help

me out?

Becos you want to take control and have the final say, that frighten your friends away. Be-careful with your words and expressions, it might indirectly hurt them.

thank u so much

i am not sure what is the cause of me having no friends
but perhapes is due to my self centeredness
i will try to change this bad habit of mine
but i really do hope to find my grp of close friends too
life is lonely without friends

You can find friends anywhere, i do believe there's someone who would like to know you better and would like to be your friend. You just have to look around. try keeping in touch with old classmates or playmates and get to know them better.

For you have to have friends, it's better if you'll be more interested to them than making yourself interesting for them..

Good Luck!

Hi,


I have a very limited basic understanding of bazi,however I did notice you have three sheep in your 4 pillars and I believe that is a conflict,of what i do not know!LOL! However hopefully someone kind will read it for you and help you figure it out.

Wearing Emeralds promotes partnership,and friendship.
Wearing Jade is believed to attract good luck and friendship,Jade stabalizes the personality and integrates the mind with the body.
Wearing Lapis Lazuli bonds relationships in love and friendship and aids expressing feelings and emotions.

I love crystals and stones and I am an advid collector,its hard not to be attracted to their amazing energy.If you get a stone make sure to cleanse it with a salt water wipe or leave it under the full moon light.Pick out what you are attracted to and give the stone a specific intention that you are using it for.

Of course this is just another means,good luck with whatever you decide always follow your intuition.

Zenstone

Zenstone wrote:
thank u anywa,,, i really want to know the prob.....in built since i am in p sch ..lol
getting sick of it and become disillusioned with fwenships..not sure if it exists anymore .. lol

According to some sources of Purple Star Astrology it says...

"Your friends, peers and colleagues will be powerful and helpful, but their social status will be
higher than yours. And this thing will dissatisfy you a lot.


I think this may or may not be a destiny.
You are about 20 years old. It is hard when you are in your 20s to find long term, good,
loyal, trustworthy, kindhearted and true friends. Give yourself a little time and understanding.
This is a challenge for you in your early years but as you get older this will be easier.

Right now you are often around friends who are probably very sensitive, you say or do things
which can hurt them , even though you do not realize this. I think deep down you are trying
to be helpful but it comes across as strong. Ironically you are sensitive too. People pull away.
On the outside you are a strong and powerful person and on the inside you are also kind. Many
weak people are threatened or uncomfortable around those who are confident. When you
do find a good friend it will be another strong person that challenges you. And you will have
to let your guard down and show that you are also vulnerable, insecure some times and
sensitive. This is a hard lesson to learn, do not be too hard on yourself.
Be good to yourself or you will suffer bad headaches. In time with practice you will make friends
that last and are loyal.

Practice being the friend to others that you want to have for yourself, and in time you will
have a good friend by your side.

hi thanks for helping me out

i hav been waiting for answers for very long liao /not many replies haha
anyway ..yes i have been strugglin with fwneship since...pri sch
my frend never last long...... at most 2 years hten fadeaway liao....hard to find freins wno can understand me anyway is this based on ya reading of my bazi or purple star?

Yes

btu dont u need my birth date?
haha or is this a general reading one?

13/7/1991
Female

Is this your Birthdate?

If not, Forgive my information. My information was for this birthday.
Blessings from above.

yep it is;0
but i thot the birth time is required?

of course but if you do not know you can onlyapprox pillars.
sorry if I was not helpful.
I also do astrology and without the time of birth the above is what I see.
I see a more positive outlook then the Purple Star experts in the world.
Perhaps because I try to be happy.


If you are happy you will find more friends.
Blessings from above

Join fitness club u get new frens

WRC wrote:
Hi WRC,
Can u pls teach me astrology…I wan to study.

anyone kind enuf to help me see?

Several people have offered help in this thread but you seem not to hear it.

It has been pointed out that you are self-centered, selfish, and bossy. You said as much yourself!
Who would want such a person as a friend?
If you want others in your life it is a simple thing: think more about them and their needs, feelings and less about Me Me Me
To have a friend, you must BE a friend.
Listen more and talk less. (So many people have replied to you and yet you keep posting "Won't someone reply to me?" That would make any friend crazy.)
Do not look only at what they can do for you.

Looking to your horoscope for an explanation will not solve the problem. Only by growing and developing a kinder, compassionate, less self-centered personality can you change your situation. Go out and practice that and then come back to tell us how it is going.

The great news is, as was posted above, friends are all around and it is never too late. When you change to be a friend, friends will be there for you.

On further reflection, I suspect that you see yourself as quiet, kind hearted while others see you as showy and proud. You will have to work to become more open to others in your feelings and to allow friends to get close to you. You are a private person but they don't see that.

The graves tend to be lonely. I got four and am a loner