Hi everyone.

I am new to Feng shui, currently I start to check my kua number and my husband kua number are totally opposite. I don't know which is the best direction to place our bedding.

we both born in 1980 - my kua number is 4 my husband is 2. our bed direction is at North east which mean for me is total loss, we been living in this house for 5 years now. and I realize my job was not good my health is turning bad I am so afraid that I might even loosing my life.. and I don't want to move to my good direction because I don't my husband to get hurt.

I wonder is there a good direction that can compromise us both?

your help is much appreciate..

Thanks,
Elaine

If he is the main breadwinner pick another good direction for him in the room,it will of course still be a bad direction for you but it won't be your total loss direction. You can also place the health symbols in your room by your bed.Look up everything in placement you can do in your bedroom for health. Is your bedroom affected by the 5 or 2 flying stars? Look at the natal chart for your home there are easy cures for these stars this will also help your health and loss if you can figure these out.
Don't worry too much there are always solutions in feng shui to help alleviate non postitive chi.

Zenstone

Elaine Luu wrote:

Try NE3 direction. NE all is your husband Sheng Qi, NE3 (third 15 deg of NE) is your Tian Yi (this is Na Jia technique).

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Thanks Zenstone, Rapanui for your help..

Zenstone what is the Health Symbols? sorry I am not to familier with Feng shui... u know I would love to hire a feng shui consultant to help me out but honestly I couldn't afford to do that right now.. since u know I been sleeping in this position for 5 years now I am sure you can figure out how bad my situation is... (sigh)

right now I think I am just gonna try RapaNui idea.. it sound like pretty good direction for both of us.. I just hope my room would allow me to do so now..

if you have more idea, I would like to hear it..

your help is much appreciate..

Elaine.

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Should follow the breadwinner, Husband strong then you will be strong

Hi seniors,
Questions?
1.How if the wife earns more than the husband?
2.Husband is retired and financial net worth more than his wife?
Thank you for sharing.

follow the breadwinner. not the wealthiest

Hi Evochew,

In our modern society;both wife and husband are working.
My question is if wife average monthly income is more than husband;who is the breadwinner then.

Thank you for sharing.

In that case, is wife, Wife bazi is much stronger than the husband. For some case i women bazi, the husband star tend to be weak.

Hi Evochew,
If next year husband's average monthly income higher than wife, breadwinner change to husband?
Do we need to adjust this whenever income changes?
Thanks for sharing.

let me get this correct, if the wife income is more than the husband by 10%-30%, this mean nothing.
My previous thread was base on who is the strongest . Example like some women there are very capable in business while the husband is just working merely to sustained. In this case we should always focus on the women as she is more capable(Base on Bazi )

If you were just normal couple who are working or doing business regardless of the income high or not, it shall look at the husband.

For fengshui enhancement,we dont just focus on a person, we will try to accommodate both of them.

Please advise. thanks

Hi Evochew,
Can't advise since you are more senior than me.
I can share the logic.
Every much agreed to what you said.

The fact.. A man is the head of the house.

Even the strongest woman needs a "Guan" star to get married that means - she is subdued and to be guided.
Its should not be exactly who earns more. A happy submissive wife can also earn more than her hubby.

My humble suggestion is:

1st option: Follow the man's direction if it doesnt had adverse impact on the wife (whether she earns more or not).
2nd option: CHoose a comprising direction that is comfortable for both.
3rd option: IF it fine for the man, follow the wife's (dominant breadwinner) direction.

Bed is where we rest. Harmony comes before everything. If the man is happy to give-in then so be it.

Vincenzo_84 wrote:
That's was a wonderful presentation you put up there..maybe better than any of those practitioners out there..or am i talking to one?