Hi kymta,
Nice to meet you and sorry for the delay. I hope that my decoding can help you to understand yourself better. As usual I will decode the root of your chart and present decade and annual luck is not taken into consideration but it will have some degree of influence in term of your character and behavior.
Your Day Master is Gui Yin Water and is very Strong. Your chart profile fall under “The Friend” Individual fall under this profile is full of confidence about life and has your own opinions as well as ideas. With firm beliefs, you stay focused to achieve you goals through sheer diligence. You are a hard person to persuade or influence due to your strong sense of pride. Thus you will not surrender or give in unless the other party proves to be more capable.
Since your Day Master is Strong your favorable element will be Wood and Fire. Earth is neutral to you and Metal and Water will be your unfavorable element.
As your Day Master is strong it is advisable for you to take up tasks or activities that involve in supervision management or overseeing people in your work place. You will perform better in task that relate to the productive aspects of the organization such as coming up with ideas, marketing, driving sales and executing strategies rather than task or activities that relate to developmental or supportive aspects of the organization like customer service, relationship management and R&D.
You may not know or aware including your surrounding people that you have talent or skill or ideas because you need times to nourish it. You may find it hard to put those ideas down on paper or to express your thoughts and this may affect the outcomes or positive results.
You will have an easy time attaining financial success in your life. You are naturally workaholic and your hard work usually brings about positive outcomes for you. The more you work, the greater your advancement or progress, especially when it comes to your financial capacity and growth.
You are often projected with a greater measure of leadership than you actually possess. You are seems to be more powerful and intimidating than you really are. You know when to hold back and when to push forward and also inherently be able to risk manage your actions to ensure they never go too far.
You are easily duped or gullible because you are either out of touch with reality or live in permanent state of false hope or ignorance. You are scatterbrains, often appear muddled and confused or just permanently in a daze or blur.
You prefer to trust you own instincts, even though these instincts have rarely served you well in the past. You love to choose the path of least resistance, or worse, the least practical option and if you can you prefer to rely on someone else to deal with your problems.
You are surrounded by many friends but a majority of those friends will be fair-weather friends. Your friends are unreliable in time when you need help or rather you have many superficial friends but few close confidants.
You will also have difficulty saving money or has poor financial management skills. You like to take short-cuts in life but end up none the wiser or better as a result of your short-cut driven mindset. You have a tendency to talk only and no action type.
Conclusion
Your chart is rather cold since you are born in the Winter season and also in the Pig hour. Bing Fire which is like the sun is good to regulate your chart and to melt the ice. Unfortunately you only have Ding Fire protruding in your stem with Bing Fire hidden inside the Earthly Branches. Ding Fire is like a candle fire and will not be of much help to prevent the Water from frozen. When Water is frozen you will tend to display a stubborn and opinionated character. There are only two elements after combination in your chart and both element are in conflict. Your Fire element is constantly under attack by the Water so in term of health you must take care of your blood and heart.
For career you can go for your favorable element job which is Wood and Fire. Your Wealth element is strong but is pressured by Water and there is a Rob Wealth Star which is your unfavorable element is sitting beside your Wealth Star. So in this case I will advise that it is preferable not to start your own business.
In term of marriage you may need to place some effort in your marriage life. It takes two to tango and a blissful marriage need a lot of tolerance, patient and forgiveness. Bad marriage luck in the bazi does not necessary mean marriage problem. You can exercise your Man Luck to improve it.
As for feng shui you can use for green, red and purple color. You can also sleep with your head pointing to East, Southeast and South direction.
I am busy lately so I will only decode your chart for your understanding and in regard to your boyfriend chart I may have to KIV for the moment but I will come back to it when I have time. Sorry about that.
Bernard
