Hi Mother,
first of all ur mindset must be set at a correct direction.
i believe u mindset is to work and earn money to raise up ur child right? if yes STICK to this no matter what happens!
because while u are achieving these u will meet men along the way. anyone who invites u to a r/s, make sure u tell him ur mindset, if they are not ready or answers like give a try, then dun bother to start. ONLY accept Confirm Answers. if not u will meet those kind of men u are meeting now. DUn be afraid u will meet no guys, I just saw the miracle happen to my friend.

I know ur understand ur situations, so it will takes even more time and more people to meet.
Hence BELIEVE in PAtience!